as a guy.....i am telling you now i am not a minority.........me and some friends actually discussed this at length the other day...and all parties came to the conclusion that it was way hotter when the women approached us...but we all agreed that it was a case by case basis...and not every encounter could be judged equally......
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Mom bench is certainly not in the minority...I agree its on a case by case basis to me depending on how they approach the situation dont go throw yourself at them(unless thats what you want) but there is nothing pushy or needy about a girl who simply comes up and wants to have a conversation with you.
Think about it thats basically what guys do, start conversations if they see an oppurtunity they act on it...if you go up to a guy and present an oppurtunity chances are you wont even need to ask him out b/c he will.