To all getbiggers who have been or are still currently in a relationship, what is the secret to longevity in an intimate relationship (girlfriend, wife, fiance)?
What factors have you identified that has positively contributed to your relationship?
Having been in relationships non-stop all my life, these are factors I believe in:
- Keep your identity, pride, career and personal boundaries intact while accommodating your girlfriend in areas that matter to her
- Find a kind girl, a basically good person. Evil women do exist.
- Find a girl who matches you physically. You need to like the way she smells, the ways she touches you, to touch her and of course the sex
- Compatible life goals (children, jobs, education)
- Compatible preferences (entertainment, holidays, food etc)
- Fun and friendship :-)
NN