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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #25 on: September 08, 2018, 02:35:22 PM »
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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #26 on: September 08, 2018, 04:10:47 PM »
You can tell you have no game by the scared, almost apologetic..."I think its original...so I'm posting.."...That's how guys with no game approach women....."excuse me...I was just wondering if I could have your number and we could get coffee or something if you're not busy..."

Women smell the lack of confidence.



I'm white and get hit on all ethnicities on a daily manor :)

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #27 on: September 08, 2018, 04:17:21 PM »
Who is Aaron?

Aaron was Moses brother.

Aaron got all the chicks because he had a long rod.

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #28 on: September 08, 2018, 04:21:02 PM »
Money, power and fame.

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #29 on: September 08, 2018, 04:25:15 PM »
How sad



Yes sir...god forbid we have these discussions with our "friends"
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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #30 on: September 08, 2018, 04:45:57 PM »
OP post pics - lets see what we are working with

I have..search engine is your friend
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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #31 on: September 08, 2018, 05:02:31 PM »
I'm white and get hit on all ethnicities on a daily manor :)


So are you the un-attractive friend that cleans up?

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #32 on: September 08, 2018, 05:23:41 PM »
So are you the un-attractive friend that cleans up?

I wish ;)
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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #33 on: September 09, 2018, 04:34:44 AM »
That is Mr. Vince Goodrum's problem. Great looking guy, but comes off as socially awkward at times.

Who knows.

Nether Animal is still here, running at least 15 gimmicks.

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #34 on: September 09, 2018, 05:07:17 AM »
Arnold was a perfect example..even though he was a good looking guy
And tall and then rich.  ;D

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #35 on: September 09, 2018, 05:09:49 AM »
Think I see action Jackson in the background  ;D

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #36 on: September 09, 2018, 12:12:24 PM »
if you are very good looking and have limited game you need to play to your strengths

1. loose an extra 10lbs (yes drop 10 more lbs) and make your abs stupid good - focus on lower abs -everyone is fatter than you think - get CUT
2. attend pool parties where looks are everything
3. have a legit online profile with ab shots and other pics you being handsome
4. enter fitness shows to date fitness chics - it is easier to date a bikini or figure chic if you are in the same circle


learn some game
1. take improv classes - you LEARN TO be funny and witty asap. improv classes will get you out of your shell real fast
2. go with a realtor (listing agent) and do some door to door knocking etc - hey we have an open house - would you like to attend? do that for a few weekends and you will learn to be witty

learn to eat rejection like candy

but 1st.... get in even better shape and play to your strengths and then work on your game.

 


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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #37 on: September 09, 2018, 12:41:33 PM »
One of my class mates was pretty good looking, compared to all others, and he didn't need any game. Women just liked him.



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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #38 on: September 09, 2018, 12:46:45 PM »
One of my class mates was pretty good looking, compared to all others, and he didn't need any game. Women just liked him.





This!

If a guy is good looking but can’t pull women because of lack of game then he’s not actually good looking. A truly top tier male in looks can pull with zero game and a shitty attitude and personality.

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #39 on: September 09, 2018, 03:53:18 PM »
Nope. Looks get you into the door. If you can’t speak, “game over”. Everybody has always said that Arnold had charm. Charm in this instance is “game”. It’s what Franco lacked (as well as height).

Are we talking about in the club or bar for the hook up for for relationship/ dating?

Looks matter far more for sort term bro. But Long term your right - you gotta have a lot more than looks.

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #40 on: September 09, 2018, 04:06:16 PM »
if you are very good looking and have limited game you need to play to your strengths

1. loose an extra 10lbs (yes drop 10 more lbs) and make your abs stupid good - focus on lower abs -everyone is fatter than you think - get CUT
2. attend pool parties where looks are everything
3. have a legit online profile with ab shots and other pics you being handsome
4. enter fitness shows to date fitness chics - it is easier to date a bikini or figure chic if you are in the same circle


learn some game
1. take improv classes - you LEARN TO be funny and witty asap. improv classes will get you out of your shell real fast
2. go with a realtor (listing agent) and do some door to door knocking etc - hey we have an open house - would you like to attend? do that for a few weekends and you will learn to be witty

learn to eat rejection like candy

but 1st.... get in even better shape and play to your strengths and then work on your game.

 



You think that someone who does fitness shows is afraid to talk to women? If they can't talk to women they won't step on stage....

Solid advice, though I don't understand going to open houses

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #41 on: September 09, 2018, 04:20:17 PM »
You think that someone who does fitness shows is afraid to talk to women? If they can't talk to women they won't step on stage....

Solid advice, though I don't understand going to open houses

many mens bbers or fitness type guys are insecure, and its easier when you share a common interest cuz they can lead with the latest NPC gossip or prep bullshit talk

"yo i compete, so do you?" when is your next show" .... you would be shocked many of the thong warriors are insecure when it comes to talking esp with women.  

the realtor and open house thing... going door to door is brutal and you learn getting told "no" or getting shut down isnt  big deal. so you start to build some self confidence and learn to be witty/quick on your feet etc etc  this way you when you go out and speak to women you have been told no thanks 100x already it is no big deal

many good looking dudes are scared of "no" so its builds character/and its a part numbers game

im grateful ive been in sales and taken some improv classes cuz i have zero shame at this point going up to someone and speaking to them.  hot chic, possible sale, on stage at an improv event etc.

we are all human and have the same emotions, fears - who cares

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #42 on: September 09, 2018, 04:41:33 PM »
many mens bbers or fitness type guys are insecure, and its easier when you share a common interest cuz they can lead with the latest NPC gossip or prep bullshit talk

"yo i compete, so do you?" when is your next show" .... you would be shocked many of the thong warriors are insecure when it comes to talking esp with women.  

the realtor and open house thing... going door to door is brutal and you learn getting told "no" or getting shut down isnt  big deal. so you start to build some self confidence and learn to be witty/quick on your feet etc etc  this way you when you go out and speak to women you have been told no thanks 100x already it is no big deal

many good looking dudes are scared of "no" so its builds character/and its a part numbers game

im grateful ive been in sales and taken some improv classes cuz i have zero shame at this point going up to someone and speaking to them.  hot chic, possible sale, on stage at an improv event etc.

we are all human and have the same emotions, fears - who cares

What are you referring to by going door to door with the realtor?  Unless you are one or know one they aren't going to have a stranger hang out with them at an open house, they will call the police on you.  Going door to door to do what?

Solid advice though.

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #43 on: September 09, 2018, 07:41:10 PM »
He just needs confidence. Not game. Just be himself and if the bitches don’t respond then fuck them

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #44 on: September 09, 2018, 07:46:37 PM »
I know guys from other countries on my ship who are good looking and can barely speak English, yet they take down girls reagularly, one guy in particular is from Russia, not to brightest guy, barely speaks English, he is in the housekeeping department utility division (which means he cleans bathrooms, mops floors, but takes down chicks from our production cast (singers/dancers) who are smokin hot. Tons of guys I know who have no game but still hook up on the regular. On the flip side I know a lot of rich guys with no game, average looking guys who also hook up on the regular. Truthfully you just need enough game to get them on a date, once you get on the date proceed to get some drinks going, after that it should be smooth sailing, no need for game if you have alcohol ;D
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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #45 on: September 09, 2018, 07:47:06 PM »
What are you referring to by going door to door with the realtor?  Unless you are one or know one they aren't going to have a stranger hang out with them at an open house, they will call the police on you.  Going door to door to do what?

Solid advice though.

guess i need to be more clear lol - in the real estate business, when a realtor gets a listing, they go door to door to the area and tell the area residents "come to the open house i am holding down the street"  so you going up and knocking random peoples doors you build confidence and a "dont care factor" cuz you are in awkward spot.


the easiest way to get "game" (assuming you are handsome) is have no shame and get comfortable as possible with strangers and use the mindset to approach chics and ge quick and witty

again many good looking dudes are scared of women and scared of having to talk/communicate so work on your communication skills. easiest way is with improv classes and or an uncomfortable sales pitch



 

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #46 on: September 10, 2018, 04:34:45 AM »
guess i need to be more clear lol - in the real estate business, when a realtor gets a listing, they go door to door to the area and tell the area residents "come to the open house i am holding down the street"  so you going up and knocking random peoples doors you build confidence and a "dont care factor" cuz you are in awkward spot.


the easiest way to get "game" (assuming you are handsome) is have no shame and get comfortable as possible with strangers and use the mindset to approach chics and ge quick and witty

again many good looking dudes are scared of women and scared of having to talk/communicate so work on your communication skills. easiest way is with improv classes and or an uncomfortable sales pitch


You are right about outside selling doing this, Tres Taco.


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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #47 on: September 10, 2018, 04:49:37 AM »
I've read the posts in this thread, particularly the last few on this page, and none of you know what the hell you're talking about.

It has nothing to do with being shameless and faking it until you make it. If you're doing it that way, you were never in the game. While you're being punked out and laughed at by the girls you thought you were making headway with while your back's turned for 5 minutes, other guys are already making inroads in those same women with none of the effort. It goes without saying that if you're relying on money (bribery), you've failed to garner their respect in the first place, like the owner of a dog who allows it to live on a diet of dog treats since it refuses normal food because it sees no reason to stick its face in the bowl for half the flavor, pisses and craps where it wants, and eventually runs away. Playing the languishing troubadour (the 'sensitive' artistic guy) is a novelty that won't last more than a month, if that, since there's thirty other guys who can strum a guitar or sing poetry as well, and they're probably on her social media and snapchat app. Relying on your body without having anything remarkable to add beyond lifting your shirt or tensing your arms has the obvious limitation of what the hell are they going to do with your biceps, rub their piss-flaps with them? As soon as a bigger or more cut guy with a better face comes along, you're sunk. Even unattractive women openly admit getting 20, 30, even 40 messages a day at times on the free dating sites and don't open half of them.

If you want to know how it's done, just read this thread. If anyone had it down to a science, it was the maestro of Montenegro. Sure, he had the physique, but that's it. No money to throw around, no sports car parked outside, no wingmen to fake-introduce him around, ESL, average in height (and in the face, honestly) yet he killed it every time he went out. Why? Because there's not twenty ways of doing this. You either get it or you don't.

http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=517382.0


As for this thread, it's a carbon copy of 50 other threads discussing the same tired subject (seems to come up every 3 months) including a longer & better one with more epic posters and funnier replies by a factor of 20:

http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=479865.0

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #48 on: September 10, 2018, 04:51:12 AM »
I know guys from other countries on my ship who are good looking and can barely speak English, yet they take down girls reagularly, one guy in particular is from Russia, not to brightest guy, barely speaks English, he is in the housekeeping department utility division (which means he cleans bathrooms, mops floors, but takes down chicks from our production cast (singers/dancers) who are smokin hot. Tons of guys I know who have no game but still hook up on the regular. On the flip side I know a lot of rich guys with no game, average looking guys who also hook up on the regular. Truthfully you just need enough game to get them on a date, once you get on the date proceed to get some drinks going, after that it should be smooth sailing, no need for game if you have alcohol ;D

You made a great point how the good looking guy who cleans toilets still gets the hot dancers/singers. HOWEVER you made no mention of the looks of the girls the rich guys hook up with.

Unattractive rich guys (not including famous rich guys like movie stars etc.) have two options to get good looking women- 1) marry the women ( women will then get 50% after divorce) 2) be a sugar daddy, pay a monthly allowance to a young decent looking slut

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #49 on: September 10, 2018, 05:16:33 AM »
You made a great point how the good looking guy who cleans toilets still gets the hot dancers/singers. HOWEVER you made no mention of the looks of the girls the rich guys hook up with.

Unattractive rich guys (not including famous rich guys like movie stars etc.) have two options to get good looking women- 1) marry the women ( women will then get 50% after divorce) 2) be a sugar daddy, pay a monthly allowance to a young decent looking slut
The rich guys I'm referring to in my world (which is on the ship) are the guys with the highest paying jobs, like engineers and upper management, these guys will get hot looking girls like the spa chicks and singers/dancers, but whenever I've seen these girls with these guys, they look very bored. Marriage doesn't really end up happening with ship relationships, so all these girls are getting is the perks of staying in these guys cabins (which are amazing) and being able to order room service at anytime, what these guys buy the girls throughout their relationship I'm not really sure, but I guarantee that when these girls go on vacation they're definitely cheating on these guys.
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