no one here is acting like a fairy....I lift regularly, I lift heavy and I am a big guy for my size....I carry myself with confidence and no one EVER bothers me...and yes if someone got really aggressive and hit me there would be hell to pay, believe me...but why go through that?....if I can avoid a fight I will..returning the aggressiveness of others does not help you at all in the long run.....you punch him, he punches you..okay.,.so what???yes you might win because you hurt him more but.... you will be hurt as well....so why bother? so you won...wow! big deal...what if the guy had a gun or knife.....he's obviously angry about his own miserable life and wants to goad some sucker into a confrontation so he can retaliate and take out his misery on someone....what do you get out of that???..you could get hurt,...killed....all to satisfy this guys anger.....believe me this happens a lot especially in confrontations over women....guys confront each other and attack each other over women....why???...better to let the guy keep your woman and move on if she's that big of a whore....you can find another....why die over a woman???...does that make sense to you???...would you be so attached to a woman that you would get yourself killed?..or kill the other guy and wind up in jail???..and if you go to jail, she would be with another guy any way!!!....change your mindset..ownership of things gets you in trouble....because then you will do anything to maintain that ownership..even if it gets you into trouble
With that attitude you would get your arse handed to you if you ever got in to a real fight, I know dudes who would chew your eyeball out if his opponent showed a moments weakness, your attitude defines uncertainty, As a man, I am ready to fight at a moments notice, I love the way it makes me feel, and win or lose, I fight hard, like a man, stand and bang, dirty boxing, ground and poiund, whatever it takes. And afterwards if I lose I reflect and change as a man, and if I win I grow in stature, feel even more manly, and by the way, women love to be fought over, I have fucked a few chicks because I fought for them. You may lift and look like a man, but you dont post like one.