Wish I knew.been with my wife 14 years and I'm an asshole.I mean I don't hurt her or anything but I don't go to family functions and basically don't do anything I don't want to which is everything.All guys I meet ask me how I do it and I just say that's how I am,I don't do anything I don't want to.The only holiday I do is xmas day nothing else.I guess I'm a jerk but I laid down how I am at the beginning so she knew what she was in for.She is a wonderful mother and cooks everyday and I basically just work.i laugh when guys say let me ask the boss,I ask no one anything.granted I don't drink or party,I just hit the casino a couple days a week and that's my fun.my wife knows I won't cheat as I truly don't care for women,I can't stand talking with them or listening to them etc...
Basically have no clue.hahah.