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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: James28 on September 27, 2011, 01:45:07 AM
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Are they intrigued?, disgusted?, jealous?, positive? Do they openly stare?
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Pretty non-committal - I never really show off my physique outside of the gym and most people who don't know me just think I'm a rugby player or something. The ones that do know I train aren't that bothered but they usually ask the odd diet question or tell me they know "someone" who is "bigger" than me but they've now "stopped training" and all that muscle has "somehow" turned to fat.
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its a mixed bag... as i work in heavy engineering, i get alot of jobs they wouldnt ask other mortals to do, just to save time
most women dig it, despite what others claim on here,the blokes that sneer are the ones who tend to want to know what your doing!
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When I say I go to the gym they say:
(http://www.picslap.com/sites/default/files/styles/medium/public/field/image/lift.jpg)(http://www.picslap.com/sites/default/files/styles/medium/public/field/image/lift.jpg)(http://www.picslap.com/sites/default/files/styles/medium/public/field/image/lift.jpg)(http://www.picslap.com/sites/default/files/styles/medium/public/field/image/lift.jpg)(http://www.picslap.com/sites/default/files/styles/medium/public/field/image/lift.jpg)
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When I say I go to the gym they say:
You're natural, it's normal.
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Women like it, men get jealous.
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They don't know shit...
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I'm not a big guy at all, but I do have prominent forearm and upper arm vascularity that often gets comments.
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some good comments, some bad comments (usually those come from fat women or dude.. they give me a speach about being healthy)
I would say it draws a LOT of attention, wich might be good or bad also but usually it's for the best
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pupil stavios,,, do u think the attention thing is one of the reasons why its hard staying off?... im not afraid to admit it!
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When I say I go to the gym they say:
(http://www.picslap.com/sites/default/files/styles/medium/public/field/image/lift.jpg)(http://www.picslap.com/sites/default/files/styles/medium/public/field/image/lift.jpg)(http://www.picslap.com/sites/default/files/styles/medium/public/field/image/lift.jpg)(http://www.picslap.com/sites/default/files/styles/medium/public/field/image/lift.jpg)(http://www.picslap.com/sites/default/files/styles/medium/public/field/image/lift.jpg)
Do you respond by raising the back of your shirt?
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pupil stavios,,, do u think the attention thing is one of the reasons why its hard staying off?... im not afraid to admit it!
Not that much because even when I am off I still get comments about my size (because I get fat so I stay the same size in a t-shirt)
the main reason why it's hard for me to stay off, is the "looking shittier and shittier every passing day" part ;D
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Some of them are impressed, real positive...others get "defensive" ::).
Some get to you asking for advice, they seem positive and when you turn your back they are backstabing you.
Its really mixed..
I often hear "health" lectures from fat fucks or hasbeens...smiles from women and tough "stares" from their bfriends.
Its always the same "My cousin/aunt/brother etc is bigger than you"..."I was the same size, maybe bigger at your age" phrases.
Ive got used to them all.
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Your mom responds good
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Do you respond by raising the back of your shirt?
Now why would I do that? ???
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"Mom , mom! I'm finally on a cover! I said it would be worth it to move to california!"
"is that your ass my daughter?"
"yes"
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They don't, I hide it as much as possible.
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Sugar Shawn working the charm offensive
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Now why would I do that? ???
To prove those bitches are dead wrong ;D
Just kidding, we're prob the same, humble and a bit introvert.
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To prove those bitches are dead wrong ;D
Just kidding, we're prob the same, humble and a bit introvert.
By showing his lower back? you're very confusing lol
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They don't, I hide it as much as possible.
x2. Easiest way.
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(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=396676.0;attach=431989;image)
One of the first editions of S&F I've bought when I wasn't even lifting. That magazine sucked, haha
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By showing his lower back? you're very confusing lol
Oh wait, I thought he meant to take off the whole shirt, haha
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To prove those bitches are dead wrong ;D
Just kidding, we're prob the same, humble and a bit introvert.
I am neither humble nor introverted ;D
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Where can I buy this shirt!
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I am neither humble nor introverted ;D
Oh yes, you are ;D
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me and the boys back in the 80's
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Typical reaction?
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Typical reaction?
They think he's gay until they hear him speak. Then they think he's really gay.
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They tend to go, "Fuaaarrrrkkkk!!!" followed up with, "Come the fuck at me bro"
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never talk to other...
if your physique is good, people can tell even you put clothes on..
and I m 5'8 160 with sik pack..naturally dwarfed by 180 20%bf people ;D ;D ;D
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Why do you guys hide it? I mean, completely covered up? :-\ ???
You work hard for it...show the fat fucks what its like to look like that...shatter their feelings into pieces.
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(http://cdn1.beeffco.com/files/poll-images/normal/arnold-schwarzenegger_5025.jpg)
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Why do you guys hide it? I mean, completely covered up? :-\ ???
You work hard for it...show the fat fucks what its like to look like that...shatter their feelings into pieces.
"I cover up my muscles" is a code word for the tiny natural tits on the board.
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Just walk the walk and let the body do the talk...
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Are they intrigued?, disgusted?, jealous?, positive? Do they openly stare?
All of the above
Intimidated most as I work in an office
And people in general ask dumb questions
How much do you bench?
I bet you could lift a truck?
Wouldn't want to meet you in a alley?
What do you take (this mostly from dumb lazy stupid guys)
And so on
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My total lack of dress sense nicely diverts all untoward attention. ;D
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All of the above
Intimidated most as I work in an office
And people in general ask dumb questions
How much do you bench?
I bet you could lift a truck?
Wouldn't want to meet you in a alley?
What do you take (this mostly from dumb lazy stupid guys)
And so on
Racist post reported.
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All of the above
Intimidated most as I work in an office
And people in general ask dumb questions
How much do you bench?
I bet you could lift a truck?
Wouldn't want to meet you in a alley?
What do you take (this mostly from dumb lazy stupid guys)
And so on
Or guys who know anything about bodybuilding. ::)
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Or guys who know anything about bodybuilding. ::)
They only know the word 'steroids', how smart ::)
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My total lack of dress sense nicely diverts all untoward attention. ;D
I noticed about a 1000% increase in looks from females after I finally decided to dress in Nice clothes and not obsess about trying to look "big" and big clothes etc. Never realised it would feel taht much better to dress nice. I guess I never cared enough to give it a shot
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Why do you guys hide it? I mean, completely covered up? :-\ ???
You work hard for it...show the fat fucks what its like to look like that...shatter their feelings into pieces.
I look fine covered up as well coz I got ok structure despite short stature. Looking somewhat athletic is enough to look different from majority of guys who are just skinnyfat.
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Or guys who know anything about bodybuilding. ::)
and their spirits are crushed when the get the true answer....
no magic potion..or tricks
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just god and parent given genetics... muscle size shape and strengthwise... and fucking hard training
hate it or love it thats the truth
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and their spirits are crushed when the get the true answer....
no magic potion..or tricks
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just god and parent given genetics... muscle size shape and strengthwise... and fucking hard training
hate it or love it thats the truth
::) ::) ::) ::)
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Can one of the moderators edit the titles so that we don't look like a bunch of knuckleheads here at Getbig!
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my physio had trouble treating me because of the muscles
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my physio had trouble treating me because of the muscles
Then you should find a new one.
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Kunt-rash are you going to get on the sauce yet ? then at least people might ask if you are a horse jockey
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Kunt-rash are you going to get on the sauce yet ? then at least people might ask if you are a horse jockey
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
He could look like a underwear model if he megadosed. ;D ;D
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Kunt-rash are you going to get on the sauce yet ? then at least people might ask if you are a horse jockey
LOL, is that nick gonna stick ? Horse jockeys weigh 110lbs and are under 5'6", so I am too "big" :D
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
He could look like a underwear model if he megadosed. ;D ;D
Translation: you are my kinda twink
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::) ::) ::) ::)
Why hasn't anyone outed this fool?
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and their spirits are crushed when the get the true answer....
no magic potion..or tricks
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just god and parent given genetics... muscle size shape and strengthwise... and fucking hard training
hate it or love it thats the truth
If there was god and steroids didn't exist then you would be right!
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If there was god and steroids didn't exist then you would be right!
;D
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LOL, is that nick gonna stick ? Horse jockeys weigh 110lbs and are under 5'6", so I am too "big" :D
I kinda like it ;D
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It'ds kinda a weird when dudes ask to see my hammy,glute tie in...
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I get three different responses.
1) people who tote me as a guy who can fight when i can't ???
2)guys that compete with me for no reason
3)people that think because I'm lanky/slouch that I'm somehow out of shape.
So I've kinda learned that what people think and what is are total opposites. Truth is I look like shit but am somewhat fit compared to the majority of the population.
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Can one of the moderators edit the titles so that we don't look like a bunch of knuckleheads here at Getbig!
Too late.
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HOW DO PEOPLE...
Good looking women, old or young, wish i could be their fucktoy the first time they see me. They often live with a skinny fat dude who only focus on money and material goods and is insecure in bed, talking a lot about sex but shitty at it. The kind of people who always check twitter and spam their facebooks with stupid pics of themselves striking poses ressembling those of the stars you see on Tv and in the magazines. Or they re single, but so fucked up in their head, so self centered, so badly raised that even if they re good looking and working, they re desperate for genuine relationships they dont have the tools to create nor maintain.
At work the younger ones attempt to seduce me everytime in the beginning but when they figure they cant cause i m engaged, they start getting angry and passive aggressive cause they cannot obtain my attention. The want to be adored, worshipped constantly, to impress, because they have a low self esteem and their only pleasure in life is to dominate others, that's the way they ve been raised from day one, so i aint going to change this anytime soon, that's just the way it is.
I mostly despise them for their superficiality and lack of honnesty which doesnt help, after a while. Most average looking single females like me and wish I could be their man, but they know it's impossible, that it's not realistic so a true friendship then can follow, when everything is very clear and when you know you re going to be able to count on their honnesty and genuine friendship because nothing else is at work in the background of everyone subconscious. Of course they touch themselves at night dreaming about me, but that's how it works.
These people are truly interesting , you can do something with them, and I often leave them some insights on my personal relationship with my woman, on how to please men, how to improve their looks / way of thinking , how to be feminine and down to earth subrepticely over time. These people actually like me a lot and simultaneously are in conflict with the aggressive, dominating prima donnas/drama queens who are looking good but just use this to stab people in their back every chance they get. They are often spending more time pretending to be happy than they really are, while the down to earth , less attractive girls are always happy go lucky.
I use what i have to inspire other people better themselves as much as possible, and avoid improductive conflicts with the dumbest ones using my brains instead of my appearance. After all they re just suffering individuals who didnt learn how to correctly interact with others because of their own parents.
After some time spent in a place, most people both women and men out of the blue start talking about diet, doing cardio, etc right in front of me on purpose just because they saw details of my chiseled lean body under a shirt and it automatically redirect all their thoughts and discussions toward the subject. I politely ignore them as they obviously wait for me to give in and start opening my mouth on a subject i obviously know enough to speak about, and as i keep my mouth shut and let them make fools of themselves, they get even more frustrated, but i know from experience it's useless, they would all start get even more insecure i would have to expose them. I simply let them come to me personaly by themselves when the occasion presents itself. This way im not the one asking, demanding anything, showing off, pretending to be better than everyone, and i place myself in a position of humility , it's a gift to them if i share my knowledges, an opportunity. They re the ones who asked for it in the firstplace.
Then it's all, always, about "how can i /lose weight/get toned/losing belly fat doing crunches and sit ups (...) i d like to train for health but "i dont want to look like arnold s/" etc and other bullshits. Again I politely tell them what it truly requires, the genetical part of it, that anyone can do it, that's it easy and mostly only requires consistancy over time and in change of habits... that ultimately it doesnt garantee anyone complete eternal blissful hapiness for the rest of their life... that other things are important in life.. that training can improve life but that if you re fucked up psychologically it aint going to help much ...that it's both about working on your mind as much as you work on your body... and 9 times out of 10 after a week they just simply forget it all and decide to come back to their old habits. They figured what it really takes, their illusions are shattered and only the smartest, most motivated ones keep asking me for advises, thus giving birth to a friendly relationship. They give me things in return, of course. That's how it works, human, animal nature.
They obviously stay jealous, but a bit less than in the beginning as you re useful to them in some way.
Out of shape men are jealous for most. Not just of my physique when they can see some of its details when im wearing a shirt but essentially also of my facial traits. Seeing muscles just reinforce the tendancy. Only very few of them like my character but most of the time because i represent a father figure and because they want to learn my knowledges about weight lifting to become just like me so they get somewhat friendly. But you cant be friend with everyone, right? Also the more you age, the more you understand that your life revolves only around two or three at most, truly meaningful relationships, we arent designed for more. Men on steroids due to the artificial effects of drugs on the biochemical processes in their brains think everyone is in love with them, that everyone respects them, that they are living gods. Of course it lasts as long as they re on. Both the feeling of being powerful, and the respect of others. I think nobody exists in their mind but themselves. I went thru that when i started lifting weights and figured the impact it had on others. But i was too well educated fromt he beginning to sink into the extremes these people with bad (or no) advisers followed. They mostly despise/ignore me just like they ignore/despise anyone who isnt falling for their fake, bullshit personnality anyway, yet simultaneously instinctively think that i have something they could need later in life, when they grow up. Only later in life will they remember my behaviors and sayings, and figure that i understood what they just understand now, years before them. Exceptionnaly some of them are attracted by my personnality and start taking some of my stuff and introduce it into their own thought process, but they are often used to take without giving in return, so they cannot get much more from me while other more genuine people can. Fact is especially nowadays, you often have to teach people who want to interact with you, HOW TO INTERACT GIVING AS MUCH AS YOU ASK FIRST, because their parents abandonned religion, which was a unique systeme everybody followed in the interest of the majority, so everyone was following the same rules and principles. Give as much as you ask. Be polite. Dont be self centered, have empathy. These people just attempt to fuck other people in the ass to get what they want -and worse, more and more take pleasure in this-, just because that's how their -divorced- parents interacted in front of them during their whole childhood/adolescence. These new generations have been raised by single mothers, with no or poor father figures, with no principles that are superior to themselves. They think they are god himself. They all think they are god. Immature, violent, emotionless, manipulative kids who use all their knowledges to their sole and only benefit. Thank socialism, capitalism , feminism, and the destruction of Christianity, the Father, and the family.
Again the juice monkeys are on drugs because they cant deal with real life without them, they re just living in an illusion waiting to dissipate at some point in life just like all other illusions. I believed in illusions too, so i understand where they re at. And that it's useless to convince people they are acting dumb by sheer ignorance until they didnt find it out by themselves, often while destroying relationships with really meaningful loved ones. When it happens, i become important to them, and they leave the fake personnality at the door. The re often coming from families filled with addictive behaviors, who have a hard time finding a right middle in what they do or think. I know too well what s really at work deep in the background, and how useless it would be while they re on an artificially produced chemical rush to talk some sense into them. They re addicts just like any other addict, but because the whole world dont condemn their addiction because it's not a well known one like cigarettes, alcohol, etc, they think it's not an addiction. They re luring themselves, lying to themselves. And they think they re also smarter than everyone else, doing something that artificially put them above other human beings in particular circumstances. They can only rely on it as time goes, they fear the day they wont be able to use anymore, the day they ll become normal again. They also tend not to be able to go outside of their bubble in fear of being exposed. They re like a fish outside of the water, and they dont like it. So they stay together and backstab each others over and over with huge bleached smiles, in their little vain bubble, cheating on themselves, on everyone else, injecting and believing they are gods. When they re just mortals addicted to drugs who contribute almost nothing to society, considering they even despise the people they could, should train. These people are affraid someone might look better , more dominant than them, so they wont even help customers, it's the oposite.
They are not humans. As real humans deal with reality without the help of drugs. They re enhanced, yet psychologically fragile, colossus with weak feet. Sooner or later it will be proven, and they ll be the creators of their own despair. It's all in the head, first and foremost. Appearence and behaviors are only the result of what's in the head. And what's in the head is programmed originally by the way you ve been loved, the way you interacted with your caregivers.
I wont even comment on the younger kids who just happened to discover weight lifting, sport all the disguise accessories, wether they re on steroids or not. It's useless to waste any energy talking some sense into them at that stage. Is there really a need to mention 99,9% of them are left without a decent father figure?
I cover my muscles 95% of the time and only reveal them ponctually once in a while just to remember people that the fitness level of my body is superior to theirs, as a main strategy of survival "outside". I dont take any pleasure in doing so, more like i'm forced to because i m with dumb people subconsciouly following dumb principles that make everyone feel shitty. I have to play the game with the animals as i m sometime forced to evolve in their vicinity. But it's only happening in environments filled with dumb or intellectually average individuals. This shit doesnt happen when you re dealing with the smartest and genuinely empathic individuals on earth who can read in your mind like in an open books. These people have no time for all these bullshits, they re busy helping people, raising kids, contributing genuinely.
The more you age the less it matters much to be the bigger fish in the pond, as there s always a new bigger one in it, the more brains are needed instead of muscles. It's called growing up , maturing. If past 30 you re still into impressing other men showing off muscles... it means you only understood 1% of what life is about. Also you cannot raise kids if you re only focusing on yourself being an immature kid yourself -because your parents who divorced/abandonned you were immatures kids themselves; that 's what you learned subconsciously, to reproduce their thought processes and behaviors-.
Something guys in their 40s or even 60s still didnt understand. Age has nothing to do with being wise , especially nowadays with older people attempting to become kids again as death approaches. They fear death because they havent been prepared to face it, because they abandoned religion, which precisely is intended to prepare you for this event. If you re not prepared, you re fearing it -like a kid- and you adopt bullshit strategies that only show you re not prepared to those who are.
Education, genuine love and spirituality and facing life with humility, with a fully developped consciousness, without using any shortcuts, are what make you wiser.
A nice lesson of humility is when i play basketball outdoor with some random teens in summer, and realizes that my legs and knees , as muscular and fit i am, are hurting only after 15/20 minutes of play. I also cant even fucking breath anymore and need to rest for like 30 minutes afterwards. I might be muscular and fit, but there are only very few people that benefit from it; me and my loved ones. If i can inspire others, when they deserve it and ask for my knowledges to improve their own chances of survival and if they give me something i actually could need in return , it's all good. But it only happens like 0,01 % of the time. These kids tell me that they re impressed by my physique, that it motivates them and they hope they look that good at my age.
I answer by telling them ... to focus on studies and family instead of basketball and "being the biggest/baddest fish in the shitty pond" they re forced to swim in with others badly raised kids like them. Again, is anyone surprised these kids see me as a father figure considering they ve had none or terrible ones?
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Confident and cocky, but wise post, Uberman.
Like in any aspect of life, there are more dreamers -gifted or not- than hard workers.
Most people are afraid to come out of their comfort zone.
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HOW DO PEOPLE...
Good looking women, old or young, wish i could be their fucktoy the first time they see me. They often live with a skinny fat dude who only focus on money and material goods and is insecure in bed, talking a lot about sex but shitty at it. The kinds of people who always check twitter and spam their facebooks with stupid pics of themselves striking poses ressembling those of the stars you see on Tv and in the magazines. Or they re single, but so fucked up in their head, so self centered, so badly raised that even if they re good looking and working, they re desperate for genuine relationships they dont have the tools to create nor maintain.
At work the younger ones attempt to seduce me everytime in the beginning but when they figure they cant cause i m engaged, they start getting angry and passive aggressive cause they cannot obtain my attention. The want to be adored, worshipped constantly, to impress, because they have a low self esteem and their only pleasure in life is to dominate others, that's the way they ve been raised from day one, so i aint going to change this anytime soon, that's just the way it is.
I mostly despise them for their superficiality and lack of honnesty which doesnt help, after a while. Most average looking single females like me and wish I could be their man, but they know it's impossible, that it's not realistic so a true friendship then can follow, when everything is very clear and when you know you re going to be able to count on their honnesty and genuine friendship because nothing else is at work in the background of everyone subconscious. Of course they touch themselves at night dreaming about me, but that's how it works.
These people are truly interesting , you can do something with them, and I often leave them some insights on my personal relationship with my woman, on how to please men, how to improve their looks / way of thinking , how to be feminine and down to earth subrepticely over time. These people actually like me a lot and simultaneously are in conflict with the aggressive, dominating prima donnas/drama queens who are looking good but just use this to stab people in their back every chance they get. They are often spending more time pretending to be happy than they really are, while the down to earth , less attractive girls are always happy go lucky.
I use what i have to inspire other people better themselves as much as possible, and avoid improductive conflicts with the dumbest ones using my brains instead of my appearance. After all they re just suffering individuals who didnt learn how to correctly interact with others because of their own parents.
After some time spent in a place, most people both women and men out of the blue start talking about diet, doing cardio, etc just because they saw details of my chiseled lean body under a shirt and it automatically redirect all their thoughts and discussions toward the subject. i politely ignore them as they wait for me to give in and start opening my mouth on a subject i obviously know enough to speak about, and they get even more frustrated, but i know from experience it's useless, they would all start get even more insecure i would have to expose them. I simply let them come to me personaly by themselves when the occasion presents itself. This way im not the one asking, demanding anything, showing off, pretending to be better than everyone, and i place myself in a position of humility , it's a gift to them if i share my knowledges, an opportunity. They re the ones who asked for it in the firstplace.
Then it's all, always, about "how can i /lose weight/get toned/losing belly fat doing crunches and sit ups (...) i d like to train for health but "i dont want to look like arnold s/" etc and other bullshits. Again I politely tell them what it truly requires, the genetical part of it, that anyone can do it, that's it easy and mostly only requires consistancy over time and in change of habits... that ultimately it doesnt garantee anyone complete eternal blissful hapiness for the rest of their life... that other things are important in life.. that training can improve life but that if you re fucked up psychologically it aint going to help much ...that it's both about working on your mind as much as you work on your body... and 9 times out of 10 after a week they just simply forget it all and decide to come back to their old habits. They figured what it really takes, their illusions are shattered and only the smartest, most motivated ones keep asking me for advises, thus giving birth to a friendly relationship. They give me things in return, of course. That's how it works, human, animal nature.
They obviously stay jealous, but a bit less than in the beginning as you re useful to them in some way.
Out of shape men are jealous for most. Not just of my physique when they can see some of its details when im wearing a shirt but essentially also of my facial traits. Seeing muscles just reinforce the tendancy. Only very few of them like my character but most of the time because i represent a father figure and because they want to learn my knowledges about weight lifting to become just like me so they get somewhat friendly. But you cant be friend with everyone, right? Also the more you age, the more you understand that your life revolves only around two or three at most, truly meaningful relationships, we arent designed for more. Men on steroids due to the artificial effects of drugs on the biochemical processes in their brains think everyone is in love with them, that everyone respects them, that they are living gods. Of course it lasts as long as they re on. I think nobody exists in their mind but themselves. I went thru that when i started lifting weights and figured the impact it had on others. But i was too well educated fromt he beginning to sink into the extremes these people with bad advisers followed.
I cover my muscles 95% of the time and only reveal them ponctually once in a while just to remember people that the fitness level of my body is superior to their, as a main strategy of survival. Still, it doesnt mean much as there s always a bigger fish in the pond, and that the more you age, the more brains are needed instead of muscles. It's called growing up , maturing.
Something guys in their 40s or even 60s still didnt understand. Age has nothing to do with being wise , especially nowadays with older people attempting to become kids again as death approaches.
Education, genuine love and spirituality and facing life with humility, with a fully developped consciousness, without using any shortcuts, are what make you wiser.
A nice lesson of humility is when i play basketball outdoor with some random teens in summer, and realizes that my legs and knees , as muscular and fit i am, are hurting only after 15/20 minutes of play. I also cant even fucking breath anymore and need to rest for like 30 minutes afterwards. I might be muscular and fit, but there are only very few people that benefit from it; me and my loved ones. If i can inspire others, when they deserve it and ask for my knowledges to improve their own chances of survival and if they give me something i actually could need in return , it's all good. But it only happens like 0,01 % of the time.
WTF dude nobody is gonna read all that shit.
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WTF dude nobody is gonna read all that shit.
Its a fuckin good post. I read it.
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glad im not a big bber then no one takes you seriously anymore and you constantly have to prove yourself.
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Uberman telling it like it is, all true
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HOW DO PEOPLE...
Good looking women, old or young, wish i could be their fucktoy the first time they see me. They often live with a skinny fat dude who only focus on money and material goods and is insecure in bed, talking a lot about sex but shitty at it. The kind of people who always check twitter and spam their facebooks with stupid pics of themselves striking poses ressembling those of the stars you see on Tv and in the magazines. Or they re single, but so fucked up in their head, so self centered, so badly raised that even if they re good looking and working, they re desperate for genuine relationships they dont have the tools to create nor maintain.
At work the younger ones attempt to seduce me everytime in the beginning but when they figure they cant cause i m engaged, they start getting angry and passive aggressive cause they cannot obtain my attention. The want to be adored, worshipped constantly, to impress, because they have a low self esteem and their only pleasure in life is to dominate others, that's the way they ve been raised from day one, so i aint going to change this anytime soon, that's just the way it is.
I mostly despise them for their superficiality and lack of honnesty which doesnt help, after a while. Most average looking single females like me and wish I could be their man, but they know it's impossible, that it's not realistic so a true friendship then can follow, when everything is very clear and when you know you re going to be able to count on their honnesty and genuine friendship because nothing else is at work in the background of everyone subconscious. Of course they touch themselves at night dreaming about me, but that's how it works.
These people are truly interesting , you can do something with them, and I often leave them some insights on my personal relationship with my woman, on how to please men, how to improve their looks / way of thinking , how to be feminine and down to earth subrepticely over time. These people actually like me a lot and simultaneously are in conflict with the aggressive, dominating prima donnas/drama queens who are looking good but just use this to stab people in their back every chance they get. They are often spending more time pretending to be happy than they really are, while the down to earth , less attractive girls are always happy go lucky.
I use what i have to inspire other people better themselves as much as possible, and avoid improductive conflicts with the dumbest ones using my brains instead of my appearance. After all they re just suffering individuals who didnt learn how to correctly interact with others because of their own parents.
After some time spent in a place, most people both women and men out of the blue start talking about diet, doing cardio, etc right in front of me on purpose just because they saw details of my chiseled lean body under a shirt and it automatically redirect all their thoughts and discussions toward the subject. I politely ignore them as they obviously wait for me to give in and start opening my mouth on a subject i obviously know enough to speak about, and as i keep my mouth shut and let them make fools of themselves, they get even more frustrated, but i know from experience it's useless, they would all start get even more insecure i would have to expose them. I simply let them come to me personaly by themselves when the occasion presents itself. This way im not the one asking, demanding anything, showing off, pretending to be better than everyone, and i place myself in a position of humility , it's a gift to them if i share my knowledges, an opportunity. They re the ones who asked for it in the firstplace.
Then it's all, always, about "how can i /lose weight/get toned/losing belly fat doing crunches and sit ups (...) i d like to train for health but "i dont want to look like arnold s/" etc and other bullshits. Again I politely tell them what it truly requires, the genetical part of it, that anyone can do it, that's it easy and mostly only requires consistancy over time and in change of habits... that ultimately it doesnt garantee anyone complete eternal blissful hapiness for the rest of their life... that other things are important in life.. that training can improve life but that if you re fucked up psychologically it aint going to help much ...that it's both about working on your mind as much as you work on your body... and 9 times out of 10 after a week they just simply forget it all and decide to come back to their old habits. They figured what it really takes, their illusions are shattered and only the smartest, most motivated ones keep asking me for advises, thus giving birth to a friendly relationship. They give me things in return, of course. That's how it works, human, animal nature.
They obviously stay jealous, but a bit less than in the beginning as you re useful to them in some way.
Out of shape men are jealous for most. Not just of my physique when they can see some of its details when im wearing a shirt but essentially also of my facial traits. Seeing muscles just reinforce the tendancy. Only very few of them like my character but most of the time because i represent a father figure and because they want to learn my knowledges about weight lifting to become just like me so they get somewhat friendly. But you cant be friend with everyone, right? Also the more you age, the more you understand that your life revolves only around two or three at most, truly meaningful relationships, we arent designed for more. Men on steroids due to the artificial effects of drugs on the biochemical processes in their brains think everyone is in love with them, that everyone respects them, that they are living gods. Of course it lasts as long as they re on. Both the feeling of being powerful, and the respect of others. I think nobody exists in their mind but themselves. I went thru that when i started lifting weights and figured the impact it had on others. But i was too well educated fromt he beginning to sink into the extremes these people with bad (or no) advisers followed. They mostly despise/ignore me just like they ignore/despise anyone who isnt falling for their fake, bullshit personnality anyway, yet simultaneously instinctively think that i have something they could need later in life, when they grow up. Only later in life will they remember my behaviors and sayings, and figure that i understood what they just understand now, years before them. Exceptionnaly some of them are attracted by my personnality and start taking some of my stuff and introduce it into their own thought process, but they are often used to take without giving in return, so they cannot get much more from me while other more genuine people can. Fact is especially nowadays, you often have to teach people who want to interact with you, HOW TO INTERACT GIVING AS MUCH AS MUCH AS YOU ASK FIRST, because their parents abandonned religion, which was a unique systeme everybody followed in the interest of the majority, so everyone was following the same rules and principles. Give as much as you ask. Be polite. Dont be self centered, have empathy. These people just attempt to fuck other people in the ass to get what they want -and worse, more and more take pleasure in this-, just because that's how their -divorced- parents interacted in front of them during their whole childhood/adolescence. These new generations have been raised by single mothers, with no or poor father figures, with no principles that are superior to themselves. They think they are god himself. They all think they are god. Immature, violent, emotionless, manipulative kids who use all their knowledges to their sole and only benefit. Thank socialism, capitalism , feminism, and the destruction of Christianity, the Father, and the family.
Again these people are on drugs because they cant deal with real life without them, they re just living in an illusion waiting to dissipate at some point in life just like all other illusions. I believed in illusions too, so i understand where they re at. And that it's useless to convince people they are acting dumb by sheer ignorance until they didnt find it out by themselves, often while destroying relationships with really meaningful loved ones. When it happens, i become important to them, and they leave the fake personnality at the door. The re often coming from families filled with addictive behaviors, who have a hard time finding a right middle in what they do or think. I know too well what s really at work deep in the background, and how useless it would be while they re on an artificially produced chemical rush to talk some sense into them.
They are not humans. As real humans deal with reality without the help of drugs. They re enhanced, yet psychologically fragile, colossus with weak feet. Sooner or later it will be proven, and they ll be the creators of their own despair. It's all in the head, first and foremost. Appearence and behaviors are only the result of what's in the head. And what's in the head is programmed originally by the way you ve been loved, the way you interacted with your caregivers.
I wont even comment on the younger kids who just happened to discover weight lifting, sport all the disguise accessories, wether they re on steroids or not. It's useless to waste any energy talking some sense into them at that stage. Is there really a need to mention 99,9% of them are left without a decent father figure?
I cover my muscles 95% of the time and only reveal them ponctually once in a while just to remember people that the fitness level of my body is superior to theirs, as a main strategy of survival "outside". I dont take any pleasure in doing so, more like i'm forced to because i m with dumb people subconsciouly following dumb principles that make everyone feel shitty. I have to play the game with the animals as i m sometime forced to evolve in their vicinity. But it's only happening in environments filled with dumb or intellectually average individuals. This shit doesnt happen when you re dealing with the smartest and genuinely empathic individuals on earth.
The more you age the less it matters much to be the bigger fish in the pond, as there s always a new bigger one in it, the more brains are needed instead of muscles. It's called growing up , maturing. If past 30 you re still into impressing other men showing off muscles... it means you only understood 1% of what life is about. Also you cannot raise kids if you re only focusing on yourself being an immature kid yourself -because your parents who divorced/abandonned you were immatures kids themselves; that 's what you learned subconsciously, to reproduce their thought processes and behaviors-.
Something guys in their 40s or even 60s still didnt understand. Age has nothing to do with being wise , especially nowadays with older people attempting to become kids again as death approaches. They fear death because they havent been prepared to face it, because they abandoned religion, which precisely is intended to prepare you for this event. If you re not prepared, you re fearing it -like a kid- and you adopt bullshit strategies that only show you re not prepared to those who are.
Education, genuine love and spirituality and facing life with humility, with a fully developped consciousness, without using any shortcuts, are what make you wiser.
A nice lesson of humility is when i play basketball outdoor with some random teens in summer, and realizes that my legs and knees , as muscular and fit i am, are hurting only after 15/20 minutes of play. I also cant even fucking breath anymore and need to rest for like 30 minutes afterwards. I might be muscular and fit, but there are only very few people that benefit from it; me and my loved ones. If i can inspire others, when they deserve it and ask for my knowledges to improve their own chances of survival and if they give me something i actually could need in return , it's all good. But it only happens like 0,01 % of the time. These kids tell me that they re impressed by my physique, that it motivates them and they hope they look that good at my age.
I answer by telling them ... to focus on studies and family instead of basketball and "being the biggest/baddest fish in the shitty pond" they re forced to swim in with others badly raised kids like them. Again, is anyone surprised these kids see me as a father figure considering they ve had none or terrible ones?
This is why you should never abuse adderall
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Some of them are impressed, real positive...others get "defensive" ::).
Some get to you asking for advice, they seem positive and when you turn your back they are backstabing you.
Its really mixed..
I often hear "health" lectures from fat fucks or hasbeens...smiles from women and tough "stares" from their bfriends.
Its always the same "My cousin/aunt/brother etc is bigger than you"..."I was the same size, maybe bigger at your age" phrases.
Ive got used to them all.
I love that one. "When I was your age blah, blah blah" It's like, no you werent. I'm jacked, you're a has-been
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I used to teach high school and I think my build helped a lot in class with discipline. I never had any trouble with kids who were supposedly troublemakers - they just shut up and got on with their work and I had really good relationships with them. I always tried to treat the kids with respect anyway, but the supposed problem kids used to respond straight away, so I figure it must have have been something to do with how I looked. I was also the only school teacher all the graduating babes came to hug at the end of year - which wasn't all that hard to take. ;)
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Pretty non-committal - I never really show off my physique outside of the gym and most people who don't know me just think I'm a rugby player or something. The ones that do know I train aren't that bothered but they usually ask the odd diet question or tell me they know "someone" who is "bigger" than me but they've now "stopped training" and all that muscle has "somehow" turned to fat.
haha
the "I know someone bigger than you" and "muscle turned to fat" seems to be universal. I've heard those quite some times over the years aswell.
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I work in an office so I get asked to move file cabinets a lot. Also, how much ya bench is a constant classic.
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I work in an office so I get asked to move file cabinets a lot. Also, how much ya bench is a constant classic.
Answer them Getbig style: As foreplay I bench your mom 100x
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Are they intrigued?, disgusted?, jealous?, positive? Do they openly stare?
they think I have a small cock.
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they love to regurgitate some shit they have read on the net, like "I'm doing squats coz they make you grow all over" etc. Or the perfect time to hit the "fat burning zone" for cardio. Brutal.
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Are they intrigued?, disgusted?, jealous?, positive? Do they openly stare?
(http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3368/3495080021_b72dfc6229.jpg)
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they think I have a small cock.
And you have a small cock because of hormone side effect? ;D
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And you have a small cock because of hormone side effect? ;D
No, it has nothing to do with steroids, i was born with it. :)
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Interesting stories here. Most of you guys pretty much hit the mark. I generally find two situations that seems to be recurring the most. One is feigned disinterested where he/she (usually he) would rather saw of his own dick than take a look and by that look acknowledging, or one where the person I'm talking to 'used to train and be just as big'. I've only ever had one compliment and that was from my girlfriend's best mate. The rest of the time people seem to hate. Directly or indirectly.
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Women get angry and roll their eyes, some of them try to deny your existence. Men want an autograph and wanna be your best friend. The guys that suffer from ego complexes hold their arms out like they have razor blades under their arms when they see me and act like I ain't shit.
Those are the most common reactions I get. When people hold doors open for me and look scared I almost shed a single tear, its so flattering. :'(
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HOW DO PEOPLE...
Good looking women, old or young, wish i could be their fucktoy the first time they see me. They often live with a skinny fat dude who only focus on money and material goods and is insecure in bed, talking a lot about sex but shitty at it. The kind of people who always check twitter and spam their facebooks with stupid pics of themselves striking poses ressembling those of the stars you see on Tv and in the magazines. Or they re single, but so fucked up in their head, so self centered, so badly raised that even if they re good looking and working, they re desperate for genuine relationships they dont have the tools to create nor maintain.
At work the younger ones attempt to seduce me everytime in the beginning but when they figure they cant cause i m engaged, they start getting angry and passive aggressive cause they cannot obtain my attention. The want to be adored, worshipped constantly, to impress, because they have a low self esteem and their only pleasure in life is to dominate others, that's the way they ve been raised from day one, so i aint going to change this anytime soon, that's just the way it is.
I mostly despise them for their superficiality and lack of honnesty which doesnt help, after a while. Most average looking single females like me and wish I could be their man, but they know it's impossible, that it's not realistic so a true friendship then can follow, when everything is very clear and when you know you re going to be able to count on their honnesty and genuine friendship because nothing else is at work in the background of everyone subconscious. Of course they touch themselves at night dreaming about me, but that's how it works.
These people are truly interesting , you can do something with them, and I often leave them some insights on my personal relationship with my woman, on how to please men, how to improve their looks / way of thinking , how to be feminine and down to earth subrepticely over time. These people actually like me a lot and simultaneously are in conflict with the aggressive, dominating prima donnas/drama queens who are looking good but just use this to stab people in their back every chance they get. They are often spending more time pretending to be happy than they really are, while the down to earth , less attractive girls are always happy go lucky.
I use what i have to inspire other people better themselves as much as possible, and avoid improductive conflicts with the dumbest ones using my brains instead of my appearance. After all they re just suffering individuals who didnt learn how to correctly interact with others because of their own parents.
After some time spent in a place, most people both women and men out of the blue start talking about diet, doing cardio, etc right in front of me on purpose just because they saw details of my chiseled lean body under a shirt and it automatically redirect all their thoughts and discussions toward the subject. I politely ignore them as they obviously wait for me to give in and start opening my mouth on a subject i obviously know enough to speak about, and as i keep my mouth shut and let them make fools of themselves, they get even more frustrated, but i know from experience it's useless, they would all start get even more insecure i would have to expose them. I simply let them come to me personaly by themselves when the occasion presents itself. This way im not the one asking, demanding anything, showing off, pretending to be better than everyone, and i place myself in a position of humility , it's a gift to them if i share my knowledges, an opportunity. They re the ones who asked for it in the firstplace.
Then it's all, always, about "how can i /lose weight/get toned/losing belly fat doing crunches and sit ups (...) i d like to train for health but "i dont want to look like arnold s/" etc and other bullshits. Again I politely tell them what it truly requires, the genetical part of it, that anyone can do it, that's it easy and mostly only requires consistancy over time and in change of habits... that ultimately it doesnt garantee anyone complete eternal blissful hapiness for the rest of their life... that other things are important in life.. that training can improve life but that if you re fucked up psychologically it aint going to help much ...that it's both about working on your mind as much as you work on your body... and 9 times out of 10 after a week they just simply forget it all and decide to come back to their old habits. They figured what it really takes, their illusions are shattered and only the smartest, most motivated ones keep asking me for advises, thus giving birth to a friendly relationship. They give me things in return, of course. That's how it works, human, animal nature.
They obviously stay jealous, but a bit less than in the beginning as you re useful to them in some way.
Out of shape men are jealous for most. Not just of my physique when they can see some of its details when im wearing a shirt but essentially also of my facial traits. Seeing muscles just reinforce the tendancy. Only very few of them like my character but most of the time because i represent a father figure and because they want to learn my knowledges about weight lifting to become just like me so they get somewhat friendly. But you cant be friend with everyone, right? Also the more you age, the more you understand that your life revolves only around two or three at most, truly meaningful relationships, we arent designed for more. Men on steroids due to the artificial effects of drugs on the biochemical processes in their brains think everyone is in love with them, that everyone respects them, that they are living gods. Of course it lasts as long as they re on. Both the feeling of being powerful, and the respect of others. I think nobody exists in their mind but themselves. I went thru that when i started lifting weights and figured the impact it had on others. But i was too well educated fromt he beginning to sink into the extremes these people with bad (or no) advisers followed. They mostly despise/ignore me just like they ignore/despise anyone who isnt falling for their fake, bullshit personnality anyway, yet simultaneously instinctively think that i have something they could need later in life, when they grow up. Only later in life will they remember my behaviors and sayings, and figure that i understood what they just understand now, years before them. Exceptionnaly some of them are attracted by my personnality and start taking some of my stuff and introduce it into their own thought process, but they are often used to take without giving in return, so they cannot get much more from me while other more genuine people can. Fact is especially nowadays, you often have to teach people who want to interact with you, HOW TO INTERACT GIVING AS MUCH AS YOU ASK FIRST, because their parents abandonned religion, which was a unique systeme everybody followed in the interest of the majority, so everyone was following the same rules and principles. Give as much as you ask. Be polite. Dont be self centered, have empathy. These people just attempt to fuck other people in the ass to get what they want -and worse, more and more take pleasure in this-, just because that's how their -divorced- parents interacted in front of them during their whole childhood/adolescence. These new generations have been raised by single mothers, with no or poor father figures, with no principles that are superior to themselves. They think they are god himself. They all think they are god. Immature, violent, emotionless, manipulative kids who use all their knowledges to their sole and only benefit. Thank socialism, capitalism , feminism, and the destruction of Christianity, the Father, and the family.
Again the juice monkeys are on drugs because they cant deal with real life without them, they re just living in an illusion waiting to dissipate at some point in life just like all other illusions. I believed in illusions too, so i understand where they re at. And that it's useless to convince people they are acting dumb by sheer ignorance until they didnt find it out by themselves, often while destroying relationships with really meaningful loved ones. When it happens, i become important to them, and they leave the fake personnality at the door. The re often coming from families filled with addictive behaviors, who have a hard time finding a right middle in what they do or think. I know too well what s really at work deep in the background, and how useless it would be while they re on an artificially produced chemical rush to talk some sense into them. They re addicts just like any other addict, but because the whole world dont condemn their addiction because it's not a well known one like cigarettes, alcohol, etc, they think it's not an addiction. They re luring themselves, lying to themselves. And they think they re also smarter than everyone else, doing something that artificially put them above other human beings in particular circumstances. They can only rely on it as time goes, they fear the day they wont be able to use anymore, the day they ll become normal again. They also tend not to be able to go outside of their bubble in fear of being exposed. They re like a fish outside of the water, and they dont like it. So they stay together and backstab each others over and over with huge bleached smiles, in their little vain bubble, cheating on themselves, on everyone else, injecting and believing they are gods. When they re just mortals addicted to drugs who contribute almost nothing to society, considering they even despise the people they could, should train. These people are affraid someone might look better , more dominant than them, so they wont even help customers, it's the oposite.
They are not humans. As real humans deal with reality without the help of drugs. They re enhanced, yet psychologically fragile, colossus with weak feet. Sooner or later it will be proven, and they ll be the creators of their own despair. It's all in the head, first and foremost. Appearence and behaviors are only the result of what's in the head. And what's in the head is programmed originally by the way you ve been loved, the way you interacted with your caregivers.
I wont even comment on the younger kids who just happened to discover weight lifting, sport all the disguise accessories, wether they re on steroids or not. It's useless to waste any energy talking some sense into them at that stage. Is there really a need to mention 99,9% of them are left without a decent father figure?
I cover my muscles 95% of the time and only reveal them ponctually once in a while just to remember people that the fitness level of my body is superior to theirs, as a main strategy of survival "outside". I dont take any pleasure in doing so, more like i'm forced to because i m with dumb people subconsciouly following dumb principles that make everyone feel shitty. I have to play the game with the animals as i m sometime forced to evolve in their vicinity. But it's only happening in environments filled with dumb or intellectually average individuals. This shit doesnt happen when you re dealing with the smartest and genuinely empathic individuals on earth who can read in your mind like in an open books. These people have no time for all these bullshits, they re busy helping people, raising kids, contributing genuinely.
The more you age the less it matters much to be the bigger fish in the pond, as there s always a new bigger one in it, the more brains are needed instead of muscles. It's called growing up , maturing. If past 30 you re still into impressing other men showing off muscles... it means you only understood 1% of what life is about. Also you cannot raise kids if you re only focusing on yourself being an immature kid yourself -because your parents who divorced/abandonned you were immatures kids themselves; that 's what you learned subconsciously, to reproduce their thought processes and behaviors-.
Something guys in their 40s or even 60s still didnt understand. Age has nothing to do with being wise , especially nowadays with older people attempting to become kids again as death approaches. They fear death because they havent been prepared to face it, because they abandoned religion, which precisely is intended to prepare you for this event. If you re not prepared, you re fearing it -like a kid- and you adopt bullshit strategies that only show you re not prepared to those who are.
Education, genuine love and spirituality and facing life with humility, with a fully developped consciousness, without using any shortcuts, are what make you wiser.
A nice lesson of humility is when i play basketball outdoor with some random teens in summer, and realizes that my legs and knees , as muscular and fit i am, are hurting only after 15/20 minutes of play. I also cant even fucking breath anymore and need to rest for like 30 minutes afterwards. I might be muscular and fit, but there are only very few people that benefit from it; me and my loved ones. If i can inspire others, when they deserve it and ask for my knowledges to improve their own chances of survival and if they give me something i actually could need in return , it's all good. But it only happens like 0,01 % of the time. These kids tell me that they re impressed by my physique, that it motivates them and they hope they look that good at my age.
I answer by telling them ... to focus on studies and family instead of basketball and "being the biggest/baddest fish in the shitty pond" they re forced to swim in with others badly raised kids like them. Again, is anyone surprised these kids see me as a father figure considering they ve had none or terrible ones?
20min of basketball tires you out?
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is that Carl Weathers on the right of this pic?
Typical reaction?
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=396676.0;attach=431994;image)
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is that Carl Weathers on the right of this pic?
Nah, he was killed by Drago remember ?
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Pretty fine most of time.
Never had a negative comment in my FT job but on the door occassional comments made.
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is that Carl Weathers on the right of this pic?
Damn, well spotted. Sure does look like him.
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HOW DO PEOPLE...
Good looking women, old or young, wish i could be their fucktoy the first time they see me. They often live with a skinny fat dude who only focus on money and material goods and is insecure in bed, talking a lot about sex but shitty at it. The kind of people who always check twitter and spam their facebooks with stupid pics of themselves striking poses ressembling those of the stars you see on Tv and in the magazines. Or they re single, but so fucked up in their head, so self centered, so badly raised that even if they re good looking and working, they re desperate for genuine relationships they dont have the tools to create nor maintain.
At work the younger ones attempt to seduce me everytime in the beginning but when they figure they cant cause i m engaged, they start getting angry and passive aggressive cause they cannot obtain my attention. The want to be adored, worshipped constantly, to impress, because they have a low self esteem and their only pleasure in life is to dominate others, that's the way they ve been raised from day one, so i aint going to change this anytime soon, that's just the way it is.
I mostly despise them for their superficiality and lack of honnesty which doesnt help, after a while. Most average looking single females like me and wish I could be their man, but they know it's impossible, that it's not realistic so a true friendship then can follow, when everything is very clear and when you know you re going to be able to count on their honnesty and genuine friendship because nothing else is at work in the background of everyone subconscious. Of course they touch themselves at night dreaming about me, but that's how it works.
These people are truly interesting , you can do something with them, and I often leave them some insights on my personal relationship with my woman, on how to please men, how to improve their looks / way of thinking , how to be feminine and down to earth subrepticely over time. These people actually like me a lot and simultaneously are in conflict with the aggressive, dominating prima donnas/drama queens who are looking good but just use this to stab people in their back every chance they get. They are often spending more time pretending to be happy than they really are, while the down to earth , less attractive girls are always happy go lucky.
I use what i have to inspire other people better themselves as much as possible, and avoid improductive conflicts with the dumbest ones using my brains instead of my appearance. After all they re just suffering individuals who didnt learn how to correctly interact with others because of their own parents.
After some time spent in a place, most people both women and men out of the blue start talking about diet, doing cardio, etc right in front of me on purpose just because they saw details of my chiseled lean body under a shirt and it automatically redirect all their thoughts and discussions toward the subject. I politely ignore them as they obviously wait for me to give in and start opening my mouth on a subject i obviously know enough to speak about, and as i keep my mouth shut and let them make fools of themselves, they get even more frustrated, but i know from experience it's useless, they would all start get even more insecure i would have to expose them. I simply let them come to me personaly by themselves when the occasion presents itself. This way im not the one asking, demanding anything, showing off, pretending to be better than everyone, and i place myself in a position of humility , it's a gift to them if i share my knowledges, an opportunity. They re the ones who asked for it in the firstplace.
Then it's all, always, about "how can i /lose weight/get toned/losing belly fat doing crunches and sit ups (...) i d like to train for health but "i dont want to look like arnold s/" etc and other bullshits. Again I politely tell them what it truly requires, the genetical part of it, that anyone can do it, that's it easy and mostly only requires consistancy over time and in change of habits... that ultimately it doesnt garantee anyone complete eternal blissful hapiness for the rest of their life... that other things are important in life.. that training can improve life but that if you re fucked up psychologically it aint going to help much ...that it's both about working on your mind as much as you work on your body... and 9 times out of 10 after a week they just simply forget it all and decide to come back to their old habits. They figured what it really takes, their illusions are shattered and only the smartest, most motivated ones keep asking me for advises, thus giving birth to a friendly relationship. They give me things in return, of course. That's how it works, human, animal nature.
They obviously stay jealous, but a bit less than in the beginning as you re useful to them in some way.
Out of shape men are jealous for most. Not just of my physique when they can see some of its details when im wearing a shirt but essentially also of my facial traits. Seeing muscles just reinforce the tendancy. Only very few of them like my character but most of the time because i represent a father figure and because they want to learn my knowledges about weight lifting to become just like me so they get somewhat friendly. But you cant be friend with everyone, right? Also the more you age, the more you understand that your life revolves only around two or three at most, truly meaningful relationships, we arent designed for more. Men on steroids due to the artificial effects of drugs on the biochemical processes in their brains think everyone is in love with them, that everyone respects them, that they are living gods. Of course it lasts as long as they re on. Both the feeling of being powerful, and the respect of others. I think nobody exists in their mind but themselves. I went thru that when i started lifting weights and figured the impact it had on others. But i was too well educated fromt he beginning to sink into the extremes these people with bad (or no) advisers followed. They mostly despise/ignore me just like they ignore/despise anyone who isnt falling for their fake, bullshit personnality anyway, yet simultaneously instinctively think that i have something they could need later in life, when they grow up. Only later in life will they remember my behaviors and sayings, and figure that i understood what they just understand now, years before them. Exceptionnaly some of them are attracted by my personnality and start taking some of my stuff and introduce it into their own thought process, but they are often used to take without giving in return, so they cannot get much more from me while other more genuine people can. Fact is especially nowadays, you often have to teach people who want to interact with you, HOW TO INTERACT GIVING AS MUCH AS YOU ASK FIRST, because their parents abandonned religion, which was a unique systeme everybody followed in the interest of the majority, so everyone was following the same rules and principles. Give as much as you ask. Be polite. Dont be self centered, have empathy. These people just attempt to fuck other people in the ass to get what they want -and worse, more and more take pleasure in this-, just because that's how their -divorced- parents interacted in front of them during their whole childhood/adolescence. These new generations have been raised by single mothers, with no or poor father figures, with no principles that are superior to themselves. They think they are god himself. They all think they are god. Immature, violent, emotionless, manipulative kids who use all their knowledges to their sole and only benefit. Thank socialism, capitalism , feminism, and the destruction of Christianity, the Father, and the family.
Again the juice monkeys are on drugs because they cant deal with real life without them, they re just living in an illusion waiting to dissipate at some point in life just like all other illusions. I believed in illusions too, so i understand where they re at. And that it's useless to convince people they are acting dumb by sheer ignorance until they didnt find it out by themselves, often while destroying relationships with really meaningful loved ones. When it happens, i become important to them, and they leave the fake personnality at the door. The re often coming from families filled with addictive behaviors, who have a hard time finding a right middle in what they do or think. I know too well what s really at work deep in the background, and how useless it would be while they re on an artificially produced chemical rush to talk some sense into them. They re addicts just like any other addict, but because the whole world dont condemn their addiction because it's not a well known one like cigarettes, alcohol, etc, they think it's not an addiction. They re luring themselves, lying to themselves. And they think they re also smarter than everyone else, doing something that artificially put them above other human beings in particular circumstances. They can only rely on it as time goes, they fear the day they wont be able to use anymore, the day they ll become normal again. They also tend not to be able to go outside of their bubble in fear of being exposed. They re like a fish outside of the water, and they dont like it. So they stay together and backstab each others over and over with huge bleached smiles, in their little vain bubble, cheating on themselves, on everyone else, injecting and believing they are gods. When they re just mortals addicted to drugs who contribute almost nothing to society, considering they even despise the people they could, should train. These people are affraid someone might look better , more dominant than them, so they wont even help customers, it's the oposite.
They are not humans. As real humans deal with reality without the help of drugs. They re enhanced, yet psychologically fragile, colossus with weak feet. Sooner or later it will be proven, and they ll be the creators of their own despair. It's all in the head, first and foremost. Appearence and behaviors are only the result of what's in the head. And what's in the head is programmed originally by the way you ve been loved, the way you interacted with your caregivers.
I wont even comment on the younger kids who just happened to discover weight lifting, sport all the disguise accessories, wether they re on steroids or not. It's useless to waste any energy talking some sense into them at that stage. Is there really a need to mention 99,9% of them are left without a decent father figure?
I cover my muscles 95% of the time and only reveal them ponctually once in a while just to remember people that the fitness level of my body is superior to theirs, as a main strategy of survival "outside". I dont take any pleasure in doing so, more like i'm forced to because i m with dumb people subconsciouly following dumb principles that make everyone feel shitty. I have to play the game with the animals as i m sometime forced to evolve in their vicinity. But it's only happening in environments filled with dumb or intellectually average individuals. This shit doesnt happen when you re dealing with the smartest and genuinely empathic individuals on earth who can read in your mind like in an open books. These people have no time for all these bullshits, they re busy helping people, raising kids, contributing genuinely.
The more you age the less it matters much to be the bigger fish in the pond, as there s always a new bigger one in it, the more brains are needed instead of muscles. It's called growing up , maturing. If past 30 you re still into impressing other men showing off muscles... it means you only understood 1% of what life is about. Also you cannot raise kids if you re only focusing on yourself being an immature kid yourself -because your parents who divorced/abandonned you were immatures kids themselves; that 's what you learned subconsciously, to reproduce their thought processes and behaviors-.
Something guys in their 40s or even 60s still didnt understand. Age has nothing to do with being wise , especially nowadays with older people attempting to become kids again as death approaches. They fear death because they havent been prepared to face it, because they abandoned religion, which precisely is intended to prepare you for this event. If you re not prepared, you re fearing it -like a kid- and you adopt bullshit strategies that only show you re not prepared to those who are.
Education, genuine love and spirituality and facing life with humility, with a fully developped consciousness, without using any shortcuts, are what make you wiser.
A nice lesson of humility is when i play basketball outdoor with some random teens in summer, and realizes that my legs and knees , as muscular and fit i am, are hurting only after 15/20 minutes of play. I also cant even fucking breath anymore and need to rest for like 30 minutes afterwards. I might be muscular and fit, but there are only very few people that benefit from it; me and my loved ones. If i can inspire others, when they deserve it and ask for my knowledges to improve their own chances of survival and if they give me something i actually could need in return , it's all good. But it only happens like 0,01 % of the time. These kids tell me that they re impressed by my physique, that it motivates them and they hope they look that good at my age.
I answer by telling them ... to focus on studies and family instead of basketball and "being the biggest/baddest fish in the shitty pond" they re forced to swim in with others badly raised kids like them. Again, is anyone surprised these kids see me as a father figure considering they ve had none or terrible ones?
Gosh, you're so delusional.
Truth is, majority of people, including women couldn't care less about how you look. Sad, but true. People who are succesful in some part of life just don't focus on other parts.
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If there was god and steroids didn't exist then you would be right!
While you sat there and came up with that clever comment
I did a full days work....
and pressed dumbells probably equivalent to your bodyweight.. each
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HOW DO PEOPLE...
Good looking women, old or young, wish i could be their fucktoy the first time they see me. They often live with a skinny fat dude who only focus on money and material goods and is insecure in bed, talking a lot about sex but shitty at it. The kind of people who always check twitter and spam their facebooks with stupid pics of themselves striking poses ressembling those of the stars you see on Tv and in the magazines. Or they re single, but so fucked up in their head, so self centered, so badly raised that even if they re good looking and working, they re desperate for genuine relationships they dont have the tools to create nor maintain.
At work the younger ones attempt to seduce me everytime in the beginning but when they figure they cant cause i m engaged, they start getting angry and passive aggressive cause they cannot obtain my attention. The want to be adored, worshipped constantly, to impress, because they have a low self esteem and their only pleasure in life is to dominate others, that's the way they ve been raised from day one, so i aint going to change this anytime soon, that's just the way it is.
I mostly despise them for their superficiality and lack of honnesty which doesnt help, after a while. Most average looking single females like me and wish I could be their man, but they know it's impossible, that it's not realistic so a true friendship then can follow, when everything is very clear and when you know you re going to be able to count on their honnesty and genuine friendship because nothing else is at work in the background of everyone subconscious. Of course they touch themselves at night dreaming about me, but that's how it works.
These people are truly interesting , you can do something with them, and I often leave them some insights on my personal relationship with my woman, on how to please men, how to improve their looks / way of thinking , how to be feminine and down to earth subrepticely over time. These people actually like me a lot and simultaneously are in conflict with the aggressive, dominating prima donnas/drama queens who are looking good but just use this to stab people in their back every chance they get. They are often spending more time pretending to be happy than they really are, while the down to earth , less attractive girls are always happy go lucky.
I use what i have to inspire other people better themselves as much as possible, and avoid improductive conflicts with the dumbest ones using my brains instead of my appearance. After all they re just suffering individuals who didnt learn how to correctly interact with others because of their own parents.
After some time spent in a place, most people both women and men out of the blue start talking about diet, doing cardio, etc right in front of me on purpose just because they saw details of my chiseled lean body under a shirt and it automatically redirect all their thoughts and discussions toward the subject. I politely ignore them as they obviously wait for me to give in and start opening my mouth on a subject i obviously know enough to speak about, and as i keep my mouth shut and let them make fools of themselves, they get even more frustrated, but i know from experience it's useless, they would all start get even more insecure i would have to expose them. I simply let them come to me personaly by themselves when the occasion presents itself. This way im not the one asking, demanding anything, showing off, pretending to be better than everyone, and i place myself in a position of humility , it's a gift to them if i share my knowledges, an opportunity. They re the ones who asked for it in the firstplace.
Then it's all, always, about "how can i /lose weight/get toned/losing belly fat doing crunches and sit ups (...) i d like to train for health but "i dont want to look like arnold s/" etc and other bullshits. Again I politely tell them what it truly requires, the genetical part of it, that anyone can do it, that's it easy and mostly only requires consistancy over time and in change of habits... that ultimately it doesnt garantee anyone complete eternal blissful hapiness for the rest of their life... that other things are important in life.. that training can improve life but that if you re fucked up psychologically it aint going to help much ...that it's both about working on your mind as much as you work on your body... and 9 times out of 10 after a week they just simply forget it all and decide to come back to their old habits. They figured what it really takes, their illusions are shattered and only the smartest, most motivated ones keep asking me for advises, thus giving birth to a friendly relationship. They give me things in return, of course. That's how it works, human, animal nature.
They obviously stay jealous, but a bit less than in the beginning as you re useful to them in some way.
Out of shape men are jealous for most. Not just of my physique when they can see some of its details when im wearing a shirt but essentially also of my facial traits. Seeing muscles just reinforce the tendancy. Only very few of them like my character but most of the time because i represent a father figure and because they want to learn my knowledges about weight lifting to become just like me so they get somewhat friendly. But you cant be friend with everyone, right? Also the more you age, the more you understand that your life revolves only around two or three at most, truly meaningful relationships, we arent designed for more. Men on steroids due to the artificial effects of drugs on the biochemical processes in their brains think everyone is in love with them, that everyone respects them, that they are living gods. Of course it lasts as long as they re on. Both the feeling of being powerful, and the respect of others. I think nobody exists in their mind but themselves. I went thru that when i started lifting weights and figured the impact it had on others. But i was too well educated fromt he beginning to sink into the extremes these people with bad (or no) advisers followed. They mostly despise/ignore me just like they ignore/despise anyone who isnt falling for their fake, bullshit personnality anyway, yet simultaneously instinctively think that i have something they could need later in life, when they grow up. Only later in life will they remember my behaviors and sayings, and figure that i understood what they just understand now, years before them. Exceptionnaly some of them are attracted by my personnality and start taking some of my stuff and introduce it into their own thought process, but they are often used to take without giving in return, so they cannot get much more from me while other more genuine people can. Fact is especially nowadays, you often have to teach people who want to interact with you, HOW TO INTERACT GIVING AS MUCH AS YOU ASK FIRST, because their parents abandonned religion, which was a unique systeme everybody followed in the interest of the majority, so everyone was following the same rules and principles. Give as much as you ask. Be polite. Dont be self centered, have empathy. These people just attempt to fuck other people in the ass to get what they want -and worse, more and more take pleasure in this-, just because that's how their -divorced- parents interacted in front of them during their whole childhood/adolescence. These new generations have been raised by single mothers, with no or poor father figures, with no principles that are superior to themselves. They think they are god himself. They all think they are god. Immature, violent, emotionless, manipulative kids who use all their knowledges to their sole and only benefit. Thank socialism, capitalism , feminism, and the destruction of Christianity, the Father, and the family.
Again the juice monkeys are on drugs because they cant deal with real life without them, they re just living in an illusion waiting to dissipate at some point in life just like all other illusions. I believed in illusions too, so i understand where they re at. And that it's useless to convince people they are acting dumb by sheer ignorance until they didnt find it out by themselves, often while destroying relationships with really meaningful loved ones. When it happens, i become important to them, and they leave the fake personnality at the door. The re often coming from families filled with addictive behaviors, who have a hard time finding a right middle in what they do or think. I know too well what s really at work deep in the background, and how useless it would be while they re on an artificially produced chemical rush to talk some sense into them. They re addicts just like any other addict, but because the whole world dont condemn their addiction because it's not a well known one like cigarettes, alcohol, etc, they think it's not an addiction. They re luring themselves, lying to themselves. And they think they re also smarter than everyone else, doing something that artificially put them above other human beings in particular circumstances. They can only rely on it as time goes, they fear the day they wont be able to use anymore, the day they ll become normal again. They also tend not to be able to go outside of their bubble in fear of being exposed. They re like a fish outside of the water, and they dont like it. So they stay together and backstab each others over and over with huge bleached smiles, in their little vain bubble, cheating on themselves, on everyone else, injecting and believing they are gods. When they re just mortals addicted to drugs who contribute almost nothing to society, considering they even despise the people they could, should train. These people are affraid someone might look better , more dominant than them, so they wont even help customers, it's the oposite.
They are not humans. As real humans deal with reality without the help of drugs. They re enhanced, yet psychologically fragile, colossus with weak feet. Sooner or later it will be proven, and they ll be the creators of their own despair. It's all in the head, first and foremost. Appearence and behaviors are only the result of what's in the head. And what's in the head is programmed originally by the way you ve been loved, the way you interacted with your caregivers.
I wont even comment on the younger kids who just happened to discover weight lifting, sport all the disguise accessories, wether they re on steroids or not. It's useless to waste any energy talking some sense into them at that stage. Is there really a need to mention 99,9% of them are left without a decent father figure?
I cover my muscles 95% of the time and only reveal them ponctually once in a while just to remember people that the fitness level of my body is superior to theirs, as a main strategy of survival "outside". I dont take any pleasure in doing so, more like i'm forced to because i m with dumb people subconsciouly following dumb principles that make everyone feel shitty. I have to play the game with the animals as i m sometime forced to evolve in their vicinity. But it's only happening in environments filled with dumb or intellectually average individuals. This shit doesnt happen when you re dealing with the smartest and genuinely empathic individuals on earth who can read in your mind like in an open books. These people have no time for all these bullshits, they re busy helping people, raising kids, contributing genuinely.
The more you age the less it matters much to be the bigger fish in the pond, as there s always a new bigger one in it, the more brains are needed instead of muscles. It's called growing up , maturing. If past 30 you re still into impressing other men showing off muscles... it means you only understood 1% of what life is about. Also you cannot raise kids if you re only focusing on yourself being an immature kid yourself -because your parents who divorced/abandonned you were immatures kids themselves; that 's what you learned subconsciously, to reproduce their thought processes and behaviors-.
Something guys in their 40s or even 60s still didnt understand. Age has nothing to do with being wise , especially nowadays with older people attempting to become kids again as death approaches. They fear death because they havent been prepared to face it, because they abandoned religion, which precisely is intended to prepare you for this event. If you re not prepared, you re fearing it -like a kid- and you adopt bullshit strategies that only show you re not prepared to those who are.
Education, genuine love and spirituality and facing life with humility, with a fully developped consciousness, without using any shortcuts, are what make you wiser.
A nice lesson of humility is when i play basketball outdoor with some random teens in summer, and realizes that my legs and knees , as muscular and fit i am, are hurting only after 15/20 minutes of play. I also cant even fucking breath anymore and need to rest for like 30 minutes afterwards. I might be muscular and fit, but there are only very few people that benefit from it; me and my loved ones. If i can inspire others, when they deserve it and ask for my knowledges to improve their own chances of survival and if they give me something i actually could need in return , it's all good. But it only happens like 0,01 % of the time. These kids tell me that they re impressed by my physique, that it motivates them and they hope they look that good at my age.
I answer by telling them ... to focus on studies and family instead of basketball and "being the biggest/baddest fish in the shitty pond" they re forced to swim in with others badly raised kids like them. Again, is anyone surprised these kids see me as a father figure considering they ve had none or terrible ones?
Post of the day.
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Are they intrigued?, disgusted?, jealous?, positive? Do they openly stare?
They openly stare....but then I am usually naked! LOL.
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in my younger days, i could hardly ever so for a drink in a pub without some random pisshead telling me 'you should be playing rugby, you'..
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I get three different responses.
1) people who tote me as a guy who can fight when i can't ???
2)guys that compete with me for no reason
3)people that think because I'm lanky/slouch that I'm somehow out of shape.
So I've kinda learned that what people think and what is are total opposites. Truth is I look like shit but am somewhat fit compared to the majority of the population.
Yup....."I wouldn't want to fuck with you man"....Really, i haven't had a fight in forever and I'm in my 40's...I'm such a "badass" ::)
of course my cousin's barber's doctor's nephew lifts weighs too....and he's REALLY big ::) ::)
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Great post/question
Women seem to accept me verbally fucking with their minds.
Men get a little uppity/nervous until they realise I'm not a huge cock.
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Do you really think people actually care about your muscles? Normal people just want to look fit, that's it. If you have way more muscles than average then you're same freak as fat guys to them.
Get real guys. Nobody cares about muscles.
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They get out of my way. I've also been asked if I was a cop on numerous occassions.
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People always ask me If I'm a football player or If I'm one of those mma guys. I had a woman come up to me at the bar a few weeks ago In front of her fiance. She asked me If I could come to her baccalaureate party and be one of the strippers. She said she loves guys with bald heads and muscles. I felt bad for her fiance. Why would someone disrespect their partner like that. I just kind of laughed it off and said well I charge a lot for that kind of thing. I just kind of laughed and tried to be as humble as I could. When people pay me compliments I thank them and treat them good.
I played in a volleyball league this year. My team was all girls except for me and another dude. When I took my shirt off the look on their faces was pretty priceless. The girls kept trying to jump on my back and flirt with me. A few of the woman came up and said "damn I didn't know you had all that under those work clothes." I work at a hospital and the league was all nurses and therapists. It was a great time. It's nice to hear things like that!
Dudes at bars will be very respectful and will make comments like "man I wouldn't mess with you" I hear that a lot. I never had to fight because of my looks. I know a lot of guys will say people always want to challenge the big guy never happend to me.
I've had a lot of people tell me I look just like Vin Dieslel woman love that guy so I really enjoy that one.
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It's such a double standard with woman. At work they say anything they want. They will make comments about how I should bend over and pick something up in front of them so they can pinch my butt. Another woman said I should take my shirt off before I go into a room that will get their attention. Imagine a guy saying something like that. I could win a major lawsuit If I started recording some of the comments haha.
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Do you really think people actually care about your muscles? Normal people just want to look fit, that's it. If you have way more muscles than average then you're same freak as fat guys to them.
Get real guys. Nobody cares about muscles.
^^^^outed, pencil neck
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Women get angry and roll their eyes, some of them try to deny your existence. Men want an autograph and wanna be your best friend. The guys that suffer from ego complexes hold their arms out like they have razor blades under their arms when they see me and act like I ain't shit.
Those are the most common reactions I get. When people hold doors open for me and look scared I almost shed a single tear, its so flattering. :'(
This one is a funny one. I have it all the time. The best is a girl i worked with who was probably a 7/10 so not bad, who never said anything to me and pretended i wasn't there. Except one time she had to talk to me for work and she couldn't look me in the eye and tried to get it over with as quick as possible.
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Being tall and having a structure of god (I'm humble too) + knowing the way to dress well - I've got countless remarks/compliments/preachings/etc.. in the last 10 years. I've heard word "perfect" many times, from females usualy, but guys say nice words too, I guess I'm quite approachable person myself, so once they get to know me - their guard goes down (oh, and the questions begin.. esp. from drunk guys with fat bellies. And. esp. once they beome aware of my way to explain things, the way I go into the details they've never thought about, being an obsessive perfectionist that I am - I certainly can go on about the topic for a long time and sound like I'm a fukkin genius, well most of the time I am, but still...).
Females get "touchy", very noticeable, some literally fuck me with their eyes (the last one I remember was from a last weeken in one rave I went. Wore a nice thin sweater-shirt, my perfect lines were quite apparent, yep... oh, so she was turning her head and I could see when her eyes locked on my body in quite a shock/disbelief lol...then, as my peripheral vision is well developed, I could notice her constantly checkin me out. A tiny, cute girl, I guess - of the type that likes bigger guys).
I like another "effect" of being in shape - I could dress my worst clothes i the worst possible way, go to an official institution/place and still be treated very respectfully, while an ordinary person would get a "meh" look. This one especially works on guys, who work in official enviroment.
I'm an artist, I create my body, I carve it, and every artist likes to expose his art to the world, so I'm proud to show what I've created and fuck anyone who doesn't care, cares enough to "preach" me, or some fat slob who's just jealous as hell so he thinks it's "shallow". 20-30-40 or 50 (like that poster wrote above. BTW - Post was good till' I encountered word "religion". It always astonishes me how intelligent ppl can be religious at the same time. I mean - intelligent enough to express their thoughts in a way that not many can express) who cares, if you are bodybuilder (and it's a state of mind, an obsessioin, a fukkin illness) you are a bodybuilder till you are dead. I personally find guys who are in a ridiclously good shape at an advanced age to be even more respectful then someone young and jacked. It takes a dedication, some serious one (and usualy - certain risks too..)..
Remembered another one (plenty of stories like these): a month ago I was visiting germany, went to a fast-food place with a few ppl. A really fat guy was behind the counter. Once he became aware I don't speak german - he started praising my physique in english. A few days passed by, I was walking a few streets from that place again, a car is passing me by, the same dude almost falls out thourgh window all smiling and greeting me (not in a homo way). All that just because I'm above average when it comes to being "fit".
I think it's a biological reaction people have. You can be rich in one country, but in another you can be just an "average joe" (if many are as rich or richier) but if you've developed your body to something worth lookin' at - wherever you go - you will get some kind of a reaction. It's subconscious. Animal encounters another animal that is SUPERIOR. *bam* the neurons fire in the "ape brain", and the rest depends on the state of mind of a given person.
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In short, women want to fuck me, men want to be me.
and then when I open my mouth and they realize i'm a highly intelligent, wise person with solid morals, and i'm a standup guy...either they think I'm the greatest thing that ever happened....or they HATE me....because i guess it's not fair that i have the body, looks..and BRAINS too..oh well, comes with the territory
what i call myself is "walking guilt".....Because no matter what the situation, when I am around... people inevitably start talking about 'getting back into it"...."i've be eating really well"...because they see you and they realize how bad they look in contrast.
It does get old......but the truth is looking the way i do sets me apart from the crowd and is an instant conversation starter in any social setting...and it's up to me to use it to my advantage.... I'm not ashamed to say i do
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Being tall and having a structure of god (I'm humble too) + knowing the way to dress well - I've got countless remarks/compliments/preachings/etc.. in the last 10 years. I've heard word "perfect" many times, from females usualy, but guys say nice words too, I guess I'm quite approachable person myself, so once they get to know me - their guard goes down (oh, and the questions begin.. esp. from drunk guys with fat bellies. And. esp. once they beome aware of my way to explain things, the way I go into the details they've never thought about, being an obsessive perfectionist that I am - I certainly can go on about the topic for a long time and sound like I'm a fukkin genius, well most of the time I am, but still...).
Females get "touchy", very noticeable, some literally fuck me with their eyes (the last one I remember was from a last weeken in one rave I went. Wore a nice thin sweater-shirt, my perfect lines were quite apparent, yep... oh, so she was turning her head and I could see when her eyes locked on my body in quite a shock/disbelief lol...then, as my peripheral vision is well developed, I could notice her constantly checkin me out. A tiny, cute girl, I guess - of the type that likes bigger guys).
I like another "effect" of being in shape - I could dress my worst clothes i the worst possible way, go to an official institution/place and still be treated very respectfully, while an ordinary person would get a "meh" look. This one especially works on guys, who work in official enviroment.
I'm an artist, I create my body, I carve it, and every artist likes to expose his art to the world, so I'm proud to show what I've created and fuck anyone who doesn't care, cares enough to "preach" me, or some fat slob who's just jealous as hell so he thinks it's "shallow". 20-30-40 or 50 (like that poster wrote above. BTW - Post was good till' I encountered word "religion". It always astonishes me how intelligent ppl can be religious at the same time. I mean - intelligent enough to express their thoughts in a way that not many can express) who cares, if you are bodybuilder (and it's a state of mind, an obsessioin, a fukkin illness) you are a bodybuilder till you are dead. I personally find guys who are in a ridiclously good shape at an advanced age to be even more respectful then someone young and jacked. It takes a dedication, some serious one (and usualy - certain risks too..)..
Remembered another one (plenty of stories like these): a month ago I was visiting germany, went to a fast-food place with a few ppl. A really fat guy was behind the counter. Once he became aware I don't speak german - he started praising my physique in english. A few days passed by, I was walking a few streets from that place again, a car is passing me by, the same dude almost falls out thourgh window all smiling and greeting me (not in a homo way). All that just because I'm above average when it comes to being "fit".
I think it's a biological reaction people have. You can be rich in one country, but in another you can be just an "average joe" (if many are as rich or richier) but if you've developed your body to something worth lookin' at - wherever you go - you will get some kind of a reaction. It's subconscious. Animal encounters another animal that is SUPERIOR. *bam* the neurons fire in the "ape brain", and the rest depends on the state of mind of a given person.
A little full of yourself there stud ;D
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In short, women want to fuck me, men want to be me.
and then when I open my mouth and they realize i'm a highly intelligent, wise person with solid morals, and i'm a standup guy...either they think I'm the greatest thing that ever happened....or they HATE me....because i guess it's not fair that i have the body, looks..and BRAINS too..oh well, comes with the territory
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A little full of yourself there stud ;D
Aren't we all here? ;]
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In short, women want to fuck me, men want to be me.
and then when I open my mouth and they realize i'm a highly intelligent, wise person with solid morals, and i'm a standup guy...either they think I'm the greatest thing that ever happened....or they HATE me....because i guess it's not fair that i have the body, looks..and BRAINS too..oh well, comes with the territory
what i call myself is "walking guilt".....Because no matter what the situation, when I am around... people inevitably start talking about 'getting back into it"...."i've be eating really well"...because they see you and they realize how bad they look in contrast.
It does get old......but the truth is looking the way i do sets me apart from the crowd and is an instant conversation starter in any social setting...and it's up to me to use it to my advantage.... I'm not ashamed to say i do
I've seen the pictures and I'm definitely not impressed. The comments about intelligence and morals are innaccurate as well.
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LOL
You guys are either trolling or so full of yourself it makes me sick :D
People are NOT impressed with muscles. They go like "oh, you look good" when you're athletic, girls may go like "wow, nice arms" but that's it. They don't think about it for more than 10 seconds. It's not something they look up to or seek. Nowadays it's all about power, money and intelligence. And by intelligence I mean something you proved, not just being fucking smartass in conversation, every moron can do that. I get more attention for wearing my department's t-shirt than for my fucking muscles. AND if you're too big most of that attention is negative. And it's not them being envious, morons. They truly feel disgusted by 48cm arms on 175cm tall guy.
Don't fool yourself.
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I only started using at the beginning of June, so I've had quite a few people who haven't seen me for a while just casually walk up and fucking grope me in amazement. I know I should be flattered but I just find it bloody rude. I'm usually tempted to grab myself a handful of their tits in return, but I don't. Next bloke who does it to me though is going to have his balls crushed to paste. Grip strength, baby, 8)
People I don't know I don't give a damn what they think, so apart from the odd obvious stare of lust/jealousy I don't really notice.
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LOL
You guys are either trolling or so full of yourself it makes me sick :D
People are NOT impressed with muscles. They go like "oh, you look good" when you're athletic, girls may go like "wow, nice arms" but that's it. They don't think about it for more than 10 seconds. It's not something they look up to or seek. Nowadays it's all about power, money and intelligence. And by intelligence I mean something you proved, not just being fucking smartass in conversation, every moron can do that. I get more attention for wearing my department's t-shirt than for my fucking muscles. AND if you're too big most of that attention is negative. And it's not them being envious, morons. They truly feel disgusted by 48cm arms on 175cm tall guy.
Don't fool yourself.
seems like the muscle gods are causing you a bit of distress
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I've seen the pictures and I'm definitely not impressed. The comments about intelligence and morals are innaccurate as well.
yes, but who gives a fuck what you think. :)
thankfully, in real life,,,assholes like you don't exist...because you only have the balls to say the things you do virtually ;)
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LOL
You guys are either trolling or so full of yourself it makes me sick :D
People are NOT impressed with muscles. They go like "oh, you look good" when you're athletic, girls may go like "wow, nice arms" but that's it. They don't think about it for more than 10 seconds. It's not something they look up to or seek. Nowadays it's all about power, money and intelligence. And by intelligence I mean something you proved,
It's biological reaction, people can't control it. When you see a bitch that's so perfect your eyes hurt - you continue chekin' ger ass/legs/boobs out for as long as she's on your sight (unless you are homo). Can you control that? The REACTION? It's there. So it is with a male body, and while a young female can have a perfect body even without doing a single sit-up, a male very very rarely will have somtehing similar going on without at least some work. It's "bigger then life" effect at work at the same time, something that is rare and unexpected. I've had a girl in a clothing shop going from a sleepy "Yeah..this jacket maybe..ir that one.." mode to a "What do you do? blah blah..derp derp.." all flirty and happy after I took of my jacket to try out another. Cars, accomplishments, business, they may impress people once they get to know you, but that will be something different. Someone with a nice car may be treated with a big respect in a poor country, while the same person would be just "another joe" in Arab Emyrates.. That does not happen with physique. Rich country, poor country, people still REACT, it's in their nature. Be it disgust, awe, jealousy.. thers's a reaction.
And yes - we, bodybuilders are very FULL of ourselves, if you are one you should know this. You may not admit this, but if you are a bodybuilder as in state of mind - you are full of yourself. PERIOD.
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Also I find being bigger than average is a good way to get known in the work place. As long as you do not come across a dickhead you will be grand!
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It's biological reaction, people can't control it. When you see a bitch that's so perfect your eyes hurt - you continue chekin' ger ass/legs/boobs out for as long as she's on your sight (unless you are homo). Can you control that? The REACTION? It's there. So it is with a male body, and while a young female can have a perfect body even without doing a single sit-up, a male very very rarely will have somtehing similar going on without at least some work. It's "bigger then life" effect at work at the same time, something that is rare and unexpected. I've had a girl in a clothing shop going from a sleepy "Yeah..this jacket maybe..ir that one.." mode to a "What do you do? blah blah..derp derp.." all flirty and happy after I took of my jacket to try out another. Cars, accomplishments, business, they may impress people once they get to know you, but that will be something different. Someone with a nice car may be treated with a big respect in a poor country, while the same person would be just "another joe" in Arab Emyrates.. That does not happen with physique. Rich country, poor country, people still REACT, it's in their nature. Be it disgust, awe, jealousy.. thers's a reaction.
And yes - we, bodybuilders are very FULL of ourselves, if you are one you should know this. You may not admit this, but if you are a bodybuilder as in state of mind - you are full of yourself. PERIOD.
Excellent post
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It's biological reaction, people can't control it. When you see a bitch that's so perfect your eyes hurt - you continue chekin' ger ass/legs/boobs out for as long as she's on your sight (unless you are homo). Can you control that? The REACTION? It's there. So it is with a male body, and while a young female can have a perfect body even without doing a single sit-up, a male very very rarely will have somtehing similar going on without at least some work. It's "bigger then life" effect at work at the same time, something that is rare and unexpected. I've had a girl in a clothing shop going from a sleepy "Yeah..this jacket maybe..ir that one.." mode to a "What do you do? blah blah..derp derp.." all flirty and happy after I took of my jacket to try out another. Cars, accomplishments, business, they may impress people once they get to know you, but that will be something different. Someone with a nice car may be treated with a big respect in a poor country, while the same person would be just "another joe" in Arab Emyrates.. That does not happen with physique. Rich country, poor country, people still REACT, it's in their nature. Be it disgust, awe, jealousy.. thers's a reaction.
And yes - we, bodybuilders are very FULL of ourselves, if you are one you should know this. You may not admit this, but if you are a bodybuilder as in state of mind - you are full of yourself. PERIOD.
Well you're wrong becouse females perceive male in different way than male perceive females. Females tend to focus less on physical beauty and more on your personality. And honestly, even men vary when it comes to their preference. For example for some of you bikini/figure girls are awesome whereas for me they're honestly disgusting. Same goes for women, some like athletic guys, some prefer muscle gods, some love skinny or even anorectic guys. Last group seems to be the largest since nowadays most attractive (at least to me) girls hang around with anorectic/skinny guys wearing jeans too tight for most girls.
Usually tho my "Johny Deppish" skinnyfat friend gets most attention from girls. When we start talking I get serious advantage becouse of my eloquence. Maybe it's cultular difference between USA and Poland, I don't know.
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deceiver, are you a professor of mathematics...?
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deceiver, are you a professor of mathematics...?
not yet, unfortunatelly
Honestly I hang around with bodybuilders of various height and size and they can't match my skinnyfat friend. He's like a fucking magnet. Also bodybuilders I know tend to create relationships only with fellow fitness/figure competitors.
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Researcher?
That's what I want to do. 8)
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Researcher?
That's what I want to do. 8)
Still studying, 4th year of theoretical computer science. I wanna do research eventually but I think I need to get some real work first to get money. Research is much more interesting tho but when you focus just on research you have to accept being poor.
I have still 2 years to decide wether I wanna do phd or fuck it and find some real job.
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LOL
You guys are either trolling or so full of yourself it makes me sick :D
People are NOT impressed with muscles. They go like "oh, you look good" when you're athletic, girls may go like "wow, nice arms" but that's it. They don't think about it for more than 10 seconds. It's not something they look up to or seek. Nowadays it's all about power, money and intelligence. And by intelligence I mean something you proved, not just being fucking smartass in conversation, every moron can do that. I get more attention for wearing my department's t-shirt than for my fucking muscles. AND if you're too big most of that attention is negative. And it's not them being envious, morons. They truly feel disgusted by 48cm arms on 175cm tall guy.
Don't fool yourself.
says you......I get compliments, and strangers strike up conversations out of the blue with me...always about my build. and they are always respectful....except for black women, too fucking grabby.
I'm not "full of myself"....I'm not lying, this is the way it is for me....you can call me an asshole, an egomaniac...whatever.... it is what it is....people like the way i look
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Well you're wrong becouse females perceive male in different way than male perceive females. Females tend to focus less on physical beauty and more on your personality. And honestly, even men vary when it comes to their preference. For example for some of you bikini/figure girls are awesome whereas for me they're honestly disgusting. Same goes for women, some like athletic guys, some prefer muscle gods, some love skinny or even anorectic guys. Last group seems to be the largest since nowadays most attractive (at least to me) girls hang around with anorectic/skinny guys wearing jeans too tight for most girls.
Usually tho my "Johny Deppish" skinnyfat friend gets most attention from girls. When we start talking I get serious advantage becouse of my eloquence. Maybe it's cultular difference between USA and Poland, I don't know.
I'm not from Poland, just to be precise, anyway - regardless of what a certain female prefers - there's an "encounter - subconscious evaluation - reaction" process going on in. If you are jacked - you will be noticed, doesn't matter what enviroment. In some - people on purpose act like they haven't noticed (but they will start referring if the chance arrives), in some - they will openly praise you, it depends.. But overall - physical fitness (even if it's overexhaggarated, as it usualy is n bodybuilding) is an universal "value". Ancient artists created "perfect body" sculptures for a reason. It projects certain acrhetypes.
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says you......I get compliments, and strangers strike up conversations out of the blue with me...always about my build. and they are always respectful....except for black women, too fucking grabby.
I'm not "full of myself"....I'm not lying, this is the way it is for me....you can call me an asshole, an egomaniac...whatever.... it is what it is....people like the way i look
I think it's cultular difference then coz all bodybuilders here get is hate honestly. When you're slightly toned it's ok, anything more than that equals hate and negative comments.
Da Vinci for someone who seems to be interested in art you know little about what was meant by ideal male/female body throghout the ages. Just take a look at women painted by Rubens and compare them to say, Aphrodite of Cnidus. There's no universal definition of perfect body, it depends on culture and era.
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I think it's cultular difference then coz all bodybuilders here get is hate honestly. When you're slightly toned it's ok, anything more than that equals hate and negative comments.
Da Vinci for someone who seems to be interested in art you know little about what was meant by ideal male/female body throghout the ages. Just take a look at women painted by Rubens and compare them to say, Aphrodite of Cnidus. There's no universal definition of perfect body, it depends on culture and era.
Not sure about US, but in western Europe for ex. - physical fitness is admired very much. People will compliment you openly and say various kinds of nice things. Well at least from my experience.
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Not sure about US, but in western Europe for ex. - physical fitness is admired very much. People will compliment you openly and say various kinds of nice things. Well at least from my experience.
Well honestly, most admired guy at my Uni is my professor. He's professor of computer science, cool, funny guy wearing shades and drinking with students. He's got some morals apparently but I am pretty fucking sure he could get laid every night with different female student who's totally obsessed about him.
Combination of being cool, smart and succesful seems most important, at least in my community.
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There's no universal definition of perfect body, it depends on culture and era.
lol coming from a guy who says "people are NOT impressed with muscles."
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IMO...physical culture itself is on the decline.unfortunatley.in America we have enormous gap between those watch and and those that do.millions of people fat sedentary adults watching and rooting for sports teams who are legions beyond them in just everyday fitness.people absorbed in mmog and console games getting weaker and fatter.this whole generation is losing the connection with there bodies.the proof is all around us.the "twlight"and other media trendiness has made skinny feminine men the fad.if you have muscles at all its odd in this fucked up time...
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Well honestly, most admired guy at my Uni is my professor. He's professor of computer science, cool, funny guy wearing shades and drinking with students. He's got some morals apparently but I am pretty fucking sure he could get laid every night with different female student who's totally obsessed about him.
Combination of being cool, smart and succesful seems most important, at least in my community.
I'm sure he could get some guys blow him off too, but we are talking about a reaction/response to a sheer fact someone is above average muscular (or so I think).
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I was the biggest guy at my high school, and the younger kids would always call me "ripped guy" whenever they saw me. My classmates just got jealous with their "Oh, you think you're better than we are because you're big" et cetera et cetera.
I just take it as compliments. 8)
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I'm sure he could get some guys blow him off too, but we are talking about a reaction/response to a sheer fact someone is above average muscular (or so I think).
And I told you, it's usually negative.
Even my ex gf told me I'm getting too big for her. Oh, and she didn't like visible abs either. She hated when I was 18% bf with gut so I figured that after I get down to like 10-12% she would be impressed. Nope, she liked flat stomach with no visible muscles. Soccer type body is what her and what most of her friends admired. We talked many times about this :P
And at the end she still was with me and we didn't break up becouse of that so I guess it was just preference, nothing serious to her.
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Well honestly, most admired guy at my Uni is my professor. He's professor of computer science, cool, funny guy wearing shades and drinking with students. He's got some morals apparently but I am pretty fucking sure he could get laid every night with different female student who's totally obsessed about him.
Combination of being cool, smart and succesful seems most important, at least in my community.
he s just preying on younger people using his maturity and experience to lure unexperimented teens. Typical behavior of a loser who cant fit with people his age or older.
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And I told you, it's usually negative.
Even my ex gf told me I'm getting too big for her. Oh, and she didn't like visible abs either. She hated when I was 18% bf with gut so I figured that after I get down to like 10-12% she would be impressed. Nope, she liked flat stomach with no visible muscles. Soccer type body is what her and what most of her friends admired. We talked many times about this :P
And at the end she still was with me and we didn't break up becouse of that so I guess it was just preference, nothing serious to her.
If a girl loves you - she will stay whether you'll become fat or chiselled. Tho' from my personal experience - most of them say they doesn't like "big muscles" UNTIL they get a big guy to like 'em. Suddenly it becomes "Oh.. so you don't have fat anywhere on your body".. "Damn, you feel so /tight/ everywhere (you can hear pussy dripping on the floor)" and similar stuff... What they SAY is one think - actions speak louder.
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I also think it has to do with age, maybe our generation is fucked up. Most older man/women here are impressed or just scared by great built. Gosh, from my whole family my grandpa is prolly only guy who thinks I look like "REAL MAN NOW BOY!".
There is this kid at my gym. He's around 17 years old, he works out with his own father. He's tiny twink, his father is huge and really wide. I would fucking dream to have dad who goes to gym with me, only thing I could do together with my father is damn chess or pseudophilosophical disputes. Funny thing is, this guy gets tired half way and doesn't seem to enjoy it at all. He keeps asking dad when are they comming back home...
Vinci there's something about what you say but still, my gf was into "athletic" type of guys. She would praise my forearms and arms whole day long rofl and then say they look too big, yeah, sure. But then again I'm pretty sure most other girls just hate too big guys, ESPECIALLY younger ones.
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he s just preying on younger people using his maturity and experience to lure unexperimented teens. Typical behavior of a loser who cant fit with people his age or older.
Older ppl are often boring and "slowed down", habitual, predictible, lacking in a general curiousity, "comfortable" with their little world and stuff they "know already" (and it's "enough"). Maybe fella has a progressive mind so young ppl are better choice for an interaction.
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Older ppl are often boring and "slowed down", habitual, predictible, lacking in a general curiousity, "comfortable" with their little world and stuff they "know already" (and it's "enough"). Maybe fella has a progressive mind so young ppl are better choice for an interaction.
Honestly he just loves drinking and is all-around funny fella. He doesn't follow young people, they follow him.
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Vinci there's something about what you say but still, my gf was into "athletic" type of guys. She would praise my forearms and arms whole day long rofl and then say they look too big, yeah, sure. But then again I'm pretty sure most other girls just hate too big guys, ESPECIALLY younger ones.
It depends.. I have no prob hooking up with 17-18 yos. Some are intimidated a lil' at first, but I play down my muscles by dressing stylish so I don't look like some "big tough musclehead". Would recommend that to anyone who assumes muscles alone will get them females. SOME type - yes, but if you'll look just like a big bloke, they will be simply scared. Reaction will still be there, but size threatens (monstrous cock too lol..).
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Honestly he just loves drinking and is all-around funny fella. He doesn't follow young people, they follow him.
Sounds like a true leader. I almost like him. Hope he gets his share of the freshmans pussies...
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Sounds like a true leader. I almost like him. Hope he gets his share of the freshmans pussies...
I doubt it, there are no rumours even. Still, lectures on third year are usually half empty - his were exception, always full and everyone waited for them.
And back to muscle, it's like "wow, you look good" at best. It's reaction like "oh, you got new dress". Think about it for a sec and forget it next one.
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yall must be beasts
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I'm in China. If a person knows enough English to comment at all, it's always "You're so strong."
I'm pretty sure they don't know how to say you have a good build. Although they can't tell that I'm actually not that strong for my size, I still take it as a great compliment.
Not many Chinese guys are walking around with any muscle at all, so it stands out quite a bit. Most foreigners here are fat slobs, so I've got that going for me too. Just being thin is an exception for white people here.
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I doubt it, there are no rumours even. Still, lectures on third year are usually half empty - his were exception, always full and everyone waited for them.
And back to muscle, it's like "wow, you look good" at best. It's reaction like "oh, you got new dress". Think about it for a sec and forget it next one.
Well if you ever were big/ripped enough to get /THE LOOK/ (in their eyes, when they get their head up from the floor or iPhone and encounters a PHYSIQUE) you know what am I talkin about. I agree that there are many types of girls with various "tastes". But the biological reaction remains. All this bb'ing thing is just on another level when it comes to this.
Many are skeptical too, because they think "This dude must be full of himself (ant they are right lol)", just like we see a "perfect" looking female and there's often a belief - "She must be a whore/gold digger/attention seeker/etc.." a priori, so we may go approach that girl who looks more "down to earth" (as there's a smaller chance of getting turned down, or so the thought process goes..).
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LOL
You guys are either trolling or so full of yourself it makes me sick :D
People are NOT impressed with muscles. They go like "oh, you look good" when you're athletic, girls may go like "wow, nice arms" but that's it. They don't think about it for more than 10 seconds. It's not something they look up to or seek. Nowadays it's all about power, money and intelligence. And by intelligence I mean something you proved, not just being fucking smartass in conversation, every moron can do that. I get more attention for wearing my department's t-shirt than for my fucking muscles. AND if you're too big most of that attention is negative. And it's not them being envious, morons. They truly feel disgusted by 48cm arms on 175cm tall guy.
Don't fool yourself.
You sound bitter, take some arimidex and up the testosterone.
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I'm in China. If a person knows enough English to comment at all, it's always "You're so strong."
I'm pretty sure they don't know how to say you have a good build. Although they can't tell that I'm actually not that strong for my size, I still take it as a great compliment.
Not many Chinese guys are walking around with any muscle at all, so it stands out quite a bit. Most foreigners here are fat slobs, so I've got that going for me too. Just being thin is an exception for white people here.
你很强壮！
lucky you, I wish I could have the chance to go to China to learn the language from where it originated comes from.
are you teaching English there? or doing business?
:D
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You guys are either trolling or so full of yourself it makes me sick :D
People are NOT impressed with muscles.
People are not impressed with YOUR muscles. You're not a permabulker are you?
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People are not impressed with YOUR muscles. You're not a permabulker are you?
aahahahaha
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This one is a funny one. I have it all the time. The best is a girl i worked with who was probably a 7/10 so not bad, who never said anything to me and pretended i wasn't there. Except one time she had to talk to me for work and she couldn't look me in the eye and tried to get it over with as quick as possible.
Haha can't blame her she was probably just nervous around you no biggie. I get a kick out of when its just you and them walking down a hall and they pretend to be on their phone until you pass by. Some women are such spineless immature cowards. What happened to common courtesy and being friendly, regardless of who you run in to.
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A little full of yourself there stud ;D
Jesus i'd say, dudes an egomaniac.
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I've seen the pictures and I'm definitely not impressed. The comments about intelligence and morals are innaccurate as well.
He is a highly intelligent being. but sadly, he's an asshole too. :-\
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Jesus i'd say, dudes an egomaniac.
Does it bother you that I have an opinion about myself? :)
The story with a fat german guy. To illustrate - I looked exactly like this that day (same clothes, same weight). Nothing huge or monstrous, but to a regular people - this is a highly "fit" physique. Don't forget our understanding of what's "big" is skewed, as we are bodybuilders.
Being taller adds to an overall effect when we talk development (I'm 6'1).
[img width=5 EDIT: not wise to put pics of oneself on the web when comming off as an overly narcissistic personna at the same time lol.. Who knows who may find it later and connect the dots. But I look good in that one, imagine a greek statue just with clothes. Yep..
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Ok, most people here is telling like it is but a few ones are just fucking delusional lol.
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yes, but who gives a fuck what you think. :)
thankfully, in real life,,,assholes like you don't exist...because you only have the balls to say the things you do virtually ;)
I wouldn't hesitate to tell you in person. You're not at all intimidating. Just confused and insecure. But not intimidating.
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你很强壮！
lucky you, I wish I could have the chance to go to China to learn the language from where it originated comes from.
are you teaching English there? or doing business?
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哈哈哈。。。。
Yes, I teach English here. If you are a native speaker with a college degree and a TEFL certificate, there is a ton of opportunity. You're not going to get rich but you can live comfortably.
I had a job lined up before I even arrived. The demand to learn English is amazing. China can't get enough foreign teachers.
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Does it bother you that I have an opinion about myself? :)
The story with a fat german guy. To illustrate - I looked exactly like this that day (same clothes, same weight). Nothing huge or monstrous, but to a regular people - this is a highly "fit" physique. Don't forget our understanding of what's "big" is skewed, as we are bodybuilders.
Being taller adds to an overall effect when we talk development (I'm 6'1).
[img width=5 EDIT: not wise to put pics of oneself on the web when comming off as an overly narcissistic personna at the same time lol.. Who knows who may find it later and connect the dots. But I look good in that one, imagine a greek statue just with clothes. Yep..
You took down your picture, what happened? Where did your confidence go? ???
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Many are skeptical too, because they think "This dude must be full of himself (ant they are right lol)", just like we see a "perfect" looking female and there's often a belief - "She must be a whore/gold digger/attention seeker/etc.." a priori, so we may go approach that girl who looks more "down to earth" (as there's a smaller chance of getting turned down, or so the thought process goes..).
lol "a priori" ::)
thanks for clarifying that. you must be an intellectual monster.
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lol "a priori" ::)
thanks for clarifying that. you must be an intellectual monster.
No shit, what a stupid word to use.
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He is a highly intelligent being. but sadly, he's an asshole too. :-\
and fuck you too....have we met?
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I was at a bar the other night and there was this guy there had to have been like 250 and looked just about stage ready. he had on a cutoff shirt and all, and he walked buy a group of hot girls. These girls gave this look to each other like they were going to be sick. The guy didnt see, but it was funny.
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I was at a bar the other night and there was this guy there had to have been like 250 and looked just about stage ready. he had on a cutoff shirt and all, and he walked buy a group of hot girls. These girls gave this look to each other like they were going to be sick. The guy didnt see, but it was funny.
right...and then an hour later one of them sucked his dick in the bathroom. 8)
I have personal experience in this phenomena. I was at a house party some years ago, and there was this one girl who proclaimed very loudly quite a few times that i was "too big" and that's "not attractive to women"...she made sure to do this when her friends were around and people were looking, making a real show of it.
Fast forward to the end of the night,most people are gone.... and she comes up to me in the kitchen and asks if i'm "seeing anybody"...as she rubs my arm.
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and fuck you too....have we met?
Sorry its just you seem like a negative and very abrasive person thats all..
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Sorry its just you seem like a negative and very abrasive person thats all..
actually i'm quite nice...the way it goes with me is you get what you give
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LOL
You guys are either trolling or so full of yourself it makes me sick :D
People are NOT impressed with muscles. They go like "oh, you look good" when you're athletic, girls may go like "wow, nice arms" but that's it. They don't think about it for more than 10 seconds. It's not something they look up to or seek. Nowadays it's all about power, money and intelligence. And by intelligence I mean something you proved, not just being fucking smartass in conversation, every moron can do that. I get more attention for wearing my department's t-shirt than for my fucking muscles. AND if you're too big most of that attention is negative. And it's not them being envious, morons. They truly feel disgusted by 48cm arms on 175cm tall guy.
Don't fool yourself.
Don't troll my thread bro. Some long time solid posters here telling it how it is. If the Gods blessed you with 12' arms and a 40' waist, take it elsewhere. Cheers!
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LOL
You guys are either trolling or so full of yourself it makes me sick :D
People are NOT impressed with muscles. They go like "oh, you look good" when you're athletic, girls may go like "wow, nice arms" but that's it. They don't think about it for more than 10 seconds. It's not something they look up to or seek. Nowadays it's all about power, money and intelligence. And by intelligence I mean something you proved, not just being fucking smartass in conversation, every moron can do that. I get more attention for wearing my department's t-shirt than for my fucking muscles. AND if you're too big most of that attention is negative. And it's not them being envious, morons. They truly feel disgusted by 48cm arms on 175cm tall guy.
Don't fool yourself.
Most guys and gals who work out regularly, do it for themselves. Anyone who is building muscles to impress someone else is delusional. Sure, if a person is fit, they are often more physically attractive to others. But, physical attraction only takes you so far.
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When I say I go to the gym they say:
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I know that feel :-[
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Just walk the walk and let the body do the talk...
lol @ shawn ray always hiding in a dress shirt even in the bright hot sun where everybody but him is dressing light
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most people don't respond
when i see people from high school they are usually baffled tho even tho i only managed to gain like 10lbs bodyweight lol
but when i take girls to bed and the clothes come off the responses start coming
one girl said that she went to bed with me because "she was attracted to my body"
and my girlfriend said about my arms "i like to hold it when we are having sex, like that's my man"
basically if you don't have much size because you are natural you will not stand out with clothes on
but once the clothes come off you will still blow the average person away because low bodyfat, some muscularity and veins up close will make people think you're bigger than you are
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It's all about how you carry yourself. I was at some meetings yesterday regarding business and I could tell at the start of them the people thought who I this with the muscles he couldn't have a brain if hes a bodybuilder. But when they talk to you and realise your a sharp fucker the attitude changes. Regarding girls, of your very big it can be good or bad depending on your face and your dress sense. Take two guys same size as me, one is bald red blood pressure bloat face and wears tracksuit, other is leanish face, confident look, tanned, tidy hair and dresses well, the difference to girls is night and day. Subject number 1 does not hav a chance, girls would not let their friends see them with him, subject number two has all the quality pussy he wants and then some. Truth right there
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lol @ shawn ray always hiding in a dress shirt even in the bright hot sun where everybody but him is dressing light
Haha so true, he's always wearing that MD shirt with long sleeves.
I don't understand why he lost the desire to stay in shape, like Kevin does, he's got genes of gold.
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And by the way, how do you guys judge someone's intelligence here? By his eloquence? Jeez guys, all it takes is being native American and reading few fucking books.
Anyone can be smartass on forums, it's when they come across REAL problem, like in math, morons are revealed.
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right...and then an hour later one of them sucked his dick in the bathroom. 8)
I have personal experience in this phenomena. I was at a house party some years ago, and there was this one girl who proclaimed very loudly quite a few times that i was "too big" and that's "not attractive to women"...she made sure to do this when her friends were around and people were looking, making a real show of it.
Fast forward to the end of the night,most people are gone.... and she comes up to me in the kitchen and asks if i'm "seeing anybody"...as she rubs my arm.
True.
It's all about how you carry yourself. I was at some meetings yesterday regarding business and I could tell at the start of them the people thought who I this with the muscles he couldn't have a brain if hes a bodybuilder. But when they talk to you and realise your a sharp fucker the attitude changes. Regarding girls, of your very big it can be good or bad depending on your face and your dress sense. Take two guys same size as me, one is bald red blood pressure bloat face and wears tracksuit, other is leanish face, confident look, tanned, tidy hair and dresses well, the difference to girls is night and day. Subject number 1 does not hav a chance, girls would not let their friends see them with him, subject number two has all the quality pussy he wants and then some. Truth right there
Also true.
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It's all about how you carry yourself. I was at some meetings yesterday regarding business and I could tell at the start of them the people thought who I this with the muscles he couldn't have a brain if hes a bodybuilder. But when they talk to you and realise your a sharp fucker the attitude changes. Regarding girls, of your very big it can be good or bad depending on your face and your dress sense. Take two guys same size as me, one is bald red blood pressure bloat face and wears tracksuit, other is leanish face, confident look, tanned, tidy hair and dresses well, the difference to girls is night and day. Subject number 1 does not hav a chance, girls would not let their friends see them with him, subject number two has all the quality pussy he wants and then some. Truth right there
Indeed.
I was running a jobsite one time in the Hamptons...a multimillion dollar job, and a delivery truck came with HVAC units for the house. So I'm standing there on my phone and the delivery guy barks at me "hey...put down the phone and help me get this fucking thing on a dolly"
He obviously thought i was some meathead goon who was there to move heavy shit around, not the Project Manager.
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And by the way, how do you guys judge someone's intelligence here? By his eloquence? Jeez guys, all it takes is being native American and reading few fucking books.
Anyone can be smartass on forums, it's when they come across REAL problem, like in math, morons are revealed.
European pussy meltdown.
You europeans think you're the shit, but you're not.
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And by the way, how do you guys judge someone's intelligence here? By his eloquence? Jeez guys, all it takes is being native American and reading few fucking books.
Anyone can be smartass on forums, it's when they come across REAL problem, like in math, morons are revealed.
I judge intelligence by what a person says, and how he reacts in a given situation. it's hard to gauge someone's true intelligence in a few minutes, because like you said they can just be putting on a front,
And the reverse is true as well......you can think someone is a fucking idiot because they aren't polished, they may not be socially adept....but underneath it all they are brilliant
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I judge intelligence by what a person says, and how he reacts in a given situation. it's hard to gauge someone's true intelligence in a few minutes, because like you said they can just be putting on a front,
And the reverse is true as well......you can think someone is a fucking idiot because they aren't polished, they may not be socially adept....but underneath it all they are brilliant
Then it's not intelligence. It's being "smartass".
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European pussy meltdown.
You europeans think you're the shit, but you're not.
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Indeed.
I was running a jobsite one time in the Hamptons...a multimillion dollar job, and a delivery truck came with HVAC units for the house. So I'm standing there on my phone and the delivery guy barks at me "hey...put down the phone and help me get this fucking thing on a dolly"
He obviously thought i was some meathead goon who was there to move heavy shit around, not the Project Manager.
What was your reply? :D
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What was your reply? :D
I ignored him and one of the guys told him who i was, he got all apologetic
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Then it's not intelligence. It's being "smartass".
what are you talking about ?
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No shit, what a stupid word to use.
Sorry guys, I'll have to adjust myself to some of your "level" so I'd "fit in".
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what are you talking about ?
Intelligence is ability to solve problems mate.
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Intelligence is ability to solve problems mate.
right, that's why I said i observe how people react in a given situation...ie a problem is presented, no matter what the context.
Smart people react rationally, gather information and try and find a solution.
dumb people get mad and start blaming somebody else
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right, that's why I said i observe how people react in a given situation...ie a problem is presented, no matter what the context.
Smart people react rationally, gather information and try and find a solution.
dumb people get mad and start blaming somebody else
That's right.
Also when intelligent person is humilliated and his ignorance is shown he will laugh about it and agree he was stupid. Bobber for example when I laughed at his comment that "someone changed completely, 360 degree change" said I was "nitpicking" and that his "analytical skills" make him earn billions of dollars, lol.
Bobs or our good friend Basile are both perfect examples of how you can be eloquent and still be dumb as fuck.
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Nothing as satisfying as walking around on a party and seeing women scan your body with their eyes, that is where you do it for too. that combined with the feeling of xtc in your veins is the best feeling there is. better than cumming.
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Well you're wrong becouse females perceive male in different way than male perceive females. Females tend to focus less on physical beauty and more on your personality. And honestly, even men vary when it comes to their preference. For example for some of you bikini/figure girls are awesome whereas for me they're honestly disgusting. Same goes for women, some like athletic guys, some prefer muscle gods, some love skinny or even anorectic guys. Last group seems to be the largest since nowadays most attractive (at least to me) girls hang around with anorectic/skinny guys wearing jeans too tight for most girls.
Usually tho my "Johny Deppish" skinnyfat friend gets most attention from girls. When we start talking I get serious advantage becouse of my eloquence. Maybe it's cultular difference between USA and Poland, I don't know.
What are you 15? LOL
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What are you 15? LOL
I could ask you same question brother.
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i mostly get the "what? do you even train?", "10 years?! you should be looking like arnold by now, you know.. my uncle has been training for 6 months and he is huge/way bigger than you" :-[ :-[ :-[ :'(
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i mostly get the "what? do you even train?", "10 years?! you should be looking like arnold by now, you know.. my uncle has been training for 6 months and he is huge/way bigger than you" :-[ :-[ :-[ :'(
Oh and those stories about brothers, uncles, friends who bench 200kg, of course all natural!
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one time there was this girl (perfect 10) i walked by and she just ripped my pants off sucked my 9 inch cock. she swallowed and cum swapped with another 9.5 (whom i wasn't interested in).
then I told her about my 178 IQ and she became my 3rd wife. You'd think since I was so perfect i wouldn't have gone through more than one marriage, that i would have got it right the first time. but being god's gift to mankind ain't always easy.
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one time there was this girl (perfect 10) i walked by and she just ripped my pants off sucked my 9 inch cock. she swallowed and cum swapped with another 9.5 (whom i wasn't interested in).
then I told her about my 178 IQ and she became my 3rd wife. You'd think since I was so perfect i wouldn't have gone through more than one marriage, that i would have got it right the first time. but being god's gift to mankind ain't always easy.
I think getting married is the first dumb decision (many intelligent paople make, unfortunately) lol..
I'm aware what you did here tho'
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Women like it, men get jealous.
Men like it , Milf get jealous.
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women hate mass monsters. they go for the brad pitt look with lots of cash to spare.......try to top that..... ;) ;)
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I’ve travelled all over, and It's interesting to see the difference in reaction from a global perspective. Specifically the difference in reaction between 1st world people and 3rd world people. 3rd World people respect muscularity a lot more! Look at the way the people in India react to the Pros over there recently, treating them like gods etc.
3rd world people are more connected to Nature, where being bigger and strong is important and means status, protection etc. I think the insecurity and jealousy by competitive 1st world people (both men and women ) is very much linked to our obsession with looks and social status, to one up each other. Mainly impressed on us by commercial advertizing, film, fashion, TV.
Our heads are becoming more and more far removed from Nature, people will justify that being strong/fit/big is irrelevant/excessive/vain etc. and it makes most 1st world people uncomfortable and puts them on the spot when they see it in front of them.
Here in S. Africa the Zulus will tell you straight to your face "you look strong, you look good" they are very impressed by muscularity, they’re a warrior nation, very natural/genuine people and they say this not in a gay way ;) I don’t think Zulu’s even know what homosexuality is! It’s funny to see & You won't believe this, but here, if two traditional Zulu men are good friends, they hold hands (No homo) that’s how far removed they are from western culture.
It's the same in Thailand & China people (Men and women) will come up and try to squeeze your arm etc. I remember Dennis James told Dexter to wear a full T shirt and cover up when he came to visit so he didn't get harassed :D
IMO The only variant in behaviour/reaction is the media brainwashing/social programming, it’s very powerful.
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Intelligence is ability to solve problems mate.
Intelligence is also the ability to find problems with existing solutions, mate.
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I’ve travelled all over, and It's interesting to see the difference in reaction from a global perspective. Specifically the difference in reaction between 1st world people and 3rd world people. 3rd World people respect muscularity a lot more! Look at the way the people in India react to the Pros over there recently, treating them like gods etc.
3rd world people are more connected to Nature, where being bigger and strong is important and means status, protection etc. I think the insecurity and jealousy by competitive 1st world people (both men and women ) is very much linked to our obsession with looks and social status, to one up each other. Mainly impressed on us by commercial advertizing, film, fashion, TV.
Our heads are becoming more and more far removed from Nature, people will justify that being strong/fit/big is irrelevant/excessive/vain etc. and it makes most 1st world people uncomfortable and puts them on the spot when they see it in front of them.
Here in S. Africa the Zulus will tell you straight to your face "you look strong, you look good" they are very impressed by muscularity, they’re a warrior nation, very natural/genuine people and they say this not in a gay way ;) I don’t think Zulu’s even know what homosexuality is! It’s funny to see & You won't believe this, but here, if two traditional Zulu men are good friends, they hold hands (No homo) that’s how far removed they are from western culture.
It's the same in Thailand & China people (Men and women) will come up and try to squeeze your arm etc. I remember Dennis James told Dexter to wear a full T shirt and cover up when he came to visit so he didn't get harassed :D
IMO The only variant in behaviour/reaction is the media brainwashing/social programming, it’s very powerful.
Good post, in different cultures muscles are perceived differently.
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I’ve travelled all over, and It's interesting to see the difference in reaction from a global perspective. Specifically the difference in reaction between 1st world people and 3rd world people. 3rd World people respect muscularity a lot more! Look at the way the people in India react to the Pros over there recently, treating them like gods etc.
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You wrote what I forgot to emphasize. Exactly - in 3rd world being big and muscular is valued VERY highly and all the praises one would get there are very sincere. It's almost annoying after some time in such a country, because everyone feel the need to remark that you are "strong/built well", but oh well.. they doesn't know any better.
I was walking in Cairo one day, all covered up, baggiest t-shirt I had, a black one, rly I have no idea how could they tell, crossed some old-market, guess what - one dude jokingly offered me to "fight", another one started begging to go arm-wrestling with him. I agreed actually, dude sounded very confident, got me curious. Needless to say - he was left with a sore arm after a weird *snap* sound lmao.. It was a funny moment, a lot of ppl passing by, and we in the middle on a small chair wrestilng arms.
A kid, about 10yo, very smart one, I met on my way, said I'm "Batista" (american wrestling is popular in countries like these).. Countless stories really.. It's a good convo opener, you don't even have to say anything.
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I was once walking in Jerusalem, and suddenly an old man was pinching in my lats, not once but twice. I watched him very angry in the eyes and he moved on, like it was just a joke, what a pathetic schmoe :-X
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right...and then an hour later one of them sucked his dick in the bathroom. 8)
I have personal experience in this phenomena. I was at a house party some years ago, and there was this one girl who proclaimed very loudly quite a few times that i was "too big" and that's "not attractive to women"...she made sure to do this when her friends were around and people were looking, making a real show of it.
Fast forward to the end of the night,most people are gone.... and she comes up to me in the kitchen and asks if i'm "seeing anybody"...as she rubs my arm.
you may be right.. im just saying what i saw
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Sorry guys, I'll have to adjust myself to some of your "level" so I'd "fit in".
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you are a dipshit. anytime you make an assumption about someone based on appearances, you are making an "a priori" judgment about them. that's all the term means -- a deduction based on reason, as opposed to an inference based on experience. there was absolutely no good reason to use this word here, and, excuse me if i try my own hand at the a priori business for a moment, but it's obvious you did so because you are used to impressing ignorant children / girls / retards with extraneous terms designed to mystify them, so that they think you are smart.
suckmymuscle does the same thing, dropping unnecessary details and terms all over the place to make his arguments seem deeper than they are.
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I was once walking in Jerusalem, and suddenly an old man was pinching in my lats, not once but twice. I watched him very angry in the eyes and he moved on, like it was just a joke, what a pathetic schmoe :-X
I had something like that too, someone pinched my biceps. It's very indecent, just like touching someones baby (women tend to do that) or stroking someones dog...
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I had something lik that too, someone pinched my biceps. It's very indecent, just like touching someones baby (women tend to do that) or stroking someones dong...
Fixed, and still true.
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you are a dipshit. anytime you make an assumption about someone based on appearances, you are making an "a priori" judgment about them. that's all the term means -- a deduction based on reason, as opposed to an inference based on experience. there was absolutely no good reason to use this word here, and, excuse me if i try my own hand at the a priori business for a moment, but it's obvious you did so because you are used to impressing ignorant children / girls / retards with extraneous terms designed to mystify them, so that they think you are smart.
suckmymuscle does the same thing, dropping unnecessary details and terms all over the place to make his arguments seem deeper than they are.
Y r u so irritated? What bothers u kind sir? Are you angry cause it's an everyday language for me, or because you generally don't like ppl who are rich in the way they express themselves? I'm very sorry to offend you in such an indirect way, I'll try to be a "simple worded" poster so you and others of your kind can feel comoftable on an internet forum.
p.s. - /a priori/ is - "in advance" generally, tho' in that case "in advance" doesn't "sound" right (I'm quite a perfectionist when it comes to laying out my thoughts. I like 'em to sound like a Piano Concerto by Rachmaninov, nomsayin? Woops.. sorry, I should've said - Will I am or Justin Bieber..).
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suckmymuscle does the same thing, dropping unnecessary details and terms all over the place to make his arguments seem deeper than they are.
I think we all have the tendency to do that (to some degree) ~ whether or not it is for the purpose of creating an illusion is another story. Personally, when I do it, I believe the reasoning is to make sure that all levels of intelligence (or lack thereof) can understand.
So much is lost in translation from your mind- to the fingers- and then the keyboard. It's nearly impossible to put the emphasis where you intend for it to be in the first place; hence the 100 page diatribes.
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And by the way, how do you guys judge someone's intelligence here? By his eloquence? Jeez guys, all it takes is being native American and reading few fucking books.
Anyone can be smartass on forums, it's when they come across REAL problem, like in math, morons are revealed.
They seem to judge it on whit and quick knee slapping remarks they saw on "The Big Bang Theory" or one of those other generation nothingness fountains of modern brilliance shows. And what if you suck at math then you're automatically an idiot? ???
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I think we all have the tendency to do that (to some degree) ~ whether or not it is for the purpose of creating an illusion is another story.
I can confirm that if there's an illusion I want to pull from time to time is when I chose clothes (to look bigger then I am). Talkin' about intellignece - I'm just a bright bulb, naturally, what can I do.. Sun won't reduce it's light just to make sure these with fucked-up eyesight could see better during the day..
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I think getting married is the first dumb decision (many intelligent paople make, unfortunately) lol..
I'm aware what you did here tho'
you think I'm being sarcastic bitch? wear's you're picks "the vinchi"
im as serious as a heart attack. i wasnt lieng niehter is anybody else in this thread.
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I had something lik that too, someone pinched my biceps. It's very indecent, just like touching someones baby (women tend to do that) or stroking someones dog...
I'm sure that pinching man had no wrong intentions (no homo, LOL). Things like these makes you aware of the fact that there are large cultural differences, when it comes to "being physical" with a stranger. Especially here in Western Europe people tend keep their distance.
Stroking someones dog? Tough one. In case a dog approaches me on a friendly way, yes, else not.
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Y r u so irritated? What bothers u kind sir? Are you angry cause it's an everyday language for me, or because you generally don't like ppl who are rich in the way they express themselves? I'm very sorry to offend you in such an indirect way, I'll try to be a "simple worded" poster so you and others of your kind can feel comoftable on an internet forum.
p.s. - /a priori/ is - "in advance" generally, tho' in that case "in advance" doesn't "sound" right (I'm quite a perfectionist when it comes to laying out my thoughts. I like 'em to sound like a Piano Concerto by Rachmaninov, nomsayin? Woops.. sorry, I should've said - Will I am or Justin Bieber..).
"in advance" doesn't sound right in that case. correct. "a priori" doesn't sound right in that case either. why? because drawing a conclusion about someone's character based on their appearance alone means that conclusion is NECESSARILY MADE IN ADVANCE OF OBSERVING THEM FULFILLING THIS CONCLUSION. That is, it is a DEDUCTION.
it has nothing to do with being "rich" in the way you express yourself. it has nothing to do with being "simple worded." your usage of this term was completely redundant in this case, and you only did so because you are used to peppering your speech with high-sounding words and phrases in order to impress simpletons. when you run into someone who is actually intelligent, however, it backfires and just makes you look like a dumbass.
Also LOL @ "everyday language." If you regularly use "a priori" I hope you are in a continental philosophy class, because I can't imagine much use for the term outside of one.
And no, I'm not mad. I enjoy ripping you apart.
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"in advance" doesn't sound right in that case. correct. "a priori" doesn't sound right in that case either. why? because drawing a conclusion about someone's character based on their appearance alone means that conclusion is NECESSARILY MADE IN ADVANCE OF OBSERVING THEM FULFILLING THIS CONCLUSION. That is, it is a DEDUCTION.
it has nothing to do with being "rich" in the way you express yourself. it has nothing to do with being "simple worded." your usage of this term was completely redundant in this case, and you only did so because you are used to peppering your speech with high-sounding words and phrases in order to impress simpletons. when you run into someone who is actually intelligent, however, it backfires and just makes you look like a dumbass.
Also LOL @ "everyday language." If you regularly use "a priori" I hope you are in a continental philosophy class, because I can't imagine much use for the term outside of one.
And no, I'm not mad. I enjoy ripping you apart.
I'm glad I've impressed you. I'm obviously very concerned about how "I look like" to someone like you either. You are a good smaritan sir, such lenghts to go just to explain an annonymous on the interwebz the use of a word, when it was perfectly clear why it was used and what was the motivation to use it (unless one has some kind of neurosis and doubts about personal intelligence, so feels an urge to preach others to be "more simple", as it's a sin to express your thoughts wihtout worrying about some dumb fuck who'll take a more complex expression as a personal offence.).
You sound like a bitch during PMS. Take some ibuprofen or xanax you little man with boots 5sizes too large, I have nothing to prove you here and I have no idea why you try to prove me anything either.. Strange world, strange ppl.