this has yet to be proven. Anyone who uses steroids to improve artificially his apperance cannot be a good father or mentally healthy. More like a master bullshiter. If you were natural I wouldnt have said anything tho.
Fact is anyone nowadays can raise a family while lifting weights naturally having the best of both worlds and giving a good example to follow to everyone else. More and more people are doing it. And this is the kind of guy a woman who wants a family and takes care of her own physique without being too extreme about it is looking for. As said earlier, we all get what we deserve.
You generalize too much. I personally know highly respected people of medical, law and other similar professions, who use hormones to "enhance" themselves in this way. And they are perfectly sane, at least compared to various unstable personalities and stuff.. Just people living their life, nothing less, nothing more.
Humanity has became to a point where we start to enhcnace our biology and transcend the limits of it (just like with a plane, to fly, even if we don't have wings), it will just speed up, to a point where a human will become a "cyborg" (but in a most positive way of that word, as it seems words like these scare general public a lot) with enhanced muscles, enhanced immune system, enhanced brain power and a lot fo other stuff.. There's nothing great about a "natural state" (in whatever field/meaning) by default, JUST because it's "natural" (what's that, anyway?).
Evolution at it's best actually, a specie who starts tweaking itself to become even a greater specie by all means.
p.s.- it's like with adderal. I took it a few times when praparing for an exam. Idk how much it helped me, but I did better than most, so I guess it gave me at least some "edge". Well, I wasn't "natural", I enhanced my ability to concentrate while studying, thus - surpassing my "natural limits", is that "wrong"? I doubt it very much. I'd enhance myself in every way possible if there would be more options.