When you say speak up what do you mean? Like project what you are saying with more confidence? I definitely speak softley because im afraid of sounding like an idiot ha
You can speak softly and that = "speaking up".
Females usually tell you exactly what's going on in their lives. So if a female was to say "my old man sucks" "he can't even get hard" "I need somebody to fuck the shit out of me"
Your next question should be "are you sucking his dick?" "why is he not getting hard?" "do you lick his balls?" "what are you contributing to the table?"
this doesn't happen. What happens is the guys usually just says "yeah I can appease you" when in reality she sucks in bed. She can't even suck dick. She just lays there. She is dry as fuck. Yet you to busy trying to replace the last guy when SHE"S ACTUALLY THE PROBLEM.
SPEAK UP. Question them. Let them set themselves up instead of allowing them to LIE to you!!!!!