Online dating. The odds are not in your favor

[El Diablo Blanco]

I'm talking to one chick on PoF. Said she's been messaged by close to 950 guys in the two weeks since she joined. Has gone on 40 different dates since she's started online dating 2 months ago when she joined match.com   Yup. Good luck y'all

[TuHolmes]

She must be after the free food.

[The_Iron_Disciple]

Didn't you make a couple threads on this a while back ?

[Nether Animal]

Plus there are so many bots. Ive only ever matched with bots on tinder.

[Hulkotron]

Plus there are so many bots. Ive only ever matched with bots on tinder.

You must be very very ugly.

[DroppingPlates]

Or to put it in other words: often the use of technology isn't in your favor. It's way more effective to become more sociable.

[Mr Anabolic]

Don't waste your money or your time.

Masturbate more often... it clears your head.

[SF1900]

You must be very very ugly.

Nether Animal claimed to not have gone on a date in 8 years. I suspect he's trolling but who knows.

[johnnynoname]

I've said it before and I'll say it again: participating in online dating is a fail and is rotten to it's roots


don't be desperate
do something with your life that you're passionate about
while you are doing that thing you're passionate about then you'll find someone and that someone will connect with you because you share the same sincere passion
however if you're doing something you're passionate about you'll be to excited from doing that to even care if you meet someone


nobody meets anyone of substance on a internet dating site

"But I met my wife online and she's the love of my life"

no she isn't.......you just tell yourself that

[tres_taco_combo]

I'm talking to one chick on PoF. Said she's been messaged by close to 950 guys in the two weeks since she joined. Has gone on 40 different dates since she's started online dating 2 months ago when she joined match.com   Yup. Good luck y'all

why i avoid that shit like the plague

[johnnynoname]

as a addendum to the above, one thing women find as a automatic turn off is desperation


if you're a guy who puts in the time to make a online dating site then you're automatically desperate and anything you do online is "branches from a poisonous tree"

[DroppingPlates]

as a addendum to the above, one thing women find as a automatic turn off is desperation


if you're a guy who puts in the time to make a online dating site then you're automatically desperate and anything you do online is "branches from a poisonous tree"

Not always necessarily the case, but yeah, you will find many of them on dating sites and not just men.

[TuHolmes]

I've said it before and I'll say it again: participating in online dating is a fail and is rotten to it's roots


don't be desperate
do something with your life that you're passionate about
while you are doing that thing you're passionate about then you'll find someone and that someone will connect with you because you share the same sincere passion
however if you're doing something you're passionate about you'll be to excited from doing that to even care if you meet someone


nobody meets anyone of substance on a internet dating site

"But I met my wife online and she's the love of my life"

no she isn't.......you just tell yourself that

What if you're passionate about sex with women you meet online?

[tres_taco_combo]

Not always necessarily the case, but yeah, you will find many of them on dating sites and not just men.

"well its time to give online dating a try"  

www.adultfriendfinder.co m back in the early 2000s was legit.  i got onto some baitclick, paid for a gold membership and crushed it. all you need is a decent haircut, abs and ability to host and it was game on. tinder got nothing on the old AFF days

[DroppingPlates]

"well its time to give online dating a try"  

www.adultfriendfinder.co m back in the early 2000s was legit.  i got onto some baitclick, paid for a gold membership and crushed it. all you need is a decent haircut, abs and ability to host and it was game on. tinder got nothing on the old AFF days

Been there... yadda yadda yadda... the t-shirt

I remember that page, but always thought it was a big fraud

[tres_taco_combo]

Been there... yadda yadda yadda... the t-shirt

I remember that page, but always thought it was a big fraud

best online site ever... prolly sucks now with all the competition but for a while it was the only game around.

1. gotta pay for gold membership *you cant send messages if you havent paid*
2. only message other gold and silver members (scammers typically dont pay)
3. live in a big city so you can widen your pool of people
4. you gotta do some digging ... takes a while
5. in my early 20s it my number way up (confidence)
6. i had some crazy fucking adventures on there
7. met this bad ass older chic named Kim who showed me the way. 
8. met a very hot russian chic who i never hooked up with - crazy who the fuck she was. -
9. gotta be in great shape - bitches love abs - 
10. alot of dudes will hit you up. I prolly could be in a Rolls Royce if i was gay


i clicked on some add, beat off then signed up. haha  shit was awesome 

[johnnynoname]

What if you're passionate about sex with women you meet online?

this is a different story however

if you're looking for mindless sex then YES online dating is perfect

actually- online dating is AWESOME for that because if pure sex is your goal then you can just lie your ass off on your profile and just play the "numbers game" and just message literally everyone and see what sticks

so yes- online dating is good for sex

however-if it's just sex you want then just pay for a hooker

[Slapper]

I'm talking to one chick on PoF. Said she's been messaged by close to 950 guys in the two weeks since she joined. Has gone on 40 different dates since she's started online dating 2 months ago when she joined match.com   Yup. Good luck y'all

My guess is that she's looking for "special friend$".

If ya know what I mean...

[TuHolmes]

"well its time to give online dating a try"  

www.adultfriendfinder.co m back in the early 2000s was legit.  i got onto some baitclick, paid for a gold membership and crushed it. all you need is a decent haircut, abs and ability to host and it was game on. tinder got nothing on the old AFF days

Makes me think of how I met an ex
She had her tonsils taken out and was sitting around and she put some personal add on classifieds2000.com (We're talking 1998 I guess) and a co-worker found her on there and asked her out. He was too scared to go meet her alone, so he asked me to go along.

She wasn't into him, so I asked him if he would care if I smashed it. He didn't care and so I went ahead and asked her out.

Smash it I did for a bit.

Back to my original point I'm making... Eventually that website was bought by some other company, which in turn has been bought by another, and probably another.

Back then, the internet was a lot of unknown.

[AbrahamG]

Makes me think of how I met an ex
She had her tonsils taken out and was sitting around and she put some personal add on classifieds2000.com (We're talking 1998 I guess) and a co-worker found her on there and asked her out. He was too scared to go meet her alone, so he asked me to go along.

She wasn't into him, so I asked him if he would care if I smashed it. He didn't care and so I went ahead and asked her out.

Smash it I did for a bit.

Back to my original point I'm making... Eventually that website was bought by some other company, which in turn has been bought by another, and probably another.

Back then, the internet was a lot of unknown.

Sometimes your ABT (All Business Tu).  I appreciate when the getbigger in you makes an appearance. 

[cephissus]

Jnn dropping some wisdom itt

[ESFitness]

I'm talking to one chick on PoF. Said she's been messaged by close to 950 guys in the two weeks since she joined. Has gone on 40 different dates since she's started online dating 2 months ago when she joined match.com   Yup. Good luck y'all

Sounds about average. Pof is like fish in a bucket for me. Posted plenty about it here. Could write a book. All youngotta do is stand out and not be the piece of arrogant shit with a piss poor attitude they expect

[Top Poodle]

ESFitness gtfih and post your experiences

[SF1900]

Sounds about average. Pof is like fish in a bucket for me. Posted plenty about it here. Could write a book. All youngotta do is stand out and not be the piece of arrogant shit with a piss poor attitude they expect

When you go on dates, do you tell women that you're a hardened criminal who spent years in maximum security?!??

[ESFitness]

When you go on dates, do you tell women that you're a hardened criminal who spent years in maximum security?!??

I get that you think you're clever and you ask condescending questions and shit thinking you're clever and I won't "catch on", but it's about as lame as your buddy TheScott's "PB&J in jail" jokes.