Author Topic: Wisdom gained ? (Read 8329 times)

Rome · « **Reply #50 on:** September 27, 2012, 04:14:27 PM »

He knew.

dov · « **Reply #51 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:06:23 PM »

haven't we alrdy gone over this shit?

outby43 · « **Reply #52 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:06:56 PM »

This was the dark haired bat shit crazy looking chick?

Howard · « **Reply #53 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:12:44 PM »

dat be her.
I would call it more of a wild eyes wombat look, but to each his own.
No, seriously, she was a sweet sexy woman who was a fun chick to hang out with.
I hope she is doing well and having fun.

Board_SHERIF · « **Reply #54 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:14:01 PM »

in theory that would work, but at you found out in practice it failcanned.

pluck · « **Reply #55 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:15:10 PM »

Let me get this straight, you're getting married for the 4th time & giving out relationship advice?

What the fuuuuck is wrong with you?

tommywishbone · « **Reply #56 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:17:36 PM »

Howard · « **Reply #57 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:19:46 PM »

Quote from: pluck on September 27, 2012, 05:15:10 PM

Let me get this straight, you're getting married for the 4th time & giving out relationship advice?

What the fuuuuck is wrong with you?

I dunno, some nice Catholic priests screw alter boys, never get married and couples find their marital counseling helpful?

Howard · « **Reply #58 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:21:15 PM »

Quote from: tommywishbone on September 27, 2012, 05:17:36 PM

Now THAT is what this thread should be all about.

jwb · « **Reply #59 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:22:37 PM »

What's her phone number?

Mjolnir · « **Reply #60 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:25:14 PM »

So was this an 'open' relationship while you lived separately or was it supposed to be monogamous? If monogamous, were either of you getting any on the side?
I couldn't handle that sort of relationship personally but each to their own.

HTexan · « **Reply #61 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:26:10 PM »

so youre basically friends with benefits?

Howard · « **Reply #62 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:27:22 PM »

Quote from: HTexan on September 27, 2012, 05:26:10 PM

so youre basically friends with benefits?

Yup , I guess so.

jwb · « **Reply #63 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:31:10 PM »

Quote from: Howard on September 27, 2012, 05:29:32 PM

We had both been with other people after the divorce and agreed the sex life would be monogomous from that point on.
I thought it was ideal but I became unhappy with that situation. Not really sure why, but I was ??
any thoughts on why this idea was doomed from the start?

You are too much of a wimp to spend four nights a week by yourself?

Mjolnir · « **Reply #64 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:32:33 PM »

Ya. There's no commitment there, this is just a players paradise for either one of you. I'm sure when you weren't around she would've screwed other guys or what would be the point of living alone. SHe can wrap it up anyway she likes but if she wants to live separately then she wants to fuck around, you subconciously picked up on this and decided that's not what you wanted. /Ubermann

HTexan · « **Reply #65 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:33:20 PM »

Quote from: Howard on September 27, 2012, 05:27:22 PM

Yup , I guess so.

but you can't have sex with any one else? IMO seems unfair. But whatever floats your boat.

flipper5470 · « **Reply #66 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:50:00 PM »

No offense, Howard...but you sound like a person who is exceptionally self-involved...

booty · « **Reply #67 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:52:21 PM »

It sounds like there was no real committment....more of a friends with benefits kind of thing. I don't think there was enough glue to hold it together...glue being love.

Archer77 · « **Reply #68 on:** September 27, 2012, 05:54:24 PM »

The excitement of the arrangement faded just like the excitement faded when you first started dating and got married.

bike nut · « **Reply #69 on:** September 27, 2012, 06:01:28 PM »

Quote from: flipper5470 on September 27, 2012, 05:50:00 PM

No offense, Howard...but you sound like a person who is exceptionally self-involved...

I would have used "stupid", but "self-involved" kinda works.....

Bevo · « **Reply #70 on:** September 27, 2012, 06:10:37 PM »

Quote from: booty on September 27, 2012, 05:52:21 PM

It sounds like there was no real committment....more of a friends with benefits kind of thing. I don't think there was enough glue to hold it together...glue being love.

What's your excuse for all your failed relationships then?

HTexan · « **Reply #71 on:** September 27, 2012, 06:38:49 PM »

Quote from: booty on September 27, 2012, 05:52:21 PM

It sounds like there was no real committment....more of a friends with benefits kind of thing. I don't think there was enough glue to hold it together...glue being love.

Love is very important. But sometimes there are things needed in addition to love.

240_Iz_Nutz · « **Reply #72 on:** September 27, 2012, 06:42:27 PM »

Those situations are an excellent way for one of the two people to get burned in the end.

pluck · « **Reply #73 on:** September 27, 2012, 06:48:26 PM »

Quote from: Howard on September 27, 2012, 05:19:46 PM

I dunno, some nice Catholic priests screw alter boys, never get married and couples find their marital counseling helpful?

Great logic. No go invest in a Ponzi scheme while you're at it.

Guys like you Make me sick. I know a handful of guys that have been married 2-5 times. They all preach about women & relationships.

Bottom line is you're all fucking morons that make horrible decisions in judging people's characters.

You failed at marriage 3 times...now you're going all over the board boasting you're doing it again.

What's your danage ?

doison · « **Reply #74 on:** September 27, 2012, 07:02:41 PM »

Wise is the man who weds wife number 4