I enjoy a few beers every now and then. The buzz it gives you for a few hours is something i like, but i don't like to get drunk. Just the 2-3 beer buzz you get watching sports on a Saturday night.
But, i love wine and not just drinking it, but pairing it with amazing food.
My biggest hobby is cooking and i cook some crazy stuff 4-5 nights a week.
And i can tell you, pairing an amazing wine with a perfect meal is almost as great as when i bust a nut on my Gf's face.
She's an excellent cook too, and we enjoy drinking a bottle of wine with some elegant meals 2-3 nights a week.
My oldest brother has been an alcoholic for 25 years. I've seen what it does to people, but he will never change. It's a sad thing to experience.
Drinking a little bit every few days/weeks has zero impact on your life. The side effects from responsible drinking are highly exaggerated. Even at 8% BF i can drink 2-3 nights a week with zero consequences.
Manage your life. Don't make excuses for being a weak bitch.