No... but yes? Why choose someone with a lack of character? And does there really have to be power in a relationship? I'm curious today.
No, meaning, it wasn't the full on love..I felt it coming...but, never happened. Either due to her personality traits (lack of character) or mine. Lack of character to me, means someone who flip flops or doesn't stand by their word. I've ome to find out, that a lot of youg women today, say one thing, but do another. You know, the "I wouldn't...", or the "Girrrrl, you know...." . Which is frustrating to me, because my character is the one thing that I can count on. So when a woman reveals herself to be shysty, due to the fact that one can see from the jump who I am, and what I'm about (I've learned to not give a woman what she asks for-esp. "honesty" ), that "feeling" evaporates like water on a hot brick.
I think it not so much as me choosing someone who lacks character (many of the women I have dated, have approached me), but more so in the physical traits and personality traits of the woman and me. I am a giver, a straight-arrow. I have been told one to many times that I would "make a good husband". The women tend to be those who either need structure in their lives, or those "bad girls". I attract the opposite of what I am, and now I am resigned to live with that fact. Those that need structure tend to put on a front like they are are grounded individuals, but as time wears on, you find out that the woman is really a fallen angel,
and you see the reasons why.