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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Wiggs on July 01, 2011, 09:17:59 PM
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That's all folks...Amicable decision, just grew apart. We both agree not to mudsling and will remain friends. I'm still young 32 in 14 days and no children so I got out pretty well.
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How many times in those 12 years did you screw around on her ?
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That's all folks...Amicable decision, just grew apart. We both agree not to mudsling and will remain friends. I'm still young 32 in 14 days and no children so I got out pretty well.
So, now you will be able to chase Melissa Dettwiller. :D
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Coach can offer you advice - if you want to blow 3-4 more marriages ...
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Sorry to hear that Wigglestein - good that the parting is amicable though :) - now in true GB spirit fuck her sister :D
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Congrats Wiggs.
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Hold on, you've been *married* 12 years? Or just together for that long?
And you're only 32?? Fuck, all this time I've been thinking you were one of the smart ones.
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Within 3 months we're gonna see Wiggs in some gangsta rap video mackin on some fine assed 19 year old hoes!
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Who gets the house, and who gets the weed?
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Hold on, you've been *married* 12 years? Or just together for that long?
And you're only 32?? Fuck, all this time I've been thinking you were one of the smart ones.
LOL!!!
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Congrats Wiggs.
This.
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Hold on, you've been *married* 12 years? Or just together for that long?
And you're only 32?? Fuck, all this time I've been thinking you were one of the smart ones.
MARRIED 12 years. I was I didn't have children. ;)
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How many times in those 12 years did you screw around on her ?
No comment
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So, now you will be able to chase Melissa Dettwiller. :D
:D ;D
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try and get her to come back, like a personal challenge, see if you can do it!
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MARRIED 12 years. I was I didn't have children. ;)
Did her cheating on you play on your mind alot leading to this?
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Contact Marty36564, he might help you out with the next steps.
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how many times during those 12 years, did she catch you jacking off
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Sorry about that Wiggs.
Have fun chasing the tail though. G's up Ho's down!
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Contact Marty36564, he might help you out with the next steps.
31672 :D :D
And yes, I agree with DK. Wiggs, you should really send Marty 31672 a private message :D :D Marty31672 has gone through the same thing you're going through. Currently, Marty31672 is in California living the dream. He overcame many obstacles in his life, one of them being his ex wife. Maybe you should start another thread asking Marty31672 for help.
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how many times during those 12 years, did she catch you jacking off to Tranny porn
:-[
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31672 :D :D
And yes, I agree with DK. Wiggs, you should really send Marty 31672 a private message :D :D Marty31672 has gone through the same thing you're going through. Currently, Marty31672 is in California living the dream. He overcame many obstacles in his life, one of them being his ex wife. Maybe you should start another thread asking Marty31672 for help.
Thanks.
Marty is a true hero, first barer of the Getbig Medal of Honor, and he will be the first man to be a professional IFBB bodybuilder AND professional UFC fighter, active in both sports at the same time while managing his own strip club in Vegas.
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try and get her to come back, like a personal challenge, see if you can do it!
No thanks we are done. There's nothing there anymore. We got together when I was 19 and she 28 and now I'm 32 and she's 41 we grew apart over the past 3 years.
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Thanks.
Marty is a true hero, first barer of the Getbig Medal of Honor, and he will be the first man to be a professional IFBB bodybuilder AND professional UFC fighter, active in both sports at the same time while managing his own strip club in Vegas.
Marty is what children need to look up to these days. He is a man in every respect. How he juggles professional bodybuilding and professional UFC fighting is beyond me. The man has guts!
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No thanks we are done. There's nothing there anymore. We got together when I was 19 and she 28 and now I'm 32 and she's 41 we grew apart over the past 3 years.
Wiggs, do you think it had anything to do with the age difference? I mean, it might not have mattered when she was younger, but do you think her reaching her 40's had anything to do with it?
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Did her cheating on you play on your mind alot leading to this?
No actually, zero percent. What played alot was I might want biological children at some point and with her being 41 the chances of the child having defects are great increased. In addition, we no longer do anything together and we enjoy it that way.
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No actually, zero percent. What played alot was I might want biological children at some point and with her being 41 the chances of the child having defects are great increased. In addition, we no longer do anything together and we enjoy it that way.
41? Time to get yourself a young ho
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Wiggs, do you think it had anything to do with the age difference? I mean, it might not have mattered when she was younger, but do you think her reaching her 40's had anything to do with it?
Yes, HUGE difference. It's started to become an issue over the past 2-3 years.
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No actually, zero percent. What played alot was I might want biological children at some point and with her being 41 the chances of the child having defects are great increased. In addition, we no longer do anything together and we enjoy it that way.
Wiggs, a lot of older women are having kids that are just fine.
Let's be real, you're trading up for a newer model ;)
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Yes, HUGE difference. It's started to become an issue over the past 2-3 years.
reverse the roll now and start banging tight 18yo's
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No actually, zero percent. What played alot was I might want biological children at some point and with her being 41 the chances of the child having defects are great increased. In addition, we no longer do anything together and we enjoy it that way.
What?? She's nearly dead at 41, you're in the spring of your life, go fuck some hot twens for a few years, then when you hit 35-36ish go get a good 27-28 year old and get her pregnant. ;D ;D ;D
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Wiggs, a lot of older women are having kids that are just fine.
Let's be real, you're trading up for a newer model ;)
No actually. What we had was not my idea of a marriage that's why we are splitting. Irreconcilable or philosophical differences.
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Yes, HUGE difference. It's started to become an issue over the past 2-3 years.
Yes, I had a feeling. It appears woman change when they reach their 40's. They start to look for something different in a man. Something men in their 30's (I'm 30) can't provide. I am not saying this is a bad thing for us, because I am sure eventually we will also change when we reach our 40's.
Well, you had a good run and as long as its a lesson learned, what more can you ask for, eh? :D
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Yes, I had a feeling. It appears woman change when they reach their 40's. They start to look for something different in a man. Something men in their 30's (I'm 30) can't provide. I am not saying this is a bad thing for us, because I am sure eventually we will also change when we reach our 40's.
Well, you had a good run and as long as its a lesson learned, what more can you ask for, eh? :D
Yes, I agree 100%
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I say you get her an account here and you two hash it out Mike and Laura style.
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What happened, figgs?? She wasnt satisfied with your 5 inch "wigglet," anymore? 8)
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That's all folks...Amicable decision, just grew apart. We both agree not to mudsling and will remain friends. I'm still young 32 in 14 days and no children so I got out pretty well.
Was this a sudden decision or did you know it was coming, Wiggs? "Grew apart" sounds like the woman's viewpoint. Did you know that you grew apart? Well, regardless of how it came about, I feel for you both. Change is tough.
Good that you agreed to stay friends. Oddly enough, coming from a guy like me who has been married for almost 47 years the friends part is the cement in a relationship, IMO. My wife and I are each other's BFF's. I seem to remember some rough patches early on in my wife and my relationship....we've toughed it out and neither of us regret it.
Yeah your still a kid compared to me at 32. That's great! You still have your life in front of you whether it's with your wife or someone else. No kids is a good thing when it comes to divorce. Kids always suffer. I know, my parents divorced. So, at least this part is a blessing.
Again, change is always hard. I really do feel for you. You are probably going to go though a process that includes grieving and anger. But, you'll survive. I don't know you, but just talking about it helps usually. Your off to a good start towards recovery.
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Wiggs, do you talk to any of her friends? This is a great time to fuck them. I bet you got a bowl packed right now dont ya bro. ;D
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No actually. What we had was not my idea of a marriage that's why we are splitting. Irreconcilable or philosophical differences.
maybe she was just more mature and ahead of you in those philosophical differences, and in time you too will feel more like she did in 'philosophical' terms. and realize she was right all this time,
maybe you just need some time to realize it
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maybe she was just more mature and ahead of you in those philosophical differences, and in time you too will feel more like she did in 'philosophical' terms. and realize she was right all this time,
maybe you just need some time to realize it
Or maybe he got tired of knocking the dust off that old pussy.
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Wiggs, its a very rare occasion when I find myself jealous or envious of another man. Kudos
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Its hard emotionaly/mentally to end a relationship of that amount of time even if terms are easily agreed upon...good luck man...lay the pipe to a few young hoes to ease the pain...and a bottle and a splif...
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Yes, I had a feeling. It appears woman change when they reach their 40's. They start to look for something different in a man. Something men in their 30's (I'm 30) can't provide. I am not saying this is a bad thing for us, because I am sure eventually we will also change when we reach our 40's.
Well, you had a good run and as long as its a lesson learned, what more can you ask for, eh? :D
People change all the time. The difference in their ages only means that those changes are less likely to mesh. What a guy wants out of a relationship at eighteen is different than what he wants when he is thirty-two. What a woman wants at twenty-eight vastly different then what she wants at forty-one.
My uneducated guess is that Wigg's wife didn't want or couldn't have children. Wiggs, on the otherhand, probably wasn't as interested in having children when he was eighteen as he is today. This brings us today. Wiggs wants to create an heir and his wife is not the best person to do that with him in the usual way. Additionally, folks who do not have children tend to be more self-absorbed. I think for his wife, she may have reach a point of no return. She probably likes her life without children at this point....after all that is all she knows.
Regardless, as I said to Wiggs, change is difficult. Sometimes it is freeing, but it can take us awhile to realize this.
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what a loser.
Isnt he that guy who admited she cheated on him? Haha.
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uberman he cheated on her
many times
with many disgusting drug addict women
he gave her itchies down stairs
she has had enough of his
lying cheating lazy drug addict ways
shes out!
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uberman he cheated on her
many times
with many disgusting drug addict women
he gave her itchies down stairs
she has had enough of his
lying cheating lazy drug addict ways
shes out!
hello Maddy, are you the wife of wiggs? we will support you too if you need it.
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hello Maddy, are you the wife of wiggs? we will support you too if you need it.
x2
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he gave her itchies down stairs
hilarious.
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pics of said wife and husband or it didnt happen.
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Finally! You won't regret it wiggsy.
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Good bye to the mudshark. Send her on a rocket to the sun.
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hello Maddy, are you the wife of wiggs? we will support you too if you need it.
X3
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There are financial benefits but in the end marriage is a piece of paper and an overpriced ring. Either you want to be with that person or not. Making a commitment is more than just a few vowes and a ceremony. It's an emotional and physical decision that can change at any time. Life is unpredictable.
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Judging from the thread Figgs made about las Vegas whores, I cant say I didn't see this coming....
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Judging from the thread Figgs made about las Vegas whores, I cant say I didn't see this coming....
Anyone who thinks they know how another couple's relationship works or doesn't is a fool. You have to be in the relationship to know why it broke and even then you may not have a clue.
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While on one hand it is sad. On the other there are so many benefits to being single and I'm aware of them all. :D I've been married all of my adult life and now more than I ever I need to get back in shape and start over but it's ok, these things happen. And to the person that asked about me. You can feel the tension in the air and this time it was different and I was totally fine and didn't care and I'm sure she didn't either. we were roommates and had had sex 3 times with my wife since July 2008. last time being Dec 2009....A total fucking mess...so while still wrong, his was the reason for the whores.
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Staying friends or at least staying contact is cool.
The separation anxiety can be much like leaving a long-time job. If you can't live together, you can't live together. At least you don't have children.
I would try to adjust to a single life for a time. Get to know yourself and get comfortable with your new surroundings. Don't stay too close during the breakup, it just complicates things.
Move on.
BTW, if you are leaving her for another woman, you are in for a big fucking surprise... actually, quite a few of them.
Take it from me, been there, did that. I'm a bit older than you too.
Don't burn any bridges. You said no "mud-slinging" but... that's not all up to you. Women have a way of changing their minds with the weather.
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While on one hand it is sad. On the other there are so many benefits to being single and I'm aware of them all. :D I've been married all of my adult life and now more than I ever I need to get back in shape and start over but it's ok, these things happen. And to the person that asked about me. You can feel the tension in the air and this time it was different and I was totally fine and didn't care and I'm sure she didn't either. we were roommates and had had sex 3 times with my wife since July 2008. last time being Dec 2009....A total fucking mess...so while still wrong, his was the reason for the whores.
Wow man, you are being brutally honest here! I am amazed and impressed. My wife and I haven't had sex since I cannot remember when. But the difference between us and you two is that we are old fuckers and my wife is very ill; you both are still young and should be getting it on, at least more often then you say you are.
Yes it seems you are only roommates now. At both your ages, there should be some passion and apparently there isn't any. My wife and I are best friends as I mentioned before. We may not be expressing that by fucking like rabbits these days but we still have a passion for each other. I am not getting the feeling you and your wife have any passion left for each other.
As much as I admire folks who live through the thick and thin of a relationship, there are times when done is done and I think from what you say, you and your wife are well done.
You wouldn't have posted a thread about your breakup if it was easy as you say it is. It is tough to end a relationship that has endured as long as yours has. You obviously need some support and understanding here. Let me just say that no matter how fucked up you marriage is or was, I understand that you are going through a transition that will take time for both you and your wife to adjust to.
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Good luck Wiggs.
I bet you feel like a weight has been lifted off your chest right?
Second and last marriage for me.
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Good luck Wiggs.
I bet you feel like a weight has been lifted off your chest right?
Second and last marriage for me.
Big thing at your age. ::) ::) ::)
, ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Who the hell would get married in first place?
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Is your wife staying in the US?
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Big thing at your age. ::) ::) ::)
, ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
YOU BASTARD !!!! LOL ;D
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Yes, I had a feeling. It appears woman change when they reach their 40's. They start to look for something different in a man. Something men in their 30's (I'm 30) can't provide. I am not saying this is a bad thing for us, because I am sure eventually we will also change when we reach our 40's.
Well, you had a good run and as long as its a lesson learned, what more can you ask for, eh? :D
h a h a
i can provide that and im only 22
:P
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YOU BASTARD !!!! LOL ;D
LOL, man i hope we will have a beer (or diet soda) together one day (no homo). ;D ;D ;D
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Hold on, you've been *married* 12 years? Or just together for that long?
And you're only 32?? Fuck, all this time I've been thinking you were one of the smart ones.
rofl
im in the same situation as you wiggs but we are not married and have been with eachother for only 5-6 years, but we have a 2.5 year old kid.
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:D
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Nice job Wiggs, marriage sucks its like the man is a "dog on a chain" now get to work on some fine ass hoes. You still out of work Wiggs? women want money did that having thing to do with the split?
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Get ready to start the mutation! everything i nthe grams!! ::)
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You will realise that if you have let yourself go it will have been a mistake now youre single.
Happens to every fat fuck who gets involved and becomes a slob, left to cry in their milk once they split from their partner.
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You will realise that if you have let yourself go it will have been a mistake now youre single.
Happens to every fat fuck who gets involved and becomes a slob, left to cry in their milk once they split from their partner.
You missed the part where Wiggs said they weren't having sex (surprise in marriage ::)).
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You missed the part where Wiggs said they weren't having sex (surprise in marriage ::)).
Thats a bonus
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While on one hand it is sad. On the other there are so many benefits to being single and I'm aware of them all. :D I've been married all of my adult life and now more than I ever I need to get back in shape and start over but it's ok, these things happen. And to the person that asked about me. You can feel the tension in the air and this time it was different and I was totally fine and didn't care and I'm sure she didn't either. we were roommates and had had sex 3 times with my wife since July 2008. last time being Dec 2009....A total fucking mess...so while still wrong, his was the reason for the whores.
i wish the best of luck mate, try to find an hot italian girl that will drive you mad in bad.
there are many here
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how long did your own father stay with your mother wigg?
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how long did your own father stay with your mother wigg?
You must have got a hardon when you read this thread title
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absolutely not. I think it's sad. What i think is even sader is dude feels the need to post this on an internet messaboard to get sympathy / support, says a lot about his personal life.
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h a h a
i can provide that and im only 22
:P
sure you can ::) ::)
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These events should motivate you to get a better job and stay in shape
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No one is stating the obvious. You were married at 20?!
That's the answer right there.
No marriage is going to last when you get married that young. As you described, people change.
Lesson to the youngsters reading. Keep banging until you're in your 30s before you settle down.
Wiggs, post pics of the first hoe. Enjoy singledom! ;D
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You seem like a good dude. Hope you find the happiness everyone is searching for.
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No one is stating the obvious. You were married at 20?!
That's the answer right there.
No marriage is going to last when you get married that young. As you described, people change.
Lesson to the youngsters reading. Keep banging until you're in your 30s before you settle down.
Wiggs, post pics of the first hoe. Enjoy singledom! ;D
My parents were married at 18, still married.
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Different times.
Chances of having a good marriage when getting married at 18 are very minimal these days.
Hey, just trying to help any youngsters reading.
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That's all folks...Amicable decision, just grew apart. We both agree not to mudsling and will remain friends. I'm still young 32 in 14 days and no children so I got out pretty well.
What do you mean with "grew apart". Not feeling any attraction for eachother anymore?
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I noticed that Wiggs hasn't been himself lately. This confirms it. :-\
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I noticed that Wiggs hasn't been himself lately. This confirms it. :-\
yeah, the signs come out on getbig first. wiggs did seem to be big pimpin this year.
I wish you luck, wiggs. the world is your oyster. the next 10 years of your live WILL be the most memorable and fun to look back at when you're 70.
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absolutely not. I think it's sad. What i think is even sader is dude feels the need to post this on an internet messaboard to get sympathy / support, says a lot about his personal life.
This is a place to vent with people you have been talking to for years. You don't know what you are talking about.
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Take more steroids, big muscles will help solve your problems.
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No actually, zero percent. What played alot was I might want biological children at some point and with her being 41 the chances of the child having defects are great increased. In addition, we no longer do anything together and we enjoy it that way.
smoking weed all day and no job will do that to a marriage.
good luck in the future dude
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Take more steroids, big muscles will help solve your problems.
plan a worldwide tour, fuck as many whores as possible. Will she have to pay you alimony (sp?)?
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sure you can ::) ::)
it has to do with maturing and outgrowing your boyish tendencies. becoming a sage old man. most 30 year old dudes are still immature and have their attitudes/priorities all fucked up. u gotta be positive and encouraging with all people, never let negativity boil inside you, become a cool and oh so warm fence post for the misses to rest against. a "pillar" if u will ;)
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Announcing your divorce on an internet forum. ???
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Shit man, sorry to hear it. Divorce was hard for me. Hope you reconcile yourself to it ok.
Lock up the white women!
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WTF - This is the 1st serious thread in 7 years that did not mention trannys (almost), HGH, and grapefruits... Seriously, sorry to heat about the divorce and good luck Wiggs
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Twelve years of matrimony bye bye. All I got to say is...
Good for you man, it will feel absolutely awesome.
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Announcing your divorce on an internet forum. ???
Hi, Frau Wiggs.
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Hi, Frau Wiggs.
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No one is stating the obvious. You were married at 20?!
That's the answer right there.
No marriage is going to last when you get married that young. As you described, people change.
Lesson to the youngsters reading. Keep banging until you're in your 30s before you settle down.
Wiggs, post pics of the first hoe. Enjoy singledom! ;D
You could be wrong about this. I married at 20 and am still married to the same great woman almost 47 years later. My son married his wife at 22 and is still married to her 23 years later. My daughter married at 20 and is still married to her husband 15 years later. Either we have some special marriage gene going on in our family or we are doing something else right.
Incidentally, my parents separated before I was 5 years old. So to hell with that statistic too.
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Weed, porn and getbig is very hard on a marriage.
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You could be wrong about this. I married at 20 and am still married to the same great woman almost 47 years later. My son married his wife at 22 and is still married to her 23 years later. My daughter married at 20 and is still married to her husband 15 years later. Either we have some special marriage gene going on in our family or we are doing something else right.
Incidentally, my parents separated before I was 5 years old. So to hell with that statistic too.
You come from a diff era, today when people get married, it's not for the long haul. And women have more options than to stay with a man. Also, nobody really takes their vows seriously (as they see that their parents don't). Women think of the wedding, not the marriage.
And Wiggs, after 12 yrs of trying to prove your father wrong, was he right?
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you're a fat 32 year old divorcee negro with a pot addiction and no prospects in life.
the hot women will just line up to be with you now, stud. ::)
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Good bye to the mudshark. Send her on a rocket to the sun.
lolz
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Is your wife staying in the US?
She's been an American citizen since 2005. As of right now, yes.
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hey atleast she got the green card... now you can marry a mexicano and make them green card too,,then 2 year later citizen! ,,
oh wait wait the mexicanos cant do this because they came from the outside in with out border inspection .....they are shit out of luck lol
gh15 approved
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rofl
im in the same situation as you wiggs but we are not married and have been with eachother for only 5-6 years, but we have a 2.5 year old kid.
Sorry to hear that. I feel so free now it's hard to put in words...I need to find who I am...As I said I've been married my entire adult life and need to remodel myself....
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you can still though beat up the mexicana wifie...and cause her to be handicup.... and then claim for special circumstances...you get both kinky sex and GREEN CARD! lol
dont you love americana? land of the free!
gh15 approved
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My parents were married at 18, still married.
Is that earth years or planet Remulak years?
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smoking weed all day and no job will do that to a marriage.
good luck in the future dude
I have a job and have since Feb and I don't smoke weed all day. I've smoked weed a total of one year out of the 12 we were married.
Thanks though.
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Sorry to hear that. I feel so free now it's hard to put in words...I need to find who I am...As I said I've been married my entire adult life and need to remodel myself....
go get a ukraine girl and fuck her! trust me you want to do it before married again!,, you go on the site of meeting plenty of fish or thwe other prostitution datings lol and get yourself UKRAINE girl! ,, you will thank later
gh15 approved
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Shit man, sorry to hear it. Divorce was hard for me. Hope you reconcile yourself to it ok.
Lock up the white women!
It sucks and she is a good woman but we no longer belong together. I've come to understand this over the past couple months and reconciled a couple weeks ago and we discussed and decided this was for the best. We are actually going to continue living with each other until one of us is ready to move. I told her as soon as my money is better I'm moving out. Not out of anger but to get used to living alone. There is no hatred and I wont mudsling. It's going to be an easy divorce, no laywers involved.
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Announcing your divorce on an internet forum. ???
And you are?
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Wiggs,
Don't have a child. Don't do it. The only way to move out of the "slave" dimension is to end your bloodline with you. Having children keeps you handcuffed to earth(slave dimension).
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No one is stating the obvious. You were married at 20?!
That's the answer right there.
No marriage is going to last when you get married that young. As you described, people change.
Lesson to the youngsters reading. Keep banging until you're in your 30s before you settle down.
Wiggs, post pics of the first hoe. Enjoy singledom! ;D
Actually 19. ;D...You don't think that when you're in that situation and I would tell any 19 year old to wait. Sorry I'm not posting pics.
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You come from a diff era, today when people get married, it's not for the long haul. And women have more options than to stay with a man. Also, nobody really takes their vows seriously (as they see that their parents don't). Women think of the wedding, not the marriage.
And Wiggs, after 12 yrs of trying to prove your father wrong, was he right?
Right about what? I don't care about proving him right or wrong.. Although now because we are divorcing it's not going to change anything between he and I. Fuck him.
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you're a fat 32 year old divorcee negro with a pot addiction and no prospects in life.
the hot women will just line up to be with you now, stud. ::)
I'm 5'10 254 lbs.
Divorced with no kids and no STDs.
I'm very handsome.
I have a Bachelor's Degree and some MBA courses.
I'm a 10 year vet of the U.S. Air Force.
I'm very well spoken.
Never been in trouble with the law.
I have a JOB.
And finally I have many prospects and potential future projects lined up.
Thanks though.
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Right about what? I don't care about proving him right or wrong.. Although now because we are divorcing it's not going to change anything between he and I. Fuck him.
Don't know, you never explained why your father talked bad about your wife. Why he didn't like her?
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Don't know, you never explained why your father talked bad about your wife. Why he didn't like her?
Because she cheated on me, he thought we were more roommates vs. husband and wife and he felt that women should always be waiting hand and foot for the husband and didn't believe in the 50/50 thing. I cleaned everything up but that's the jist of it.
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Because she cheated on me, he thought we were more roommates vs. husband and wife and he felt that women should always be waiting hand and foot for the husband and didn't believe in the 50/50 thing. I cleaned everything up but that's the jist of it.
So, he didn't subscribe to the Teddy P philosophy---but 70/30, 80/20...50/50 feels so good, good, when you love somebody and they love you back.
Was he ever in the military?
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I'm 5'10 254 lbs.
Divorced with no kids and no STDs.
I'm very handsome.
I have a Bachelor's Degree and some MBA courses.
I'm a 10 year vet of the U.S. Air Force.
I'm very well spoken.
Never been in trouble with the law.
I have a JOB.
And finally I have many prospects and potential future projects lined up.
Thanks though.
not good enough baby boy ,, inorder to get the good looking americana with the body you wanna fuck all day long and the good personality ...you need to be jobless! ,, you need to be BODYBUILDER,, you need to have the center of your life bodybuilding and make sure she know she is second and you dont care how hot she is ... and most importantly she need to know you have good personality :) because personality is what gets them not job ,, not veteren ,, no balonie,, americano girls only see as far as the local mall ,, they see as far as your condition is,, they see as far as their orgasm is ,,
inorder to get americano girl you have HAVE to think like the generation they are part of ...generation nothingness..you need to think like them and since you cant because you are not generation nothingness you will hav eto do it online,, on internet ,, via dating sites and chat site you will have to predent,, set a trap ,, get her to fall for you ,, and then! be yourself slowly injecting her the true meaning of the word love and hope she is inlove to get it and be happily ever after
now i know you are sad now ,, and broken hearted eventhogh you shoudnt and it over for long time,, but read what i wrote above 10 times ,, read it every day before you go sleep ,, and you will find hapiness,, i usualy tend to not help if its not hormones and bodybuild ,, but i find you interesting and i learned to like you along the years,, read the above and work it ,, dont come tiwh your stupid ba or money or 10 year vet balonie,, dont come with all this shit,, you come with personality ,, and muscles! the rest will happen
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That's all folks...Amicable decision, just grew apart. We both agree not to mudsling and will remain friends. I'm still young 32 in 14 days and no children so I got out pretty well.
I feel that all relationships will just turn into friendships eventually. A prominent member of getbig told me that the seven year itch is a very real phenomenon. Some have a spark for a few months, others a few years, but I think down the road it always becomes a friendship. So with that in mind I think the person one should be with is one they feel they can be good friends with. And this doesn't just happen to some people, it seems to happen to everyone.
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Congrats Wiggs.
Your next ;)
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peopel do not understand that pussy is pussy ! its all the same if the girl is good looking....you get used to it,, you all like the hot good looking girl when they are dresseed with make up and all ready to whore around in club bar and in life since americana girl now day dress slut n omatter where to get attention and they know this is the key for them to get a fella to like them for few days lol ,,
the idea behind love is to be able to get that girl and be with her beyond that first 2 months of new titties and new ass and looking good with make up and all new sex etc,, the idea is to sustain it all for long time,,
so im telling you here ....pussy is pussy its all the same,, FIND A GIRL YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO ! AND THEN YOU WILL BE OK ,, pussy wil be pussy ,, it will all get boring ,,not super boring but more boring than it used to be because after all you put your 7 inch cock in the same pussy over and over and positions are the same since you done doing them aall after few months,,few weeks lol ,, and you just need to be a ttracted to her and think she is pretty PRETTTTTTTYYYYY more important than hot! pretty! then ofcourse she need to be small to average original size so you dont deal with a big girl ....because when small girl gain weight on you and they all do ,,when they gain those 30 lb ....you want them to still look good and be chunky but small! you want it all in bulk and no fat rolls!,, rememer that pupils,,
at the end of the day a pussy is a pussy like a cock is a cock ,, ofcourse if you got 4 inch cock you will have a problem ...but 6-9 inches all the same shit,, and pussy is a pussy unless the whore was with 100 fellas then its loose but in general the americana girl been with 5-20 felas..and is tight enough
at the end of the day ,, its all the same and you can keep up relashionship if you are ok with the over all look of the other person ,, ofcourse the heart is very very important ,, but for the heart you have to find special people,, they are not around in large numbers,, if you do find theme ...oh you won the lottery my friends
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Your next ;)
Ill take that challenge
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You come from a diff era, today when people get married, it's not for the long haul. And women have more options than to stay with a man. Also, nobody really takes their vows seriously (as they see that their parents don't). Women think of the wedding, not the marriage.
And Wiggs, after 12 yrs of trying to prove your father wrong, was he right?
You are correct. I do come from a different era. However, my kids are more from your era than mine and their marriages have endured. As for women being independent, my wife often earned more money than I did during our working years....she could have walked aways anytime.
I agree that some folks think more about the wedding then the marriage. How unfortunate. I also think that some people today as well as when I was young, expect their spouse to be a prince charming or princess/playboy bunny and they are disappointed when it turns out they married a real person with flaws so they divorce and begin the search for another (impossibly) perfect mate.
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I'm 5'10 254 lbs.
Divorced with no kids and no STDs.
I'm very handsome.
I have a Bachelor's Degree and some MBA courses.
I'm a 10 year vet of the U.S. Air Force.
I'm very well spoken.
Never been in trouble with the law.
I have a JOB.
And finally I have many prospects and potential future projects lined up.
Thanks though.
Damn, Wiggs, after hearing that, I wanna marry you. :-X :-X :D :D
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the gangster fella is soooooooooooo right,, this is the smartest thing i have heard about today generation of women!,,they think about the WEDDDDDDDDING! they think about how big the ring is ..dont come with them with less thaN 1 karat!! some will say 2!! lol they all think about the wedding plan it plannnnn it argue cry plannnnnnnnnnnnnnn lol inorder to be divorced 1 year and 2 months later lol its always the same WITH MOST AMERICANO WHORES,, its mainly americano girls,, few of them are ok realy nice girls ,, but majority of them good lord,,they thikn of the damn wedding!!!!! this is so right,, they plan it ,,they get tons of shit in the mail with places and with cakes and with food and with whom and whats what ,, and they plan the bride maids clothing ,,and they make them buy shit ,, and they have to have everything match and make them spend big money lol and they have 375 brides maids,, and they have all balonie,,horrific,, they dont even think about the actual marriage and the love,,they think of how to impress lol
and the funny thing is! the americano who come to their weeding bring no money lol they bring gifts ,,tiny ass 25 dolaros cards or whatever stupid gifts,, lol its really really awekward,, americano girls my goodness if you can find the normal ones which are 10% you are lucky but 90% are A MESS STAY AWAY OR FUCK AND THROW
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I'm 5'10 254 lbs.
Divorced with no kids and no STDs.
I'm very handsome.
I have a Bachelor's Degree and some MBA courses.
I'm a 10 year vet of the U.S. Air Force.
I'm very well spoken.
Never been in trouble with the law.
I have a JOB.
And finally I have many prospects and potential future projects lined up.
Thanks though.
It seems like you have your shit together for the most part. You don't have to explain or defend yourself to folks here, you know. I'm with you....you'll be fine when all is said and done.
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I feel that all relationships will just turn into friendships eventually. A prominent member of getbig told me that the seven year itch is a very real phenomenon. Some have a spark for a few months, others a few years, but I think down the road it always becomes a friendship. So with that in mind I think the person one should be with is one they feel they can be good friends with. And this doesn't just happen to some people, it seems to happen to everyone.
I agree that the lasting relationships are the ones where each person is the other person's best friend. However, not everyone can survive this transition. There are some people who will always seek that initial spark that interested them. So for these people when the sex wanes, the marriage fails.
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the gangster fella is soooooooooooo right,, this is the smartest thing i have heard about today generation of women!,,they think about the WEDDDDDDDDING! they think about how big the ring is ..dont come with them with less thaN 1 karat!! some will say 2!! lol they all think about the wedding plan it plannnnn it argue cry plannnnnnnnnnnnnnn lol inorder to be divorced 1 year and 2 months later lol its always the same WITH MOST AMERICANO WHORES,, its mainly americano girls,, few of them are ok realy nice girls ,, but majority of them good lord,,they thikn of the damn wedding!!!!! this is so right,, they plan it ,,they get tons of shit in the mail with places and with cakes and with food and with whom and whats what ,, and they plan the bride maids clothing ,,and they make them buy shit ,, and they have to have everything match and make them spend big money lol and they have 375 brides maids,, and they have all balonie,,horrific,, they dont even think about the actual marriage and the love,,they think of how to impress lol
and the funny thing is! the americano who come to their weeding bring no money lol they bring gifts ,,tiny ass 25 dolaros cards or whatever stupid gifts,, lol its really really awekward,, americano girls my goodness if you can find the normal ones which are 10% you are lucky but 90% are A MESS STAY AWAY OR FUCK AND THROW
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I knew of a girl, beautiful blonde chica---all she thought about was getting married. She was pretty, intelligent, great personality, but SHE WANTED TO GET MARRIED! She was only thinking about her wedding. Period, not the marriage. She found a (safe guy) man to marry her...I told her, "think about the marriage, think about what would happen if he is hooked up to the dialysis machine..."
I believe that people should have the friendship, that kinship with one another...the concept of marriage hasn't change, it's the people--as the baby boomer generation hasn't given us good examples to follow in terms of marriages that work.
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thread backfire. :D
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sorry to hear this. you need to crash on my couch for a while bro?
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I knew of a girl, beautiful blonde chica---all she thought about was getting married. She was pretty, intelligent, great personality, but SHE WANTED TO GET MARRIED! She was only thinking about her wedding. Period, not the marriage. She found a (safe guy) man to marry her...I told her, "think about the marriage, think about what would happen if he is hooked up to the dialysis machine..."
I believe that people should have the friendship, that kinship with one another...the concept of marriage hasn't change, it's the people--as the baby boomer generation hasn't given us good examples to follow in terms of marriages that work.
By and large, you may be right about baby boomers not setting a good long term marriage example. But, there are exceptions. My wife and I are proof of that.
I like your suggestion about thinking about what would happen if ones spouse was on dialysis. My wife is not well. While not on dialysis at this time, she is on oxygen for congestive heart failure. Her poor health rules our lives these days. Could I have coped with this when I was twenty, thirty or forty something? I am not sure. What I do know is that I am glad that I am here for her now. If I weren't she might be in a nursing home. When we are young, we are beautiful and sexy and don't have a fucking care in the world. Time changes that for most of us. If all you have in a relationship is great sex and someone to show off to your friends, you don't really have a relationship you have a possession. Like most possessions that get old and tired, you'll probably toss them rather than covet them.
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By and large, you may be right about baby boomers not setting a good long term marriage example. But, there are exceptions. My wife and I are proof of that.
I like your suggestion about thinking about what would happen if ones spouse was on dialysis. My wife is not well. While not on dialysis at this time, she is on oxygen for congestive heart failure. Her poor health rules our lives these days. Could I have coped with this when I was twenty, thirty or forty something? I am not sure. What I do know is that I am glad that I am here for her now. If I weren't she might be in a nursing home. When we are young, we are beautiful and sexy and don't have a fucking care in the world. Time changes that for most of us. If all you have in a relationship is great sex and someone to show off to your friends, you don't really have a relationship you have a possession. Like most possessions that get old and tired, you'll probably toss them rather than covet them.
! ! ! to the 10th degree,, good man you are and true love you have
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wiggs is a helluva catch.
wiggsy, watch for teh ones who say they dont want kids. THEY DO.
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By and large, you may be right about baby boomers not setting a good long term marriage example. But, there are exceptions. My wife and I are proof of that.
I like your suggestion about thinking about what would happen if ones spouse was on dialysis. My wife is not well. While not on dialysis at this time, she is on oxygen for congestive heart failure. Her poor health rules our lives these days. Could I have coped with this when I was twenty, thirty or forty something? I am not sure. What I do know is that I am glad that I am here for her now. If I weren't she might be in a nursing home. When we are young, we are beautiful and sexy and don't have a fucking care in the world. Time changes that for most of us. If all you have in a relationship is great sex and someone to show off to your friends, you don't really have a relationship you have a possession. Like most possessions that get old and tired, you'll probably toss them rather than covet them.
True, there are exceptions, but as a whole, they (Baby boomers) have effed up.
I'm sorry to hear about your wife...when i mentioned the kidney machine, i heard this from T.D. Jakes, whose daughter was getting married, and he sat both of them down.
Chances are in a few yrs, I will have to be put on dialysis or get a kidney transplant. I have one kidney, and it ain't doing too well. If I get married, my wife will have to realize, that I may not be the person that she sees now. And vice versa.
I agree with your statement about possessions--If I may, can i use that?
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wiggs is a helluva catch.
wiggsy, watch for teh ones who say they dont want kids. THEY DO.
X1000
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wiggs is a helluva catch.
wiggsy, watch for teh ones who say they dont want kids. THEY DO.
Or they actually have kids---you just don't know about them yet.
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True, there are exceptions, but as a whole, they (Baby boomers) have effed up.
I'm sorry to hear about your wife...when i mentioned the kidney machine, i heard this from T.D. Jakes, whose daughter was getting married, and he sat both of them down.
Chances are in a few yrs, I will have to be put on dialysis or get a kidney transplant. I have one kidney, and it ain't doing too well. If I get married, my wife will have to realize, that I may not be the person that she sees now. And vice versa.
I agree with your statement about possessions--If I may, can i use that?
I expect a royalty check....not really. Anything that rings true for someone should be said and repeated often. People frequently talk too much and say nothing. It's good to know I said something you think is worth repeating.
Sorry to hear about your kidney issues. My wife's kidneys are at 35% function and holding. Hopefully she'll avoid dialysis. Getting old is a bitch for some folks. Take care of you health while your young, it pays off in the long run. Fortunately, I enjoy excellent health. Ornery guy that I am, I'll probably live to be 100 or so.
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That's all folks...Amicable decision, just grew apart. We both agree not to mudsling and will remain friends. I'm still young 32 in 14 days and no children so I got out pretty well.
When did you introduce your special friend "Gary" to the misses?
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Your next ;)
So be it.
BTW we had a beautiful day at the lake yesterday :-*.
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So be it.
BTW we had a beautiful day at the lake yesterday :-*.
She has bigger arms than most GBers :-\ :-\
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She has bigger arms than most GBers :-\ :-\
She works out.
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That's all folks...Amicable decision, just grew apart. We both agree not to mudsling and will remain friends. I'm still young 32 in 14 days and no children so I got out pretty well.
Sorry to hear that, but I appreciate your optimism.
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Judging from the thread Figgs made about las Vegas whores, I cant say I didn't see this coming....
precisely
what a colossal piece of shit
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ofcourse the heart is very very important ,, but for the heart you have to find special people,, they are not around in large numbers,, if you do find theme ...oh you won the lottery my friends
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Dear god, what's a fella to do when he finds this one with "the true and good heart" but then he comes to discover that she has had a very troubled childhood? Should this fella man up and be strong and tough it out and help her through the pain and damage that she went through during her childhood? Is it worth it?
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maybe this will give you a reason to get your fat lazy ass in shape
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Dear god, what's a fella to do when he finds this one with "the true and good heart" but then he comes to discover that she has had a very troubled childhood? Should this fella man up and be strong and tough it out and help her through the pain and damage that she went through during her childhood? Is it worth it?
no she will cheat ,, lost cases,, either cheat or in worse case murder your kid and cheat after or before ,,well it may not be your kid btu you get th epicture,,
in americana stay away from those troubled girls who been abused sexualy when young ,,they learn to really really like cock in a twisted way ,, they umm they see sex diffrently and they usualy have countless guys who fucked them ,,they dont tell you but thats because they are liars,,
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no she will cheat ,, lost cases,, either cheat or in worse case murder your kid and cheat after or before ,,well it may not be your kid btu you get th epicture,,
in americana stay away from those troubled girls who been abused sexualy when young ,,they learn to really really like cock in a twisted way ,, they umm they see sex diffrently and they usualy have countless guys who fucked them ,,they dont tell you but thats because they are liars,,
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But it wasn't sexual abuse, it was emotional and psychological abuse, from family, and from classmates throughout childhood. Also, she is not an americana girl, she is a polka (polish girl). Does this make a difference? Again, no sexual abuse happened to her, but she did go through severe emotional and psychological abuse.
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polka ?? they hate sex,, they lay like dead fish ,, so not only will you hav emental case but also dead fish in bed having sex once a month...think about the comments groink wil have on that matter...lol
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polka ?? they hate sex,, they lay like dead fish ,, so not only will you hav emental case but also dead fish in bed having sex once a month...think about the comments groink wil have on that matter...lol
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I wouldn't say that they hate sex, but they certainly do like to play games, and that's for damn sure. Well, at least most of them like to play games, but not all.
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It sucks and she is a good woman but we no longer belong together ~ We are actually going to continue living with each other until one of us is ready to move.
BIG, BIG fucking mistake. You just added unnecessary complications to the whole scenario, and you are basically contradicting yourself in the combination of those two sentences.
Do you have any idea how stressful the "Complications" can (and will) be? You don't. Mark my words: BIG MISTAKE. I feel for you bud.
Cut it. Cut it now. Get out. Move on.
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But it wasn't sexual abuse, it was emotional and psychological abuse, from family, and from classmates throughout childhood. Also, she is not an americana girl, she is a polka (polish girl). Does this make a difference? Again, no sexual abuse happened to her, but she did go through severe emotional and psychological abuse.
If you find someone who had and ideal childhood, let me know. Everyone I know thinks that there were issues with their childhood experiences. While I am not saying that emotional and psychological abuse isn't real, how bad it was is a matter of perspective. People need to grow up. One can spend their whole life fucked up because they choose to dwell on childhood issues or they can accept that life isn't perfect, take control over their happiness and move forward. It is always about choice. One can choose to be happy or choose to be miserable.
My mom liked to make herself feel more important by making everyone around her feel small. She's dead now. I got over it. Well actually, I battled with her over this issue and others when I was a kid, never giving in. As soon as I could, I got out of that crazy house and away from her destructive ways. When she died, I felt a loss and I felt relieved....
My step-dad was Polish. He was a great man.
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So be it.
BTW we had a beautiful day at the lake yesterday :-*.
che id be honored to cuckold yoru wife anytime buddy
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By and large, you may be right about baby boomers not setting a good long term marriage example. But, there are exceptions. My wife and I are proof of that.
I like your suggestion about thinking about what would happen if ones spouse was on dialysis. My wife is not well. While not on dialysis at this time, she is on oxygen for congestive heart failure. Her poor health rules our lives these days. Could I have coped with this when I was twenty, thirty or forty something? I am not sure. What I do know is that I am glad that I am here for her now. If I weren't she might be in a nursing home. When we are young, we are beautiful and sexy and don't have a fucking care in the world. Time changes that for most of us. If all you have in a relationship is great sex and someone to show off to your friends, you don't really have a relationship you have a possession. Like most possessions that get old and tired, you'll probably toss them rather than covet them.
Good post and good man.
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BIG, BIG fucking mistake. You just added unnecessary complications to the whole scenario, and you are basically contradicting yourself in the combination of those two sentences.
Do you have any idea how stressful the "Complications" can (and will) be? You don't. Mark my words: BIG MISTAKE. I feel for you bud.
Cut it. Cut it now. Get out. Move on.
Yes, I found out the hard way...Don't worry, I'm getting my things in order and financially preparing to move asap.
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Yes, I found out the hard way...Don't worry, I'm getting my things in order and financially preparing to move asap.
yes, because "getting shit done" is your MO.
I'm guessing you're moving out first thing in 2014.