Relationship question, honest opinions

[booty]

Fuck that, it's somebody else's cocksnot.  Let them deal with it.

You are so harsh. In the last post you said I should have fed my injuried cat to a dingo.

[booty]

haha I wish man but unfortunately they aren’t mine I went from being a single 30 year old man to inheariting them. I’ve grown up learned how to be unselfish. Bitch don’t see it

I know. I was kind of joking. Although logically you are leaving her. But it will affect them big time. And you will miss them also.

[NelsonMuntz]

LOL at asking for advice from a place where 99% of the members are gay, gay virgins, chronic masturbators neutered by their overweight annoying wives or have only had a relationship with one of those fake asian girls on LavaLife and/or Ugandan sailors who have docked their ship in the local port for the weekend.

Gayer than posting video of yourself doing quarter resps with 5 plates per side on hammer dips

[tacobender]

You are so harsh. In the last post you said I should have fed my injuried cat to a dingo.

thanks bro tryin to be real here that’s why I get at my gettbiggers.

[dj181]

    Just get a side bitch. bj181 is single.

your sister has a very tight pussy and asshole

LOVE IT

[Yamcha]

sometimes i wonder why i post here

[doggler]

Corpse, I don't have a sister and the only tight pussy you can get is your moms.

[illuminati]

You sound like you are open to sensible advice. The problem here is that you are not in love with this woman any more. The rule re relationships goes like this: you will get more of the same. Why? Because people can't change.

No woman who loves you would isolate you from your friends and family.  Ending a relationship like yours is never easy. However, you really aren't obligated to look after her children. Of course they will miss you. Not sure if it is good to try to keep seeing them.

She doesn't sound like a reasonable woman. If she were you wouldn't have this decision to make. Eventually you will have no choice but to leave so the question is should it be sooner or later?

To thine own self be true.  Sometimes hard decisions need to be made and it's painful.

Either that, or stay with her and be a fucking man.  Tell her how it's going to be (firmly but nicely).  If you are providing for them and giving them a good life, you need to let her know that you have needs too and that you have a right to expect some things of her.  Women can be selfish as fuck sometimes.   If you assert yourself in the right way you might be surprised in her reaction.  Women need a man to be in charge even if they don't know it.  You've probably been treating her so good that she lost respect for you.  Women will run you around if you let them.  Be the man of the house....just make sure to be a righteous man.

As long as you aren't doing wrong like cheating on her or beating her her ass, she needs to show some appreciation and care about your wants and needs too.  Respect is a two way street.

These 2 answers are your best guide.

Speak to her Explain your issues & tell her how she needs to adjust

If she loves you & cares anything for her kids and what you have said is
true, if she's a reasonably intelligent woman she should be able to understand
& make changes.

Perhaps she hasn't got over the death of her husband
& may need help.

Its good to hear you have a loving caring relationship with her kids
Clearly its a tough decision If she will not understand & change.

Good Luck.

[illuminati]

LOL at asking for advice from a place where 99% of the members are gay, gay virgins, chronic masturbators neutered by their overweight annoying wives or have only had a relationship with one of those fake asian girls on LavaLife and/or Ugandan sailors who have docked their ship in the local port for the weekend.

Gayer than posting video of yourself doing quarter resps with 5 plates per side on hammer dips

"Gayer than posting video of yourself doing quarter resps with 5 plates per side on hammer dips"

Nope I have to disagree that clip of The Anorexic having some kind of Seizure on the Dip machine is a Classic.
Plus He likely fits all your other categories also.

[10pints]

You are right to leave. Investing in the success of another man's genes is not something I would ever consider.

[Tapeworm]

They're not your family.  They're not your problem.  And they're going to be completely and totally fine within 2 weeks of you being gone.

The chick sounds out of hand.  Let this be a lesson to you.  Don't date crazy and don't fail to set boundaries.  Not to be a dick but you sound meek and easily manipulated.  The time to say goodbye came and went awhile ago by how you tell it.  Get out of there and don't do it again.

[tacobender]

They're not your family.  They're not your problem.  And they're going to be completely and totally fine within 2 weeks of you being gone.

The chick sounds out of hand.  Let this be a lesson to you.  Don't date crazy and don't fail to set boundaries.  Not to be a dick but you sound meek and easily manipulated.  The time to say goodbye came and went awhile ago by how you tell it.  Get out of there and don't do it again.

yea will do bro

[wes]

If the relationship is making you unhappy,get out now.

This is real life,there is no dress rehearsal.

[tacobender]

If the relationship is making you unhappy,get out now.

This is real life,there is no dress rehearsal.

well said bro she keeps telling me how she thought I was gonna be a part of her life forever lol

[dr.chimps]

You're getting some good on-line answers: some heartfelt; some Trumpian. Give it a couple of more weeks, and give it a serious re-heart. Regret will kill you faster than cancer. Good luck.

[Henda]

Have you tried telling her she’s an absolute cu nt and disusssed the fact it’s making you want to leave?

[tacobender]

Have you tried telling her she’s an absolute cu nt and disusssed the fact it’s making you want to leave?

all the fuckin time bro she keeps pointing finger back at me

[IRON CROSS]

Get Mr. Vince Basile to move in and play husband!

 
  he is out of that role 4 about 30 years or so ...........

(his "relationship expertise" is very well documented)

[Henda]

all the fuckin time bro she keeps pointing finger back at me

thought you would have mate was just asking as some don’t say anything, maybe you leaving if you do decide will make her realise the error of her ways and what you actually mean to her, been in that situation twice with the mother of my kids both times we’ve split she’s asked me to come back so it sometimes happens that way
Good luck whatever path you choose, feel for you mate it’s not a good place to be

[Primemuscle]

Is it wrong that I feel bad leaving my relationship with the mother of 2 kids.  Inside I want out I’ve been there for them when their father wasn’t there for them he left them  because he had his own problems.  I work hard to support them and give them the better things in life that I could never have as a kid as I’m leaving the kids are sad and don’t want me to go but I can no longer take this relationship this woman is antisocial with my family only wants it to be just me her and the two kids is you’re wrong  feel like shit for leaving .  Honest opinions only no dick head comments .  Anybody ever been in the situation like myself ?

Seems like you are all in a tough situation. Only you can decide whether leaving the relationship is right or wrong. You ask for advice, but every relationship is different. What is best for one may not be for another.

The children are the real losers when this type of thing happens. Most adults eventually get over the trauma. For many kids it is life altering and they never lose their feelings of abandonment and often grow up to be insecure.

[Primemuscle]

hes dead bro I just didn’t want to put it all out there

My stepfather was great. My real father was messed up.

[Primemuscle]

thanks guys I was brought up with family values she’s anti social with her own family, my family is important to me and anytime I leave to go visit them it causes an argument she gets irritated so I would sometimes just avoid the fight because I didn’t want the kids to be in the middle of it as she would drag them into it or say stuff she shouldn’t in front of them. Again it was more about the kids sake instead of my own

So how are the kids doing now?

[Primemuscle]

You sound like you are open to sensible advice. The problem here is that you are not in love with this woman any more. The rule re relationships goes like this: you will get more of the same. Why? Because people can't change.

No woman who loves you would isolate you from your friends and family.  Ending a relationship like yours is never easy. However, you really aren't obligated to look after her children. Of course they will miss you. Not sure if it is good to try to keep seeing them.

She doesn't sound like a reasonable woman. If she were you wouldn't have this decision to make. Eventually you will have no choice but to leave so the question is should it be sooner or later?

It's not so much that people can't change, it is that they very often don't, even though they could if they wanted to.

[Primemuscle]

Leave and take the kids.

This is exactly what I suggested to my step-dad when my two adopted sisters were young. He told me that he and the girls couldn't leave because she'd find them wherever they went. He was probably right.

[SF1900]

Leave and take the kids.

That's kidnapping.