Matt, i think you have some sort of personality disorder Specifically, Paranoid personality disorder (PPD)
Believing everyone is out to get you or has an agenda against you.
it's basic gym 101 and i have trained at some goods gyms Bevs, Strong and Shapley, Binous, Montanari Bros, Golds to name a few)
Its equivalent to the morons doing DB rows and resting the weight on the bench in-between sets,