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duno how to handle this. Anyone else ever deal with it. Finding out there kid isn't there's.
she didn't tell me. I had to find out. She was still emailing her ex telling him she loves him n always have always will.i knew time frames always didn't match up when she got preganant. Finally I find truth in a secret email.
wtf do I do. Kid is 1 yrs old. After I found out I broke her down she admitted everything. But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave. I'm confused cause she is going crazy trying to make sure I won't leave her. So it seems she does love. Obv she's promising to never talk to him again like before.... I caught her almost 2 yrs ago before emailing n txting him telling him she loves him n still wants to be with him.
so its twice now I been emotionally cheated on n this times even more fucked up.
wtf do I do. I dunom all there's pictures of me holding this kid... Wtf.... She keeps telling me she wants me to be her farther n be with her...
what do I do.
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that sucks
are you married?
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Kid is 1 years old. Just get the fuk away from her and her ex's kid. You better off to do it now when the kid was zero memory of you then to suck it up and do it when he's 10 or something.
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This wont end well, in fact its already over. If you stay in this relationship this shit will continue to happen. Sucks about the kid, but you dont need to bail on the child to do whats right for you. Take some time, take a trip, I recommend Dubai, India. Followed by a good workout of upright rows.
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Kid is 1 years old. Just get the fuk away from her and her ex's kid. You better off to do it now when the kid was zero memory of you then to suck it up and do it when he's 10 or something.
Leave now and don't look back and you will save a lot of money, time and lawyers fees for domestic violence down the road.
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that sucks
are you married?
no not married. (pretty nuch obv but not on paper
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This wont end well, in fact its already over. If you stay in this relationship this shit will continue to happen. Sucks about the kid, but you dont need to bail on the child to do whats right for you. Take some time, take a trip, I recommend Dubai, India. Followed by a good workout of upright rows.
lmfao wow thamks. Bee depressed all day soo upset tellig my mother kid isn't mine n all this balonie. N was laughin for once. About the upright row part to make me feel better
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Leave now and don't look back and you will save a lot of money, time and lawyers fees for domestic violence down the road.
that is the right thing to do isn't it. I know it is fo my mental health. Its just super hard this happene today. So all I can think of is past yr with this fuckin kid. All the pictures all over the house of us my phone full of pics man. Like wtf. How ca wome do this. I am so totally lifeless. Heart broken bout this kid I thought was mine n heart broken reading a email of how madly in love she was with her ex n how he was her one n true only love.
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Leave now and don't look back and you will save a lot of money, time and lawyers fees for domestic violence down the road.
Leave now and don't look back and you will save a lot of money, time and lawyers fees for domestic violence down the road.
that is the right thing to do isn't it. I know it is fo my mental health. Its just super hard this happene today. So all I can think of is past yr with this fuckin kid. All the pictures all over the house of us my phone full of pics man. Like wtf. How ca wome do this. I am so totally lifeless. Heart broken bout this kid I thought was mine n heart broken reading a email of how madly in love she was with her ex n how he was her one n true only love.
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Sucks ass, but you need to get out of the situation ASAP.
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Secure all your financial assets immediatly. joint bank account = terminate it asap, shared cards = terminate that shit. Anything valuable in the house = move it into the trunk or your best friends place.
Haul ass bro
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she will never change. if you stay, you are basically giving her permission to continue the things she is doing.
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she will never change. if you stay, you are basically giving her permission to continue the things she is doing.
this this this this THIS. my mom cheatedo n my dad and he gave her another chance.. did it again and screwed him over financially. women are shitbags
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Is your name on the birth certificate? because if it is you are really fucked! it's doesn't matter who the biological father is. What really matters is whose name is on the birthday certificate. Contact a lawyer asap.
Also as others have suggested secure anything that is not nailed down.
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run......!!run forest run!!!!
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Leave Bro, you will suffer in the long term if you stay, just leave and get on with your life, but never make the kid feel it was their fault, its your gf and she is not worth it
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She's a crazy bitch. You need to leave her NOW.
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She didnt show you any respect or consideration..she doesnt deserve you..in the long run it will hurt both you and the kid.
i agree with schome buster about not making the kid feeling like it was his fault..
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This is a tough one. No one wins here. I feel sad for the child because he will lose a Dad if you go.
You can no longer trust your girlfriend. She lies about the most important thing....her feelings. When women want the former boyfriend that can sting.
Anyway, the decision you have to make is how you feel about them. If you love them enough then that tells you what to do. She is in a very weak position at the moment.
One thing is certain. You will get more of the same from her. You can bank on that. We are all fools when it comes to love.
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PTPS
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Secure all your financial assets immediatly. joint bank account = terminate it asap, shared cards = terminate that shit. Anything valuable in the house = move it into the trunk or your best friends place.
Haul ass bro
X2. Then go and don't look back.
Really shitty situation and she's put the worst con on you a person can. Don't let her manipulate you another minute.
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run
and never come back
suck bro, you must love the kid but this is for your own good
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Get yourself some good legal advice and like others have said, try and lock down your assets.
Same thing happened to a friend of mine (except his wife was cheating on him with her ex), same thing - broke down, confessed everlasting undying love, I'm an idiot, please forgive me it was just a horrible mistake, my life is yours etc etc etc.
My mate loved her, thought their 5 year old was his - he was torn up but he gave her another chance.
8 months later another friend give him the heads up that his wifes car was parked outside her ex's house all day. Another confontation, more tears, more confessions more forgiveness - seriously - my friend wanted the fairy tale and was willing to give anything for it.
Fast forward another 5 months, same thing but this time finally he says enough is enough. The little boy is now 6, has had his first day at school, it was just a horrible situation. The wife saw him as a provider sure, but nothing else. I don't know what the hell is wrong with some people. He's now a broken man, has started drinking, isn't working anymore and I worry for his future.
Don't let this happen to you bro. Do something now, but your girl, she had her chance. Don't reinforce her behaviour by telling her it's all ok and you'll let it slide. It won't stop.
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run as fast as you can. look at how bad all of that sounds: she didn't tell you kid wasn't yours when she knew and emailing her ex about how much she misses him? she is just using you, get the hell out of there asap.
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Get yourself some good legal advice and like others have said, try and lock down your assets.
Same thing happened to a friend of mine (except his wife was cheating on him with her ex), same thing - broke down, confessed everlasting undying love, I'm an idiot, please forgive me it was just a horrible mistake, my life is yours etc etc etc.
My mate loved her, thought their 5 year old was his - he was torn up but he gave her another chance.
8 months later another friend give him the heads up that his wifes car was parked outside her ex's house all day. Another confontation, more tears, more confessions more forgiveness - seriously - my friend wanted the fairy tale and was willing to give anything for it.
Fast forward another 5 months, same thing but this time finally he says enough is enough. The little boy is now 6, has had his first day at school, it was just a horrible situation. The wife saw him as a provider sure, but nothing else. I don't know what the hell is wrong with some people. He's now a broken man, has started drinking, isn't working anymore and I worry for his future.
Don't let this happen to you bro. Do something now, but your girl, she had her chance. Don't reinforce her behaviour by telling her it's all ok and you'll let it slide. It won't stop.
damn it, it pisses me off reading stories like this
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that is the right thing to do isn't it. I know it is fo my mental health. Its just super hard this happene today. So all I can think of is past yr with this fuckin kid. All the pictures all over the house of us my phone full of pics man. Like wtf. How ca wome do this. I am so totally lifeless. Heart broken bout this kid I thought was mine n heart broken reading a email of how madly in love she was with her ex n how he was her one n true only love.
That's devastating. :(
I think everyones given good advice. She has lied to you about being the father of her child and she has told the ex that he is her true love....truely hurtful and devastating. I think she will keep hurting you and will continue to do this type of behaviour. You already said that you caught her lying to you earlier on a couple of years ago. She was given a chance back then to be faithful and loyal and instead she went and got pregnant with her ex. To save yourself further pain, it's best to leave her. You can't keep getting deceived by her and also reading the words that her ex is her true love would be too hurtful for me to ever consider taking a man back if he were to do that to me.
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that is the right thing to do isn't it. I know it is fo my mental health. Its just super hard this happene today. So all I can think of is past yr with this fuckin kid. All the pictures all over the house of us my phone full of pics man. Like wtf. How ca wome do this. I am so totally lifeless. Heart broken bout this kid I thought was mine n heart broken reading a email of how madly in love she was with her ex n how he was her one n true only love.
Whatever you do not read anymore of those emails, reading more of that will do your head in and make you crazy, you need to get out, none of this is your fault, you are a victim, also the little boy, a victim of your gf, she must be punished by society and her peers, let it be known its her doing.
Get away ASAP and just busy yourself with something that takes your mind off things, hobbies,gym, reading getbig, hanging out with friends.
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Get out asap. You'll "win" only in fairy land scenario which is unlikely to happen, even though your heart may say otherwise. Tell the bitch you can be a father figure for the kid if she wants. I can guarantee once you're outta door, she'll manipulate the biological dad just like she's manipulating you, or find a new step daddy.
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thanks guys way to many replies to reply to each one. Rly appreaciate the care.
thank god for best friends. We were having a normal day out at mall. My best friend txt me saying he's talkin to her ex on computer. N the ex is telling him shit. Bout my gf. Cause he didn't want her emailing him. He's got a kid otw himself. N he says he was scared of me beating him up or my best friend lol.
so at first my best friend didn't believe him. Got him to give his email n password to him LOL. He does n he gives me it. N bam there you have it her undying love. True n only love EVER she says tonnes of shit to break anyones heart.
she denys it says not her email acct. (was a fake secret one) obv I do not let this down same shit as before with same guy. I persist same lying bullshit n she breaks down n signs into the fak email to show me its rly her.
saying how kids his as well.
at first I was golden. I was all ok. I'm fine I said I'd leave her before if she did it again. N all rdy to leave. But I'm sure you all know when a girl is crying n begging its hard to say no. So now I'm here obv still. All I can say is give me ime to think. And as I'm thinking all nite here its so hard to leave guys. I lived a fucking life short life. With a family thought to be mine.
I know I rly do have to don't I? She's did it twice. N shell do it again won't she. She rly will right. She's never cheated physically. He lives far away now annyways. She's always open I know all her passwords always see her phone. But go figure for this one guy always emotionally cheats n it hurts bad.
I just don't get why all nite she Is still tellin me she l never msg him again n rly only loves me n wants me. Saying shell go get my name tattoo on her tomorrow lol. I have to leave tho you all said it. Shell just make me worthless i n the end mentally I think. If when I go. I think I should make her get the tattoo and when its done walk out n say cya? Lol
assest isn't a worry at the moment. Bank accounts separate obv we are both young in our 20s so we don't have anything but a car. Even so I don't care about it.
I started to take the cash we keep in here n leave a few hundred since it was all my cash anyways.. So I did n hide it. But than I start thinking wtf man.... This kid I can't do that so I start putting back alot of it...
like wtf this blows.. She does work but I feel I'd need to leave something for the kid n a fair bit. Although the whore will prob just find a new guy to take care of her lol.
but you all agree I have to leave right?
I mean I want my own family. A wife that'd never cheat on me n love me truly . Sucks cause part of me feels like its still my family. But if the ex wud of said sure ill take you back obv she prob wudda been in his bed n eventually leaving.
what do you think. Upright rows like suggested n treat myself to 10iu gh a day? Lol that's bout only thing I can think of to make me happy
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duno how to handle this. Anyone else ever deal with it. Finding out there kid isn't there's.
she didn't tell me. I had to find out. She was still emailing her ex telling him she loves him n always have always will.i knew time frames always didn't match up when she got preganant. Finally I find truth in a secret email.
wtf do I do. Kid is 1 yrs old. After I found out I broke her down she admitted everything. But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave. I'm confused cause she is going crazy trying to make sure I won't leave her. So it seems she does love. Obv she's promising to never talk to him again like before.... I caught her almost 2 yrs ago before emailing n txting him telling him she loves him n still wants to be with him.
so its twice now I been emotionally cheated on n this times even more fucked up.
wtf do I do. I dunom all there's pictures of me holding this kid... Wtf.... She keeps telling me she wants me to be her farther n be with her...
what do I do.
listen to me friend,, you are dealing with a whore,, that doenst make kid a whore,, why do i say a whore ....for only a whore wont tell you you are not the dada of kido,, only a whore will keep it secret ,, only very very low level generation nothignness kredishian reality tv balonie will do this ,, she is living in a very bad era but she will NEVER be yours,, you are just there for whatever,, she can say whatever she want,, IF SHE DID NOT SAY KIDO IS NOT YOURS TO BEGIN WITH ,, if she had a kid from antoher fella and hide it that mean she fuck on the side ,, that mean she does many thing you will never know ,,
the kido is a diff story but! it is 1 year old! you will never be rememberd if you left now,, if you wait few more years you wil be remembered,,
remember! you live once! you want to liev it with good decent girl not with some whore that wont tell you the truth and this is the closest fella to her YOU! suposdly ...
get away find aaway out ,, and it is holidays and all ,, but unless she colapse and basicaly beg you to stay ...you need to live even if she beg you to stay you need to make sure she know that you give her no money ,, its half and half and she BETRAY YOU! 99 out of 100 cases of the such end up bad only take longer time to realize it ,, get away now 1 year old kido wont remember a damn thing
gh15 approved
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thanks gh15 I respect you alot you brought truth to me eyes of bbing. And you are a good guy from everything I read about kids to dogs n even you think I should leave.
and boy thanks to guy telling me not to read the emails there is only 2 but I read em to see if I missed anything I can get more pissed about... N boy same shit. Love you always n will forever. Only person I've ever been in love with all this crap man like a a novel of it. Sickening to think she did this n I gotta cry like a fool in the living room. Man n to think for past few hrs I'm actually thinking of staying... Wow I am a retard eh? I got fooled good. A girl that tells me how amazing I am so good in bed so this n that all the time... Made me totally believe I was the one for her. Fuck I don't wanna be so stupid n stay.
I have to leave. Honestly does it matter when I leave? Will I get trapped if I stay any longer than a few days ? Shud I get out right away? I think ill be suckered into the I love yous and crap if I stay any longer
listen to me friend,, you are dealing with a whore,, that doenst make kid a whore,, why do i say a whore ....for only a whore wont tell you you are not the dada of kido,, only a whore will keep it secret ,, only very very low level generation nothignness kredishian reality tv balonie will do this ,, she is living in a very bad era but she will NEVER be yours,, you are just there for whatever,, she can say whatever she want,, IF SHE DID NOT SAY KIDO IS NOT YOURS TO BEGIN WITH ,, if she had a kid from antoher fella and hide it that mean she fuck on the side ,, that mean she does many thing you will never know ,,
the kido is a diff story but! it is 1 year old! you will never be rememberd if you left now,, if you wait few more years you wil be remembered,,
remember! you live once! you want to liev it with good decent girl not with some whore that wont tell you the truth and this is the closest fella to her YOU! suposdly ...
get away find aaway out ,, and it is holidays and all ,, but unless she colapse and basicaly beg you to stay ...you need to live even if she beg you to stay you need to make sure she know that you give her no money ,, its half and half and she BETRAY YOU! 99 out of 100 cases of the such end up bad only take longer time to realize it ,, get away now 1 year old kido wont remember a damn thing
gh15 approved
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Tough situation its a lot easier to say get the hell out on paper but in real life it can be harder. I assume your fairly young that makes it even more hard because at that age you still kinda want to think the worlds a nice place and people do the right thing. I'm sure what ever choice you make it will be the right one. Life is funny its kinda roll the dice as long as you dont land in prison or dead you have another roll.
Maybe the girl is not so much bad we all fall for people in are life we cant let go. No matter if your a whore or muscleman or what there is always that one person that you wish you had that you lost. It is hard to leave a stituation like that its much easier to tell someone to do it.
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it all depend how hot the girl is,, if she is very hot she will find someone to leech on ,, many felas around that are golible and bored and young and just want to be around girl and will do whatever so she can be with them ,, if she is not that hot....and has milage on her then its diff story ,, i dont knwo the deal here ,, all i knwo is that lie liek this is major ,, this is something big ,, the only way a girl can pull this is if she is REALY GOOD LOOKIGN AND HOT,, but you egt use to looks,, you need HEART look fade,, you need someone that when you grow old with wil take care of you if you are sick and not throw you in some old people house of the govrmnet or i dont know what,, you need to be able to count on her! remember LOOK FADE! always apreciate the bodybuild days because LOOK FADE,, in the end we all become geezers,,you need good girl ,, she can be hto too there are good looking girls that are hot,, someone with no kid that can give you your own kid or maybe adopt a kid together,, you dont need some liar filt that will try to pull such thing on you ,, this is the lowest of the low,, its not like murdering but it is betryal,, it is big betrayal
she will try to make you stay big time,, it very easy to fall for it for it is a frame that you wil feel bad with out only becaue of attachment to the kid and to her,, but...always remember it is from another fella...and a girl that does it do not DO NOT have morals ,, she could tell you many times chose not to ,, she traped you ,,
it all shoudl depend on how sincere is her love if she even love you ,, i dont think someone like this can love you ,, but you should be able to know this ,, and in this time MAKE SURE YOU LISTEN TO YOUR MAMA she will let you know whats good for you in this case,, mama ,, sister,,someone blood related that is close to you ,, brother...
gh15 approved
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sry i had to
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leave the woman and give that child one last kiss on the forehead late at night and just leave
don't give her any word
just go, and don't come back to her ever
a zebra can't change it's stripes
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Stand up for yourself. Stand up for your future.
Walk away. Never look back!
She has fucked you now{The ultimate FUCK}shame on her.
If you allow her to fuck you twice. Shame on you{You deserve it!}
Good luck...... mastering your emotions.
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yeah i agree with everyone else. i would leave. the kid won;t remember you and hopefully for the kid she will change her ways and settle down with a nice guy that will be a good dad. but for you..if you stay.. you will get no respect and more of the same because of it
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there is always option 3:
take all your money go one a 3 week banging 18-20 yo old spree and then go back and say were even lets move on and forget the past :)
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man leave now. if you are renting (and the place is in her name)i would pay a months rent because of the kid and get out. if its in your name evict her ASAP..or just sit down and talk to her..trying to get her to leave without the eviction
also if you are doing anything illegal..steriods ect. get them out of the place. if you leave or make her leave she will not be happy. she could easily call the police and turn you in..happened to a buddy of mine
in any case this is a lose lose situation if you stay
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Get a DNA test, for all you know, she could be playing the other dude as well.
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Haha cant bdlieve what some if u are sayin
a turk would kill that whoreand turkish judge would say nice one brother she does not deserve to live
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Proof of castration at birth!!!
No self esteem!!!
Grow a sack!!!
there is always option 3:
take all your money go one a 3 week banging 18-20 yo old spree and then go back and say were even lets move on and forget the past :)
Yea that`ll show her!!! Did you graduate jr high?
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Mate, to be honest, it looks like you love her and you overlooked a few things you knew from the start in order to have this family thing with her. I can't believe that a woman managed to pull the wool over your eyes like this. You had to have known that something was going on. You are somewhat complicit in all this, you had your suspicions all along. You wrote it yourself, you knew that the pregnancy period was off. What did you do about it back then? Did you not question her?
You should have broken her in from the start, put the pressure on her to come clean about her ex and then force her to choose- and this kid business happened far too fast, don't you think you should know someone for a good few years before you take such a drastic step?
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Something isn't right here. Lyquid doesn't believe her when she says she loves him yet he believes her when she said that to her ex in emails, etc. How does he know what she feels?
The point is her feelings are irrelevant. He isn't leaving even with all the advice to do so. Why? Because he has feelings for her and he finally has her saying what he so desperately wants to feel. That someone loves him so much they will beg him to stay. Sounds like our hero needs a gal who needs him. That is called co-dependence. Nothing to be ashamed of but it bonds people to each other that really shouldn't be together. Sometimes that is as good as it gets. Like, where is he going to go and what is he going to do? It is always good to have a backup!
He isn't going anywhere.
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Not sure where you live, but you can file your own legalities in court.
First, get a DNA test. All you need to do is prove wether you are or not the father to the baby. If your not the dad, you can file to have the name removed from the birth certificate. I would find out through the court system if their certain places to use, for paternity tests, which are admissible.
If not, petition the court to have your name removed.
If you are the father, file joint, sole, or whatever type of custody you want. NO need to spend money on lawyers, it's plain and simple. If you go this route, tread lightly about anything public, emails, texts, etc. you do. Don't bash mommy or anything else.
I hope all works out well for you, but if the child is yours or not, the girlfriend has to go.
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Do what everyone else has already said... Shore up the finances... Get her away from your money.
Then fucking walk away and don't EVER think twice about her or the kid.
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Stand up for yourself. Stand up for your future.
Walk away. Never look back!
She has fucked you now{The ultimate FUCK}shame on her.
If you allow her to fuck you twice. Shame on you{You deserve it!}Good luck...... mastering your emotions.
I was just about to post this..... :-\
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Not sure where you live, but you can file your own legalities in court.
First, get a DNA test. All you need to do is prove wether you are or not the father to the baby. If your not the dad, you can file to have the name removed from the birth certificate. I would find out through the court system if their certain places to use, for paternity tests, which are admissible.
He's already told us the kid isn't his.
GET THE FUCK OUT OF THIS SITUATION NOW
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He's already told us the kid isn't his.
GET THE FUCK OUT OF THIS SITUATION NOW
I understand that but I think for legality and monetary reasons, it should be documented (not by email or just her say so) by a paternity test. He needs to cover his ass. Eventually (99%) it will come up down the road who is or isn't the father. Save the aggravation now. If it proves he is the father he has all and every legal right to the child.
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duno how to handle this. Anyone else ever deal with it. Finding out there kid isn't there's.
she didn't tell me. I had to find out. She was still emailing her ex telling him she loves him n always have always will.i knew time frames always didn't match up when she got preganant. Finally I find truth in a secret email.
wtf do I do. Kid is 1 yrs old. After I found out I broke her down she admitted everything. But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave. I'm confused cause she is going crazy trying to make sure I won't leave her. So it seems she does love. Obv she's promising to never talk to him again like before.... I caught her almost 2 yrs ago before emailing n txting him telling him she loves him n still wants to be with him.
so its twice now I been emotionally cheated on n this times even more fucked up.
wtf do I do. I dunom all there's pictures of me holding this kid... Wtf.... She keeps telling me she wants me to be her farther n be with her...
what do I do.
Get out now,see the kid as often as possible if possible.
This broads a liar and not gonna` do you any good.
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duno how to handle this. Anyone else ever deal with it. Finding out there kid isn't there's.
she didn't tell me. I had to find out. She was still emailing her ex telling him she loves him n always have always will.i knew time frames always didn't match up when she got preganant. Finally I find truth in a secret email.
wtf do I do. Kid is 1 yrs old. After I found out I broke her down she admitted everything. But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave. I'm confused cause she is going crazy trying to make sure I won't leave her. So it seems she does love. Obv she's promising to never talk to him again like before.... I caught her almost 2 yrs ago before emailing n txting him telling him she loves him n still wants to be with him.
so its twice now I been emotionally cheated on n this times even more fucked up.
wtf do I do. I dunom all there's pictures of me holding this kid... Wtf.... She keeps telling me she wants me to be her farther n be with her...
what do I do.
leave now.
don't wait, don't look back.
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If youre having girl problems I feel bad for you son,
I got 99problems but a bitch aint one
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Lived the same story and it took me almost two year to leave the bitch.
she cheated on me with a married man, during one year i got doubt but no evidence.
Finally she left her "married toy", the guy was so in love and gone crazy so he called me to tell allll the truth...
Guy spent hundred of euro in gift for my ex bitch, she sold all the gift on ebay to make money.
Guy suspect her to cheat on him (lol) with other guy, so in theory she cheated on her married lover, at that point i didn'it know who was the boyfriend and who was the amant .
He was so desperate that he want me to give him her facebook and msn acount to spy her...
He divorced for her, and she left him.
Worst bitch got the strange ability to hook honest men.
They know how to manipulate then easily.
so my only advice is get out and never go back, asap, before you fall in depression, before you start losing hair, before you start losing willpower for bbing, for sex, and for life in general and before you start too drink when you come home after a night at work.
i'm now with a smart beautiful girl, born and raised in a stable family.
My ex lost her parent at 4 year old and grew up in a shitty family.
she will search for a father figure all her life (thankx to getbig advice).
she's a beautiful girl, but total shit inside.
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GET THE FUCK OUT NOW! ABORT THE MISSION, TROOPER.
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I sense that he loves the child, even if it isn't his biologically...this complicates things greatly.
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Get out now,see the kid as often as possible if possible.
This broads a liar and not gonna` do you any good.
x2. If he doesn't get out now, he'll regret it the rest of his life. Poor sap.
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leave the woman and give that child one last kiss on the forehead late at night and just leave
don't give her any word
just go, and don't come back to her ever
a zebra can't change it's stripes
This ^^
Mate, to be honest, it looks like you love her and you overlooked a few things you knew from the start in order to have this family thing with her. I can't believe that a woman managed to pull the wool over your eyes like this. You had to have known that something was going on. You are somewhat complicit in all this, you had your suspicions all along. You wrote it yourself, you knew that the pregnancy period was off. What did you do about it back then? Did you not question her?
You should have broken her in from the start, put the pressure on her to come clean about her ex and then force her to choose- and this kid business happened far too fast, don't you think you should know someone for a good few years before you take such a drastic step?
and This ^^
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I understand that but I think for legality and monetary reasons, it should be documented (not by email or just her say so) by a paternity test. He needs to cover his ass. Eventually (99%) it will come up down the road who is or isn't the father. Save the aggravation now. If it proves he is the father he has all and every legal right to the child.
That's actually very sound advice.
But I get the feeling that the characters in this situation are like the ones in the jeremy kyle show...
Point being that sound advice could be falling on deaf ears.
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I would make a short documentary out of this. Tape it all. The confrontation, the tears, the breakup, you saying bye to the kid and walk off leaving her life a disaster while you head off to the gym with a bag of needles and GH.
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fuck that hoe....get away...she lied to you once and will do it again...run
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since you have all of the advice that you will need now let's get back to business!
can you post some pics of her in her panties? you can block out the face if you like..also include an ass shot or two.
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Bro - perhaps there is a way you can keep the child in your life if that is what you really want. I tend to agree with the other posters - at 1 year old, it's best to just put them both behind you, but hey, who hasn't been in love before? It makes us all do crazy shit.
But think about this Lyquid - if you stay with this woman, for the rest of your life you will always have a little voice in the back of your head whispering to you that you're only second best. Do you really want that? That is what will fuck you up if you're not careful.
Good luck mate.
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Damn
I would hate my life more than ever
Not sure one would be able to love the child, since he/she would always remember you of the infidelity.
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First I was afraid
I was petrified
Kept thinking I could never live
without you by my side
But I spent so many nights
thinking how you did me wrong
I grew strong
I learned how to carry on
and so you're back
from outer space
I just walked in to find you here
with that sad look upon your face
I should have changed my stupid lock
I should have made you leave your key
If I had known for just one second
you'd be back to bother me
Go on now go walk out the door
just turn around now
'cause you're not welcome anymore
weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
you think I'd crumble
you think I'd lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
as long as i know how to love
I know I will stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give
and I'll survive
I will survive
It took all the strength I had
not to fall apart
kept trying hard to mend
the pieces of my broken heart
and I spent oh so many nights
just feeling sorry for myself
I used to cry
Now I hold my head up high
and you see me
somebody new
I'm not that chained up little person
still in love with you
and so you felt like dropping in
and just expect me to be free
now I'm saving all my loving
for someone who's loving me
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Lyquid, I agree with some (and shocked by a few posts), if you want to be in this child's life, that is super credible if you ask me. That is a life long commitment if you do that though, no matter how pissed off you get at her mom just stay in the child's life. She sounds that she waivers back and forth about her feelings, so NOTHING would surprise me that she would allow you in the child's life then a few years she may say fuck off you're not the father. I doubt she knows if you or the ex is, but that's just me. But I STRONGLEY encourage you to get a paternity test.
Last thing you want is a relationship where you have to check emails, phone bills etc...Once trust is broken, you can't get that back.
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Leave the bitch, shes done it twice, shes going to do it again, only reason shes still with you is probably cause he wont take her/doesnt want her back, and there is no telling how many times she REALLY cheated on you.
You really want to be her second choice? Cause thats what you are. If shes emailing some other dude telling him she loves him behind your back, that makes you second fiddle.
Clearly the kids not yours.
Fuck that bitch, get away while you can, it will be 100x worse if you dont and the child gets older, especially when hes old enough to think youre the real dad, plus shell be able to take everything from you.
That women is an emotionally spoiled wreck, shes gonna jump ship the moment she can, girls dont email other guys and tell them they love them if theyre happy where theyre at or if theyre not planning on leaving.
Get out now.
P.S
There is a woman out there somewhere that wants to be with you, because she loves you, not some hoe that cant stand to be alone, so she uses you while she tries to get back with her ex or find someone knew.
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Fuck that bitch, get away while you can, it will be 100x worse if you dont and the child gets older, especially when hes old enough to think youre the real dad, plus shell be able to take everything from you.
When that kid is older, (if he isn't the father) it may show the child how to be a stand up guy IMO.
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Made me totally believe I was the one for her. Fuck I don't wanna be so stupid n stay.
I have to leave. Honestly does it matter when I leave? Will I get trapped if I stay any longer than a few days ? Shud I get out right away? I think ill be suckered into the I love yous and crap if I stay any longer
Leave .. as quick as you can ... forget it all ... as quick as you can ... and NEVER jump into shit that quick again
You'll NEVER get it out of your head if you stay ... it will eat at you and when you sleep with the whore you can be assured she's got that other guy on her mind ... why would you waste one minute of energy in a relationship some whore threw in the trash ?
she's using you .. her words are empty and you're a fool to stay and pay for some other man's kid
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When that kid is older, (if he isn't the father) it may show the child how to be a stand up guy IMO.
You dont stay in a shitty relationship with a cheater because you want her 1yr old kid to learn how to be a standup guy. Im sorry, im not going to make my life total hell to raise her kid the way she should be raising him in the 1st place.
Itd be a different story if the woman was faithful, or wasnt a total shitbag. Yeah the kid needs a dad, but at 1year old, if Im not the father and the women is already cheating on me, fuck you bitch, Im out.
No thanks.
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what first happened was early on she left her ex for me. Shortly down road we wernt as lovey as before felt something was up. I key logged the computer n found her msging her ex saying she loves n wants him back.
after I confront her she promises me the world. Gives me all her passwords shell never speak to a guy agai pretty much. Whole time after that she is a great girl. Does alot for me. Aything I need. So I think she does love me some how... I duno..
all the extents she went to ya I believed her heart broken I gave her another chance. N than like I said my best friend found she was up to it again almost 2 yrs later. Now its same things I promise you so much n love u .
gotta stop thinking that cause if she loved me more why would she be telling her ex these false hopes. She def doesn't want any guy out there. But I'd say she is completly immature n is still holding onto her first love n will never let him go in her heart. Its always her ex. She's never done aythin with ay other guy.
I grew up long ago. I'd always miss my last ex thinkin that was true love tha realized that you just always think grass is greener on the other side. N want what you can't have. N she is stll thinking this. Regardless I need to leave cause she convinced me before that shed never do it again. N she saying it again. Fool me 3 times and what? Must have no brain at all right?
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Girls dont email other guys and tell them they love them if theyre happy where theyre at or if theyre not planning on leaving. Girls dont lie and tell you youre the father if theyre decent women.
There is a million women out there, and there are a lot that WONT cheat on you and tell their ex they love them all the time, and lie to you about being the father of her kid. This one is damaged goods.
Get out now
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what first happened was early on she left her ex for me. Shortly down road we wernt as lovey as before felt something was up. I key logged the computer n found her msging her ex saying she loves n wants him back.
after I confront her she promises me the world. Gives me all her passwords shell never speak to a guy agai pretty much. Whole time after that she is a great girl. Does alot for me. Aything I need. So I think she does love me some how... I duno..
all the extents she went to ya I believed her heart broken I gave her another chance. N than like I said my best friend found she was up to it again almost 2 yrs later. Now its same things I promise you so much n love u .
gotta stop thinking that cause if she loved me more why would she be telling her ex these false hopes. She def doesn't want any guy out there. But I'd say she is completly immature n is still holding onto her first love n will never let him go in her heart. Its always her ex. She's never done aythin with ay other guy.
I grew up long ago. I'd always miss my last ex thinkin that was true love tha realized that you just always think grass is greener on the other side. N want what you can't have. N she is stll thinking this. Regardless I need to leave cause she convinced me before that shed never do it again. N she saying it again. Fool me 3 times and what? Must have no brain at all right?
My wife, who is sitting here with me, says from reading your posts she wants to leave, but is afraid to leave you because she doesnt want to be alone. Shes looking for someone to leave you with, and all the password shit, all the shit she says, is just bullshit so you wont leave her, until she finds someone else and can leave you.
Shes shit man, leave while you still can.
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You dont stay in a shitty relationship with a cheater because you want her 1yr old kid to learn how to be a standup guy. Im sorry, im not going to make my life total hell to raise her kid the way she should be raising him in the 1st place.
Itd be a different story if the woman was faithful, or wasnt a total shitbag. Yeah the kid needs a dad, but at 1year old, if Im not the father and the women is already cheating on me, fuck you bitch, Im out.
No thanks.
I didn't say he should stay. I don't think he should, re read my posts. He has a bond with the child, I'm saying it's a stand up thing to do, if he does.
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I hae to keep reading post like these n get it through my head. Rly do. I am her second choice emotionally.
Leave the bitch, shes done it twice, shes going to do it again, only reason shes still with you is probably cause he wont take her/doesnt want her back, and there is no telling how many times she REALLY cheated on you.
You really want to be her second choice? Cause thats what you are. If shes emailing some other dude telling him she loves him behind your back, that makes you second fiddle.
Clearly the kids not yours.
Fuck that bitch, get away while you can, it will be 100x worse if you dont and the child gets older, especially when hes old enough to think youre the real dad, plus shell be able to take everything from you.
That women is an emotionally spoiled wreck, shes gonna jump ship the moment she can, girls dont email other guys and tell them they love them if theyre happy where theyre at or if theyre not planning on leaving.
Get out now.
P.S
There is a woman out there somewhere that wants to be with you, because she loves you, not some hoe that cant stand to be alone, so she uses you while she tries to get back with her ex or find someone knew.
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how could u not know when the baby is black? wiggs is a motherfuckr
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I didn't say he should stay. I don't think he should, re read my posts. He has a bond with the child, I'm saying it's a stand up thing to do, if he does.
I'm late to the party but offer my condolences. In response to this advice, it would be all peaches and cream if he stuck around for the kid but he has no obligation. The bitch is crazy and he jeopardizes his mental health and well being. She would definitely pull some more shit down the road because a c-u-n-t never changes.
Get away NOW. Don't try rationalizing things. She's crazy. So the rational thing is to get as far away from that crazy shitbag as you can. It sucks when women do things like this but you can't change someone like her. It's return is not worth the emotional investment, so don't bother buying stock now because that shit is crashing and fast. GET OUT NOW!!! Best of luck, man. Getbig loves ya!! (no homo)
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I'm late to the party but offer my condolences. In response to this advice, it would be all peaches and cream if he stuck around for the kid but he has no obligation. The bitch is crazy and he jeopardizes his mental health and well being. She would definitely pull some more shit down the road because a c-u-n-t never changes.
Get away NOW. Don't try rationalizing things. She's crazy. So the rational thing is to get as far away from that crazy shitbag as you can. It sucks when women do things like this but you can't change someone like her. It's return is not worth the emotional investment, so don't bother buying stock now because that shit is crashing and fast. GET OUT NOW!!! Best of luck, man. Getbig loves ya!! (no homo)
I said that, even when it pertains to the kid. I still think he should get a paternity test. Like I also stated, she'd probably allow him for now, to be in child's life if he stays with mom or not, but will tell him to fuck off later when she sees fit
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Kid is 1 years old. Just get the fuk away from her and her ex's kid. You better off to do it now when the kid was zero memory of you then to suck it up and do it when he's 10 or something.
This is your answer, no doubt.
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A lot of simpletons are spewing their black and white vomitus all over the place... most are homosexuals, others have never been in long-term relationships, others are 400 pounds heavy and talk only to their mum, others are reclusive and don't talk to anyone at all, hence the absolute advice: she's a whore, leave her.
There is one question really to be asked.
Do you love this woman? Is she someone you want to grow old with? Raise kids with her? Can you stand to rear a child of whom you are not the biological father?
If yes and
assuming you are the sort of people responsible enough to raise kids in the first place,
I've got a few ideas as to how you can handle this.
First, can you make sure that she loves you and can't live without you? To start this, put some immediate distance between you and her. Move out, to a hotel or to a friend's. Stay there for a few weeks. Stop contact and check her reactions. Does she call you every day or every other day? Does she sound desperate? Does she beg to see you face-to-face? Ask her friends, how is she doing? Does she look dishevelled and withdrawn?
If she is growing more desperate the more time passes by, chances are she can't live without you.
If, on the other hand, calls start getting infrequent after a couple of weeks... if she starts getting used to the idea of you being away... if her friends tell you that she is pulling through and starts getting herself together... chances are that she can do without you and find someone else to take care of her. You should do the same.
While you live apart from her, take special care of yourself. Don't miss days at work. Go out with your mates. Pick up a girl at a bar for an easy shag, and make sure news of this gets back to your girlfriend. If you take hormones, don't stop now. If you don't, this is no time to start. Don't completely stop contact with her, drop in every week or so to remove some of your belongings.
The distance between you, will show if you love her, too. If a few weeks/months pass but you can't stop thinking of her, you love her. If you start checking out other women, you're moving on...
Assuming the positive scenario comes through in the situation and both of you are hopelessly attached to each other and she will suffer a breakdown if you totally abandon her and her baby...
the next step would be to deal with the child's father.
You've written that he doesn't care for her and that she is the one that keeps hounding him, which is positive. However, there are other details to consider. Do they have common friends? Does she know and communicate with his parents? Do they work closely or at the same place? Do they do the same kind of job? If any of the above answers are yes, the situation is difficult. If they have common friends, it's very difficult, because she will be asking them about him and unless you can enstrange her from these people, this won't work.
If you can, arrange a face-to-face meeting with the child's dad. Chances are you won't be able to, because you've indicated that the man is scared of you. If that's the case, talk on the phone. Don't chat on the internet, text is no good for this, talk on the phone.
Indicate that you are very angry with this situation and that you blame him and only him. You consider this a trespass to your territory and that you are considering some sort of action. I'll leave it up to you as to what kind of action. It could be legal (a lawsuit), which is groundless and specious, but is intimidating to a moron. Or you can suggest that you'll gather your mates and cripple him, which is intimidating to anyone. Or you can make this more vague and suggest that you will fuck up his life in some other way, which is very intimidating to an insecure person. You know the person, so it's up to you.
If the guy is cavalier and tells you to go fuck yourself, forget this whole reconciliation thing, it won't work with such a man between you and it won't be easy to remove him, without compromising your integrity.
If the guy is not rude but still not particularly scared, chances are he will keep seeing your girlfriend, probably as soon as he breaks up with his companion and is in need of an easy shag.
If the guy is intimidated, you're getting places. Tell him that you're considering suspending your proposed actions, but if he contacts your girl ever again, via text, net or phone, you will pay him back immediately and with added interest. If you are especially lucky and he's shitting himself- try to get him to change his email address and mobile number.
Supposing everything goes well at this front, you can move to deal with your girl.
It's time for a meeting. How does she look? If she's a mess, it's good. If she's radiant and starts talking about places she's been, things she's done, get out, it's over.
Assuming she's a mess, vent your frustration to her, but in a controlled manner. Tell her that she lost your trust and that she will have to work very hard to amend that. Tell her that she needs to show you that she can be loyal. If you are sure she understands this and shows willingness to earn back your trust and not just yessing you to death, it's positive. However, there are still many issues.
What is particularly troublesome is what gh15 wrote. If she didn't tell you about the child not being yours, she's done other things behind your back.
Now is the time to learn what they are. Ask to know every little thing, apart from the child thing. If there is something especially hideous... if she's been two-timing you with other people as well...
Get the fuck out.
If, on other hand, the child issue was the only transgression...
And if by now, you are sure of your feelings,
And of her feelings,
Then, try to work this through and reconciliate.
Keep in mind, that a father's child is not necessarily the biological one. A father's child is the one who stays with it through thick and thin... the one worrying over toothaches, indigestion, good education, health habits... the one who grows up with the kid.
That's as far as my suggestions go. As you see, there are many obstacles in the way and it is unlikely that in each scenario the positive outcome will be the likely one. There are many real life details that only you are aware of and not me. So, this is amenable to your own experience.
One final thing... make-up sex in this case needs to be rough in the beginning. And with humiliating overtones. Try to avoid kissing.
:)
And some of us are happily married, have been in multiple relationships with women ranging from total shit to golden (and more rotten ones than I care to count), and know how the rotten ones work...
To me (and more importantly my wife), this one sounds rotten. Shes done it more than once. Shes more than likely going to do it again, and the longer he stays with her, the worse things are going to get.
Like I said, happy women dont go behind your back and txt their ex's how much they love them.. on multiple occaisons (after having been caught).
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I said that, even when it pertains to the kid. I still think he should get a paternity test. Like I also stated, she'd probably allow him for now, to be in child's life if he stays with mom or not, but will tell him to fuck off later when she sees fit
I'm still reading over the thread. It's hard enough for me as an observer to keep a straight head and to stay calm when reading shit like this.
I'm not saying guys are saints because we fuck up too, but women are downright fucking evil. You never fuck around the way this whore did. It's unforgivable and I'd say if he were the father, go after full custody and give her nothing more than whatever visitation rights you see fit. She sounds like a royal fuck up. If he's not the father, may God or whatever other deity may be out there watch over this poor kid.
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You already know you gotta leave, no questions. I just hope you got the strength to start again, I'm sure you do, can take months, years to get over, maybe you wont until you fall in love again. But you gotta hit the road, stay on through the bumps and cracks, eventually you'll get to a nice place
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Now you listen and you listen good.
You run, don't walk, to the nearest courthouse and you marry that keeper before some other lucky Joe snatches her up.
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I'm still reading over the thread. It's hard enough for me as an observer to keep a straight head and to stay calm when reading shit like this.
I'm not saying guys are saints because we fuck up too, but women are downright fucking evil. You never fuck around the way this whore did. It's unforgivable and I'd say if he were the father, go after full custody and give her nothing more than whatever visitation rights you see fit. She sounds like a royal fuck up. If he's not the father, may God or whatever other deity may be out there watch over this poor kid.
ha you never met my ex. He could mind fuck with the best of them.
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duno how to handle this. Anyone else ever deal with it. Finding out there kid isn't there's.
she didn't tell me. I had to find out. She was still emailing her ex telling him she loves him n always have always will.i knew time frames always didn't match up when she got preganant. Finally I find truth in a secret email.
wtf do I do. Kid is 1 yrs old. After I found out I broke her down she admitted everything. But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave. I'm confused cause she is going crazy trying to make sure I won't leave her. So it seems she does love. Obv she's promising to never talk to him again like before.... I caught her almost 2 yrs ago before emailing n txting him telling him she loves him n still wants to be with him.
so its twice now I been emotionally cheated on n this times even more fucked up.
wtf do I do. I dunom all there's pictures of me holding this kid... Wtf.... She keeps telling me she wants me to be her farther n be with her...
what do I do.
fuck her right off. try and keep a relationship with the little one. there's no way on earth you can stay in a relationship with the mother. she's been playing you for a fool.
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she will never change. if you stay, you are basically giving her permission to continue the things she is doing.
This,this,this....
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If I was gambing my bets would be 2 to 1 that he stays with her. The guy comes off just very clingy and needy. He's spying on her and getting her computer passwords. He thrives on telling his sob story about his gf cheating on him. All of your guys' advice, great advice btw, all in vain. Fucking attention whore reply back when you've dumped the bitch and left her for good.
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If I was gambing my bets would be 2 to 1 that he stays with her. The guy comes off just very clingy and needy. He's spying on her and getting her computer passwords. He thrives on telling his sob story about his gf cheating on him. All of your guys' advice, great advice btw, all in vain. Fucking attention whore reply back when you've dumped the bitch and left her for good.
I don't check her shit that's the problem she gives me her passwords to check but I don't... That's why I checked for about a month. Why do you think my best friend had to find out info from her ex. Cause I don't check anything! She was even tcting him at one point. I don't check shit n that's my problem. If I did wudda knew sooner I obv.
don't wat attention but I do want strength n to keep reading this post all day to get enuff courage. Trust me buddy spend everyday with a newbor for over a yr thinking she's urs n you have pics on ur phone over 1000 of ur family together and on ur house walls. Ur gomma find it hard to leave this baby she didn't do shit (its a shit everyone kept saying he)
not to mention obv my feelings for the gf doesn't go away in a second either.
I've made plans n have a place to go now. Paternity test is otw. By end of week n said 2 days to hear back (a friends gettin it done fast ) n I dumo. Either way I shud leave or the child will be fucked up cuz all she will see is a ery unhappy marriage n fights.
I know I gotta leave. I just gonna read every post every second I have in the day n get it through my head. I don't wana be depressed n unhappy forever. I don't. But I don't wana be a walk out like my farther.
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Haha cant bdlieve what some if u are sayin
a turk would kill that whoreand turkish judge would say nice one brother she does not deserve to live
Remind me, human rights aren't too big over there?
It's not that she is a "whore" per se, but she is playing the cuckhold game---a game in which we as men cannot play...she is hedging her bets on who could best satisfy her own selfish needs and self worth, and using the kid as leverage...
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duno how to handle this. Anyone else ever deal with it. Finding out there kid isn't there's.
she didn't tell me. I had to find out. She was still emailing her ex telling him she loves him n always have always will.i knew time frames always didn't match up when she got preganant. Finally I find truth in a secret email.
wtf do I do. Kid is 1 yrs old. After I found out I broke her down she admitted everything. But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave. I'm confused cause she is going crazy trying to make sure I won't leave her. So it seems she does love. Obv she's promising to never talk to him again like before.... I caught her almost 2 yrs ago before emailing n txting him telling him she loves him n still wants to be with him.
so its twice now I been emotionally cheated on n this times even more fucked up.
wtf do I do. I dunom all there's pictures of me holding this kid... Wtf.... She keeps telling me she wants me to be her farther n be with her...
what do I do.
It's not your kid, it's THEIR kid. They are the only responsible for his existence. You aren't.
What kind of woman does this to a man, to TWO men...to her kid?
Lol dude. Wtf. How in hell do some people find themselves in such situations. Are your parents separated?
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Remind me, human rights aren't too big over there?
It's not that she is a "whore" per se, but she is playing the cuckhold game---a game in which we as men cannot play...she is hedging her bets on who could best satisfy her own selfish needs and self worth, and using the kid as leverage...
Do you know what an honour killing is?
If a muslim girl goes with an unbeliever (a non-muslim) or does not want to marry her designated husband, some muslim families will consider this as bringing great shame to their family and will take upon themselves to kill the girl, to restore the family's "honour"
You want see the little turk talking about this.
You may wonder, how do I know this? Check this out: http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2010/feb/04/girl-buried-alive-turkey
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What kind of woman does this to a man, to TWO men?
The ones that know they can get away with it
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It's not your kid, it's THEIR kid. They are the only responsible for his existence. You aren't.
What kind of woman does this to a man, to TWO men?
Lol dude. Wtf. How in hell do some people find themselves in such situations. Are your parents separated?
Got to agree. The shit that people are willing to put up with is beyond me. It's all about learning to start listening to your head and not making huge decisions on a whim.
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The ones that know they can get away with it
and who dont care about kids, only spawn them for money and enslaving men with emotional attachment. These people dont have emotional attachment themselves, they play with the emotional attachment felt by others and manipulate them to serve their own personal egoistical , immature goals. Basically, predators who prey on weak minded men. Yeah, they exist, women arent angels just because they are women. These monsters have 0 clue of the emotional distress they re causing to others, they re complete sociopaths only caring about themselves. Others only exist to serve them.
I d like to know this evil woman 's background, who led her to behave that way with men and others in general. I wonder what kind of mother, father she had. They obviously created an evil creature.
Also, raising some one else's kid doesnt work (ok maybe one time out of ten, or when it's someone from the same family, grandparents, uncles, etc that raise kid in place of their genetical parents) but a stranger from a different bloodline will never ever love someone else 's kid like it's one of his own bloodline.
You either do kids and stay with the genitor or you dont spawn kid, as simple as that.
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It's not your kid, it's THEIR kid. They are the only responsible for his existence. You aren't.
What kind of woman does this to a man, to TWO men...to her kid?
Lol dude. Wtf. How in hell do some people find themselves in such situations. Are your parents separated?
like I said at first I was cool n collected rdy to leave. But I spent a yr with this kids first yr of life man. Having to litterarly take care of her like a baby obv.. Feed change. Carry her everywhere cuz she can't walk.. Like its def harder I need to leae I know I do
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like I said at first I was cool n collected rdy to leave. But I spent a yr with this kids first yr of life man. Having to litterarly take care of her like a baby obv.. Feed change. Carry her everywhere cuz she can't walk.. Like its def harder I need to leae I know I do
you get given a falsehood and accept it for a year .... when you learn the truth do you keep living with the lie ?
or do you act like you are worthy of more and remove yourself from a situation that is bound to deteriorate ?
The bitch WROTE a letter to the kids father and SAID .. I will ALWAYS love you .. are you so thick to think you matter ?
You're a meal ticket .. and the baby will NEVER remember you if you go now to save your own self respect
but you go ahead and wait .. then when this bitch gets knocked up again you can go through this all over
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like I said at first I was cool n collected rdy to leave. But I spent a yr with this kids first yr of life man. Having to litterarly take care of her like a baby obv.. Feed change. Carry her everywhere cuz she can't walk.. Like its def harder I need to leae I know I do
I understand. But as he will age his father in him will grow more and more and will reject you. It s not your genes. You ll be emotionaly manipulated by every single one of them in the long run.
And with such a duplicitous mother , an ex i bet isnt worth much more than her, the whole thing is a psychodramatic nightmare in the making.
She s the only responsible for all of this. Seriously, how did you manage your life to get owned to that point. What subconscious invisible patterns did you follow to end in such a situation. Are you a bastard child yourself by any chances?
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was to young to kno of this n I guess one big thing I'm takin from this forum is where they come from matters. She was never a slutty girl. Only other guy is her ex her first love n fuck. So obv as a girl she's retarded with that.
but matter of fact her dad wasn't around. Her mother cared more about her bfs than she did her kids n got her kids taken away. Always bf to next bf n didn't want to be alone. N eventually kids my gf was in a foster home. She was never a slut acted dressed etc only one other guy. But obv she is so messed up n doesn't want to be alone same time is so caught up in this whole first love first fuck bullshit n is never gonna let go in her mind.
am I safe to assume that's correct?
and yes my parents were separated n bad parents. But I was always pretty mature. Hence I'm here raising a kid n scared to walk out on it. Never did drugs in my life always been a very calm n colect person.
and who dont care about kids, only spawn them for money and enslaving men with emotional attachment. Basically, predators who prey on weak minded men. Yeah, they exist, women arent angels just because they are women. These monsters have 0 clue of the emotional distress they re causing to others, they re complete sociopaths only caring about themselves.
I d like to know this evil woman 's background, who led her to behave that way with men and others in general. I wonder what kind of mother she had.
Also, raising some one else's kid doesnt work (ok maybe one time out of ten, or when it's someone from the same family, grandparents, uncles, etc that raise kid in place of their genetical parents) but a stranger from a different bloodline will never ever like someone else 's kid like it's one of his own bloodline.
You either do kids and stay with the genitor or you dont spawn kid, as simple as that.
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Now you listen and you listen good.
You run, don't walk, to the nearest courthouse and you marry that keeper before some other lucky Joe snatches her up.
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I understand. But as he will age his father in him will grow more and more and will reject you. It s not your genes.
And with such a duplicitous mother it's a psychodramatic nightmare in the making.
She s the only responsible for all of this. Seriously, how did you manage your life to get owned to that point. What subconscious invisible patterns did you follow to end in such a situation. Are you a bastard child yourself by any chances?
guys the farther has a kid of his own on the way. Lifes close to a country away pretty much. Wants nothig to do with her. This is also why I feel bad for the kid. Its not a pretty situation for her.
I was decived. Told how much I was loved everyday n she did eerything for me.. Do anything. When a girl goes to those limbs you believe her
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I will be reading these alot. I need to look out for myself I kow. I honestly feel like I'm walking out on my ow child tho. It hasn't processed yet she's not my kid. Its hard to think it. I feel horrible thinkin of leaving but I have to for my health
you get given a falsehood and accept it for a year .... when you learn the truth do you keep living with the lie ?
or do you act like you are worthy of more and remove yourself from a situation that is bound to deteriorate ?
The bitch WROTE a letter to the kids father and SAID .. I will ALWAYS love you .. are you so thick to think you matter ?
You're a meal ticket .. and the baby will NEVER remember you if you go now to save your own self respect
but you go ahead and wait .. then when this bitch gets knocked up again you can go through this all over
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What will happen if you leave her?
She ll be forced to get back with the real father. Or she ll be a single mom looking for several other weak minded gullible men to backstab, one after another, all before the eyes of her own kid. I have no doubt the real father must be an utter loser himself. Quite the genes this poor creature inherited.
It's still preferable tho for the kid, as cruel as it sounds, than anything else.
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Leave now and don't look back and you will save a lot of money, time and lawyers fees for domestic violence down the road.
this is actually spot on....this AIN"T gonna get any better...take a manageable hit now...then a life crushing one later..walk away
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for people who didt see this n wonder why I'm scared to leave.
kids farther has a kid of his ow on the way n a soon to be wife. They live opposite side of the country! N he wants othing to do with the kid or her. The kid has no farther. Not that its my problem anymore. But my mind hasn't processed she's not mine I feel yet n I feel like she is. N I feel like I'm leaving my kid ... I feel horrible.
but I know I need to keep my own mental health here n let her find a new dad.
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for people who didt see this n wonder why I'm scared to leave.
kids farther has a kid of his ow on the way n a soon to be wife. They live opposite side of the country! N he wants othing to do with the kid or her. The kid has no farther. Not that its my problem anymore. But my mind hasn't processed she's not mine I feel yet n I feel like she is. N I feel like I'm leaving my kid ... I feel horrible.
but I know I need to keep my own mental health here n let her find a new dad.
Dude,you are co-dependant,I used to be the same way too,but my motto these days is
"Don`t let the door hit ya` where the good lord split ya"!!
Do yourself a favor and leave,if you have nothing else going for you,and are miserable in your relationship,you`re fucked.
You only get one life,there is no dress rehearsal,this is it............are you happy?
If not at least remotely content in life,leave now and start over and save yourself some future pain with this broad because that`s all you`re gonna` get!!
Good luck in whatever you decide to do,but think hard about your happiness first of all.
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for people who didt see this n wonder why I'm scared to leave.
kids farther has a kid of his ow on the way n a soon to be wife. They live opposite side of the country! N he wants othing to do with the kid or her. The kid has no farther. Not that its my problem anymore. But my mind hasn't processed she's not mine I feel yet n I feel like she is. N I feel like I'm leaving my kid ... I feel horrible.
but I know I need to keep my own mental health here n let her find a new dad.
It's a tough spot indeed...but the only reason you feel this way is because you were lied to from day one about the kid. Fact is that kid's life will probably be unstable whether you are involved or nor...the real father is going to "want his child" eventually..even though it's bullshit posturing. it will still cause you major problems..the mother is going to want to "put the family back together' and kick your ass to the curb...only to take you back a while later.
This IS how it's going to go.....You really want to be a part of this shit?..... you can just LEAVE
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for people who didt see this n wonder why I'm scared to leave.
kids farther has a kid of his ow on the way n a soon to be wife. They live opposite side of the country! N he wants othing to do with the kid or her. The kid has no farther. Not that its my problem anymore. But my mind hasn't processed she's not mine I feel yet n I feel like she is. N I feel like I'm leaving my kid ... I feel horrible.
but I know I need to keep my own mental health here n let her find a new dad.
You're a good person for feeling the way you're feeling. But remember, feelings aren't cognition. It's an immediate reaction to a situation or event. Don't act on your feelings, act on rational thoughts.
This bitch is crazy. And as painful and emotional as it is you need to look out for yourself first and foremost. You need to get out of there while you can. The longer you stew in this bullshit, the harder it'll be. It sounds cold, but you just need to think about yourself and fuck off before she allows more damage to be done. She's exploited you and she's keeping you around for the free ride.
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for people who didt see this n wonder why I'm scared to leave.
kids farther has a kid of his ow on the way n a soon to be wife. They live opposite side of the country! N he wants othing to do with the kid or her. The kid has no farther. Not that its my problem anymore. But my mind hasn't processed she's not mine I feel yet n I feel like she is. N I feel like I'm leaving my kid ... I feel horrible.
but I know I need to keep my own mental health here n let her find a new dad.
Kid's father who abandonned him and her to start a new family with another woman and getting her pregnant is the asshole in this story, not you.
I guess he wasnt even present at birth, wasnt even present for the first year... I guess his own father might have abandonned him and his mother some decades ago and he s just walking in his step reproducing the whole scenario once more subconsciously...
Anyway. The woman you ve been with chose you to support her and the kid she got with someone else. But she doesnt love you, she will never ever love another man the way she love the father of her kid. This is a fact. You can either accept it, and why not give her another kid while raising this other asshole 's kid at the same time. It's a potential option.
Or you can free yourself from all of this. It's "funny" to think you care more about this kid than his own father.
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GET A DNA test FFS. Think about everything else after. You need 100 percent certain (well tests are never 100 percent).
Lets play a scenerio.
She said the child isn't yours. She told the ex it was. Not so long in the near distant future, he sees she's emailing/texting someone else. The ex gets the DNA test and he's proved not to be. She comes banging on your door for a test, you do it and it's your child. Hello back child support.
Get the test now, if not yours get your name removed from birth certificate. If you want to be in the childs life, that's your decision but you have no legal ties to child.
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You're a good person for feeling the way you're feeling. But remember, feelings aren't cognition. It's an immediate reaction to a situation or event. Don't act on your feelings, act on rational thoughts.
This bitch is crazy. And as painful and emotional as it is you need to look out for yourself first and foremost. You need to get out of there while you can. The longer you stew in this bullshit, the harder it'll be. It sounds cold, but you just need to think about yourself and fuck off before she allows more damage to be done. She's exploited you and she's keeping you around for the free ride.
He can, potentially, raise this kid and stay with the mother, if she entirely submit herself to him, and give her another kid, build a family, if they both follow a superior form of guidance that will unite them thru their future existence.
As i said it, only very rarely do bastards child get as much love from a father of a different bloodline as they would from their real genitor. But, it sometimes happens . In the majority of the cases, it doesnt, especially nowadays.
There are potential odds it might all turn out positively. Fact is it all lies in the OP and the woman's hands.
And in a couple a man has to lead the woman, especially such a duplicitous, troubled, unstable woman with a fucking leash.
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ya I'm leaving it settled. I hate one post out of 50 someone says work it out n It changes my mind. No I have to leave n will for sure to many good post in this page. Its gonna be tough not seeing kid I thought was mine every morning man.. But fuck I need my own family one day n a wife that'll love me truly.
Kid's father who abandonned him and her to start a new family with another woman and getting her pregnant he s the asshole in this story, not you.
I guess he wasnt even present at birth, wasnt even present for the first year... I guess his own father might have abandonned him and his mother some decades ago and he s just walking in his step reproducing the whole scenario once more subconsciously...
Anyway. The woman you ve been with chose you to support her and the kid she got with someone else. But she doesnt love you, she will never ever love another man the way she love the father of her kid, this is a fact. This is a fact. You can either accept it, and why not give her another kid while raising this other asshole 's kid at the same time. It's a potential option.
Or you can free yourself from all of this. It's "funny" to think you care more about this kid than his own father.
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Get yourself some good legal advice and like others have said, try and lock down your assets.
Same thing happened to a friend of mine (except his wife was cheating on him with her ex), same thing - broke down, confessed everlasting undying love, I'm an idiot, please forgive me it was just a horrible mistake, my life is yours etc etc etc.
My mate loved her, thought their 5 year old was his - he was torn up but he gave her another chance.
8 months later another friend give him the heads up that his wifes car was parked outside her ex's house all day. Another confontation, more tears, more confessions more forgiveness - seriously - my friend wanted the fairy tale and was willing to give anything for it.
Fast forward another 5 months, same thing but this time finally he says enough is enough. The little boy is now 6, has had his first day at school, it was just a horrible situation. The wife saw him as a provider sure, but nothing else. I don't know what the hell is wrong with some people. He's now a broken man, has started drinking, isn't working anymore and I worry for his future.
Don't let this happen to you bro. Do something now, but your girl, she had her chance. Don't reinforce her behaviour by telling her it's all ok and you'll let it slide. It won't stop.
This kind of woman should be in jail.
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Just a question tho. You told us you thought kid wasnt yours from the beginning.
But are you being honnest here?
I dont know, maybe you knew kid wasnt yours from the beginning, told her you would stay with her for ever, would raise it as if he would be your own kid...and finally changed your mind... and are actually bullshiting us?
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ya I'm leaving it settled. I hate one post out of 50 someone says work it out n It changes my mind. No I have to leave n will for sure to many good post in this page. Its gonna be tough not seeing kid I thought was mine every morning man.. But fuck I need my own family one day n a wife that'll love me truly.
Are you going to hit it one more time before you leave ???
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wes grionk dustin. Rly good replys this page n I am leaving for sure. nthee can't be any debates I know this ill only hate her for rest of time I'm with her n b miserable my whole life just cause of someone elses mistake. I'd rather send the kid money cause I duno. Feel like a asshole since she still feels like mine.
but have to realize she's not is all. Regardless if I help the kid for abit but I can't be here or near the mother. Ill let you all know what happens.
just to be safe will have a test by end of week n 2 days once I get it to find results apparently. If it is mine I'm leaving regardless I know I have to. Only thing I can do if its mine is offer the kid to live with me when its older n hopfully give her some morals in life n be a good person.
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that is the right thing to do isn't it. I know it is fo my mental health. Its just super hard this happene today. So all I can think of is past yr with this fuckin kid. All the pictures all over the house of us my phone full of pics man. Like wtf. How ca wome do this. I am so totally lifeless. Heart broken bout this kid I thought was mine n heart broken reading a email of how madly in love she was with her ex n how he was her one n true only love.
if this story is legit i feel bad for you man, very sad story.
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ya I'm leaving it settled. I hate one post out of 50 someone says work it out n It changes my mind. No I have to leave n will for sure to many good post in this page. Its gonna be tough not seeing kid I thought was mine every morning man.. But fuck I need my own family one day n a wife that'll love me truly.
Exactly man, you deserve better than that tramp
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wes grionk dustin. Rly good replys this page n I am leaving for sure. nthee can't be any debates I know this ill only hate her for rest of time I'm with her n b miserable my whole life just cause of someone elses mistake. I'd rather send the kid money cause I duno. Feel like a asshole since she still feels like mine.
but have to realize she's not is all. Regardless if I help the kid for abit but I can't be here or near the mother. Ill let you all know what happens.
just to be safe will have a test by end of week n 2 days once I get it to find results apparently. If it is mine I'm leaving regardless I know I have to. Only thing I can do if its mine is offer the kid to live with me when its older n hopfully give her some morals in life n be a good person.
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You re becoming less and less convincing ...
If it's yours, you stay with her/him and keep raising him while keeping her on check you worthless piece of shit. You have no excuses to leave if its yours.
What kind of fucked liar are you yourself? Considering you come from a dysfunctional family yourself, and that your own father might have abandonned you, you re clearely conditionned to reproduce this behavior, and it looks like it's just what you re potentially attempting to do, while bullshiting us and even yourself.
Frigging mental cases i swear.
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just to be safe will have a test by end of week n 2 days once I get it to find results apparently. If it is mine I'm leaving regardless I know I have to. Only thing I can do if its mine is offer the kid to live with me when its older n hopfully give her some morals in life n be a good person.
Very good. You can still be in childs life if your the father and end any relationship with the mother. If the child is yours and you two are not together, you may have rough patches, but listen to me, keep it civil for the sake of the child. Why wait till the child is older? She isn't of sound mind, IMO, so learning years are when they are young.
If the child is yours, you can file for sole and/or joint physical custody.
I STRONGLEY encourage you to petition the court to have your name taken off the Birth Certificate if your not the father.
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wes grionk dustin. Rly good replys this page n I am leaving for sure. nthee can't be any debates I know this ill only hate her for rest of time I'm with her n b miserable my whole life just cause of someone elses mistake. I'd rather send the kid money cause I duno. Feel like a asshole since she still feels like mine.
but have to realize she's not is all. Regardless if I help the kid for abit but I can't be here or near the mother. Ill let you all know what happens.
just to be safe will have a test by end of week n 2 days once I get it to find results apparently. If it is mine I'm leaving regardless I know I have to. Only thing I can do if its mine is offer the kid to live with me when its older n hopfully give her some morals in life n be a good person.
Good luck and be strong....know in your heart that you are doing the best thing for yourself.
Always remember one thing when a woman fucks you over and you`re torn between staying and leaving:
You came in to this world alone,and you go out alone........be happy with the time in between because this is all there is.
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You re becoming less and less convincing ...
If it's yours, you stay with her/him and keep raising him while keeping her on check you worthless piece of shit. You have no excuses to leave if its yours.
What kind of fucked liar are you yourself? Considering you come from a dysfunctional family yourself, and that your own father might have abandonned you, you re clearely conditionned to reproduce this behavior, and it looks like it's just what you re potentially attempting to do, while bullshiting us and even yourself.
Frigging mental cases i swear.
Try fucking off asshat!!
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Good luck and be strong....know in your heart that you are doing the best thing for yourself.
Always remember one thing when a woman fucks you over and you`re torn between staying and leaving:
You came in to this world alone,and you go out alone........be happy with the time in between because this is all there is.
You dont come in this world alone, you come from the love of two humans who are suposed to surround you with love, hope (faith) all life long. And you re supposed to go surrounded by the love of a happy family you contributed to build when you die. If you treated your loved ones like shit then yeah, chances are high you ll end alone.
You came to the conclusion like many others, that we come and go alone, because you come from a dynsfunctional family who never taught you love, hope and where everyone betrayed each others. Just like many in your case, the only coping strategy to survive you developed over time was to focus solely on yourself. And will die... alone as a result.
And you re entirely missing the point of life, as most atheists do.
Proof being old doesnt equate being wise.
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A lot of people don't understand the woman's behavior, it's not weird to me that she did this, it's weird to me that people don't understand to be honest
If you want to get to the heart of woman, what makes them different than men, it's their power hunger. Sexy women wake up to power hunger much earlier than men do because as cute little girls they command power already, they go please daddy please please can i have a pony ;D, they turn parents against each other with their affection, they already begin to undersatnd the value of deception. By the tiem they are 12-13 they are already getting gawked at by men, they go to their friends house and they get all the attention while their brother just stands there, then by 14-15 they get looked at sexually, men make eye contact with them because htey can help it. Ever notice how some women's gazes can give u an instant boner? U don't think this happens to women too? Of course it does, women spend all morning in front of the mirror then go in the street and their mood depends on whether they get eye fucked walking down the street, it wakes up their clitoris and theyre horny all day.
A woman's ability to fool a man means power to her, she keeps one man next to her in bed and she sleeps in the comfort of owning him with a web of lies, she keeps anothe rman somwhere else with the comfort of owning him becase she has his kid... u gotta understand that to women everything has a secret value called leverage, a kid is leverage, a wedding ring is leverage, her beauty if leverage. And finally the extent to which they allow themselves to be power hungry is determined by how wel they can hide that power hunger. When you get interveiwed, do u tell the guy one day u hope to be his boss? no no, u gotta play the game, u gotta hide ur ambition to some extent, that is what women do with their innocent angel eyes and their little smiles and their innocent act.
That's why she sent the man emails about how she love dhim then turned around and told u she really loves you, OP, because she is a little emperess about to lose her empire, she keeps it together with a web of lies.
And the question of how can she do this to her child, how could she not? Child = leverage to women, to men child = angel because men are stupid and honest and when women say thsi child is an angel they believe the women like idiots, but to women child = leverage and the more value this child has the more leverage she has, that's why they make men worship children.
OP, you got yourself into this situation by being weak before. I don;t mean that as an insult, i mean that you let your woman control you, you were not strong enough to look at her affection and love and say no, this is a weakness. You letting this kid own real estate in ur mind, you letting this kid get in the way of you leaving this wman is another similar weakness. Be strong now and get what's yours, leave her with whatever u feel she should have, then go somewhere else and start ur own little family and this time be fucking strong and start setting bounderies for women and not lettign them own ur heart
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Try fucking off asshat!!
it wouldnt surprise me if you ruined a family or two yourself, based on your comments on these questions on here.
You sound like the pefect example of a man in his 50s who focused his whole life on his little muscles and ego, ruined a family, and is trying to fit with the young boys on the internet cause nobody cares about him in real life anymore as he burnt all the bridges with his family members in the past.
Basically a bad man, a loser, pretending to be a wise old man - on the internet-, like there are many nowadays.
But i guess you simply reproduced what your own father did to you, without having a clue about what you were doing before figuring it out once it was alrdy too late.
Animals abandon their offsprings, not humans. Humans who do, arent humans, and they reap what they sow, spawn even more misery on earth until their lineage get swept ultimately by the consequences of their own acts reported from one generation to another.
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You dont come in this world alone, you come from the love of two humans who are suposed to surround you with love, hope (faith) all life long. And you re supposed to go surrounded by the love of a happy family you contributed to build when you die.
You came to the conclusion like many others, that we come and go alone, because you come from a dynsfunctional family who never taught you love, hope and where everyone betrayed each others. Just like many in your case, the only coping strategy to survive you developed over time was to focus solely on yourself. And will die... alone as a result.
And you re entirely missing the point, as the atheist you are.
Proof being old doesnt equate being wise.
You`re living proof that being an asshole never goes out of style for assholes.
In fact you seem to have cornered the market on assholism.
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was to young to kno of this n I guess one big thing I'm takin from this forum is where they come from matters. She was never a slutty girl. Only other guy is her ex her first love n fuck. So obv as a girl she's retarded with that.
but matter of fact her dad wasn't around. Her mother cared more about her bfs than she did her kids n got her kids taken away. Always bf to next bf n didn't want to be alone. N eventually kids my gf was in a foster home. She was never a slut acted dressed etc only one other guy. But obv she is so messed up n doesn't want to be alone same time is so caught up in this whole first love first fuck bullshit n is never gonna let go in her mind.
am I safe to assume that's correct?
and yes my parents were separated n bad parents. But I was always pretty mature. Hence I'm here raising a kid n scared to walk out on it. Never did drugs in my life always been a very calm n colect person.
so now you know this kid isn't yours but u still don't understand that everything she told you was a lie, that includes her sexual past and everything else, find some strength for once
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Just a question tho. You told us you thought kid was yours from the beginning.
But are you being honnest here?
I dont know, maybe you knew kid wasnt yours from the beginning, told her you would stay with her for ever, would raise it as if he would be your own kid...and finally changed your mind... and are actually bullshiting us?
lol.... No even gonna ask why ur asking this. I'm very jealous guy if I knew she was preg by aother guy no way...
I was with lotsa girls before n never got em preg. She got preg yes I was super suspicous... Why? Cuz I was o juice n never had a scare before... Was super sucipoius....... But I believed it was mine after time she always said no doubt its mine..
truat me I wudnt be attached to this kod n brag to everyone how good looking baby I made n how gorgeous n she's what I made. Cuz now I feel like a complete fuckin fool trust me
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lol.... No even gonna ask why ur asking this. I'm very jealous guy if I knew she was preg by aother guy no way...
I was with lotsa girls before n never got em preg. She got preg yes I was super suspicous... Why? Cuz I was o juice n never had a scare before... Was super sucipoius....... But I believed it was mine after time she always said no doubt its mine..
truat me I wudnt be attached to this kod n brag to everyone how good looking baby I made n how gorgeous n she's what I made. Cuz now I feel like a complete fuckin fool trust me
if there's no doubt it's yours why is she saying there's no doubt it's yours? You said earlier the timing was suspicious
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So what you're saying is that you suspected it couldn't be yours because when you were fucking her you were on the juice which made you think you were near-impotent?
Matey... do as runningmom says. Get a paternity test immediately.
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if there's no doubt it's yours why is she saying there's no doubt it's yours? You said earlier the timing was suspicious
I tell you, this guy will turn out to be just another asshole who s trying to convince himself and others that it's right to abandon his own kid. Walking in the steps of his own father who abandonned him when he was a kid.
If it's his kid, it's his kid, period. Why leave her and the kid? Because of what he told us about the letter she wrote to that ex ? It makes less and less sense as the thread goes. If it's your kid man the fuck up, raise him and keep your bitch in check and make her love you.
Is there a need to read the thread's title again;
Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
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srsly fuck off man here.
password billetlog that's his email he gave my best friend his email n password. sthe emails were sent in october first email.. He said he doesn't check his email n obv seen it replied than she replied 2 days ago!!!! This is when I found out yesterday tho. Read the fuckin email look at the dates. If you read ur girl saying that shit ud be heart broken to.
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You re becoming less and less convincing ...
If it's yours, you stay with her/him and keep raising him while keeping her on check you worthless piece of shit. You have no excuses to leave if its yours.
What kind of fucked liar are you yourself? Considering you come from a dysfunctional family yourself, and that your own father might have abandonned you, you re clearely conditionned to reproduce this behavior, and it looks like it's just what you re potentially attempting to do, while bullshiting us and even yourself.
Frigging mental cases i swear.
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Don't sweat uberman's rants. Just take care of yourself and do something to occupy your mind in the meanwhile. Hit the gym or do whatever else makes you happy. If you're feeling a bit depressed then maybe do something you normally wouldn't do. Whatever keeps your mind busy.
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lol.... No even gonna ask why ur asking this. I'm very jealous guy if I knew she was preg by aother guy no way...
I was with lotsa girls before n never got em preg. She got preg yes I was super suspicous... Why? Cuz I was o juice n never had a scare before... Was super sucipoius....... But I believed it was mine after time she always said no doubt its mine..
truat me I wudnt be attached to this kod n brag to everyone how good looking baby I made n how gorgeous n she's what I made. Cuz now I feel like a complete fuckin fool trust me
I was told kids probably weren't possible. Nugget was conceived at nationals and he was on so much gear so that throws the theory out the window. Like I said before, I doubt she knows for sure who the child's father is.
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it wouldnt surprise me if you ruined a family or two yourself, based on your comments on these questions on here.
You sound like the pefect example of a man in his 50s who focused his whole life on his little muscles and ego, ruined a family, and is trying to fit with the young boys on the internet cause nobody cares about him in real life anymore as he burnt all the bridges with his family members in the past.
Basically a bad man, a loser, pretending to be a wise old man - on the internet-, like there are many nowadays.
But i guess you simply reproduced what your own father did to you, without having a clue about what you were doing before figuring it out once it was alrdy too late.
Animals abandon their offsprings, not humans. Humans who do, arent humans, and they reap what they sow.
Brutal assumptions !! LOL ;D
I love how you make up your own scenarios about people when you have no clue what said person is even like in real life.
Sigmund Freud you ain`t ! :)
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I could be wrong, but now I'm starting to think we're feeding a troll
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I tell you, this guy will turn out to be just another asshole who s trying to convince himself and others that it's right to abandon his own kid. Walking in the steps of his own father who abandonned him when he was a kid.
If it's his kid, it's his kid, period. Why leave her and the kid? Because of what he told us about the letter she wrote to that ex ? It makes less and less sense as the thread goes. If it's your kid man the fuck up, raise him and keep your bitch in check and make her love you.
bro she's cheated twice and I'm still in this fuckin place with her with the kid. You don't kno how many hear breakin emails I've read of her not loving me n she only ever has loved him n only ever will and I'm a mistake.. Read it yesterday and 2 yrs ago same shit same guy.
I deserve to be unhappy forever with a whore who doesn't love her husband n make a kid see a unhealthly relationship? Hows that fair... If I was heartless I wudda left. I'm still here.
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I could be wrong, but now I'm starting to think we're feeding a troll
log on his email. Read the dates urself. Ill video tape the whore calling herself a cheater n that getbig thinks she's wrthless to if you want
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bro she's cheated twice and I'm still in this fuckin place with her with the kid. You don't kno how many hear breakin emails I've read of her not loving me n she only ever has loved him n only ever will and I'm a mistake.. Read it yesterday and 2 yrs ago same shit same guy.
I deserve to be unhappy forever with a whore who doesn't love her husband n make a kid see a unhealthly relationship? Hows that fair... If I was heartless I wudda left. I'm still here.
Exactly what i said. Now you turned the whole thread into "kid is mine, woman cheated on me twice, i want to abandon both of them, oh by the way, i come from a dysfunctionnal family and my own father abandonned me when i was a kid".
What's next? You ll tell us you re the one who actually cheated on her and that she didnt really cheat on you?
Oh man.
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bro she's cheated twice and I'm still in this fuckin place with her with the kid. You don't kno how many hear breakin emails I've read of her not loving me n she only ever has loved him n only ever will and I'm a mistake.. Read it yesterday and 2 yrs ago same shit same guy.
I deserve to be unhappy forever with a whore who doesn't love her husband n make a kid see a unhealthly relationship? Hows that fair... If I was heartless I wudda left. I'm still here.
You need to just walk away. Time will heal your wounds. To be honest , you need to move away and start over, new city, new job, new life. There are 4 billion women in this world. I'm sure you can find another that will make you happy.
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uberman and raymond u guys gotta understand it's a sensitive situation, he doesnt need u questioning him, he had a suspicion this kid isn't his and now his nightmare came true, he needs to find strength right now not get beaten up.
Make up for your past mistakes by being strong in the future, if the kid is yours and u want it, try to get custody and leave her to herself, steal away with the kid and start another life somewhere else with it and make sure to instil in the kid loyalty to you
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Exactly what i said. Now you turned the whole thread into "kid is mine, woman cheated on me twice, i want to abandon both of them, oh by the way, i come from a dysfunctionnal family and my own father abandonned me when i was a kid".
What's next? You ll tell us you re the one who actually cheated on her and that she didnt really cheat on you?
Oh man.
bro I find out one day ago a kid is not mine. Obviously I'm still caling the kid mine by fuckin habbit. You don't stop lovin ur fuckin kid in one day after you loved it for a yr. It'll take time to let go.
I posted the email but it didn't show up must be blocked. Pm me for his email n password . The emails were sent over amonth ago n one 2 days ago. Read all the shit she's said... Not trolling anyone n I can prove anything easily...
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Oh christ ...now apply85 is weighing in with his views on women too, as well as Uberman's "wisdom" ::)....another monstrous clusterfuck of the virgins leading the blind here on getbig :D
and yeah.....I'm thinking the OP is full of shit at this point too
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log on his email. Read the dates urself. Ill video tape the whore calling herself a cheater n that getbig thinks she's wrthless to if you want
I'm good, I thank you though.
Just see if the child is yours. If she is, file to get the child NOW. If not, get your damn name off the certificate.
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What a fucking whore bro.
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and yeah.....I'm thinking the OP is full of shit at this point too
cute again eh? :D
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uberman and raymond u guys gotta understand it's a sensitive situation, he doesnt need u questioning him, he had a suspicion this kid isn't his and now his nightmare came true, he needs to find strength right now not get beaten up.
Make up for your past mistakes by being strong in the future, if the kid is yours and u want it, try to get custody and leave her to herself, steal away with the kid and start another life somewhere else with it and make sure to instil in the kid loyalty to you
thanks man. No idea why I'm being fuckin questioed.
ill take a vid n upload it. Showing a women feeling like complete shit n admiting she's a bitch and make her saygetbig.com if uwant lol
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I'm not beating on anyone, mate. In fact, I spent twenty minutes to make one of the very few constructive posts here when everyone else is just parroting the same old cliches.
I think the OP's mind is in significant turmoil and there's some confusion and some contradictions, I'm sure as days go by things will become clearer in his head.
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nah just post nakey pics of her
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Oh christ ...now apply85 is weighing in with his views on women too, as well as Uberman's "wisdom" ::)....another monstrous clusterfuck of the virgins leading the blind here on getbig :D
and yeah.....I'm thinking the OP is full of shit at this point too
Groink,
I don't know if you were CC'd on the memo but everyone on this forum is a expert in Psychoanalysis and contributing Political Analysts for both the New York Times and the Washington Post.
Btw, Derek Anthony is a nominee to be Poet Laureate for the US
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uberman and raymond u guys gotta understand it's a sensitive situation, he doesnt need u questioning him, he had a suspicion this kid isn't his and now his nightmare came true, he needs to find strength right now not get beaten up.
Make up for your past mistakes by being strong in the future, if the kid is yours and u want it, try to get custody and leave her to herself, steal away with the kid and start another life somewhere else with it and make sure to instil in the kid loyalty to you
No.
Kid needs both mother and father for a full psychological and physical development. But he needs them to better themselves while staying together. And this moron needs to man up. The way he bullshited us from the beginning to the end of this now 7 pages thread says a lot about the true nature of his character. It might turn out dude is just a scared immature young father of a one year kid who s lying to people to justify his desire to abandon them both. Also i wont even mention the fact he's attempting to find advises on a fucking bodybuilding related internet messageboard.
Still, it would be good news to hear that it's just a case of a little immature kid who never had a father figure, who s scared to man up, instead of the original story he told us was the truth. He would just have to man up and find guidance and with hard work he would be able to grow up and build a happy family where everyone is working on his weaknesses with the help of others, while bettering their strenghts in the interest of the whole society and mankind ultimately.
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I'm not beating on anyone, mate. In fact, I spent twenty minutes to make one of the very few constructive posts here when everyone else is just parroting the same old cliches.
I think the OP's mind is in significant turmoil and there's some confusion and some contradictions, I'm sure as days go by things will become clearer in his head.
if this is true, I agree it is. We're trying to give him solid advice. I been through family court, I worked briefly in a family law office. I'm trying here.
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Oh christ ...now apply85 is weighing in with his views on women too, as well as Uberman's "wisdom" ::)....another monstrous clusterfuck of the virgins leading the blind here on getbig :D
and yeah.....I'm thinking the OP is full of shit at this point too
lol, exactly.
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Uberman loves this thread, lol. Posts added to the uberman bible index.
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Uberman loves this thread, lol. Posts added to the uberman bible index.
No.
Kid needs both mother and father. But he needs them to better themselves while staying together. And this moron needs to man up. The way he bullshited us from the beginning to the end of this 4 pages thread says a lot about the true nature of his character. It might turn out dude is just a scared father of a one year kid who s lying to people to justify his desire to abandon them both. Also i wont even mention the fact he's attempting to find advises on a fucking bodybuilding related internet messageboard.
Still, it would be good news to hear that it's just a case of a little immature kid who never had a father figure, who s scared to man up, instead of the original story he told us was the truth. He would just have to man up and find guidance and with hard work he would be able to grow up and build a happy family where everyone is working on his weaknesses with the help of others, while bettering their strenghts in the interest of the whole society and mankind ultimately.
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Oh christ ...now apply85 is weighing in with his views on women too, as well as Uberman's "wisdom" ::)....another monstrous clusterfuck of the virgins leading the blind here on getbig :D
and yeah.....I'm thinking the OP is full of shit at this point too
You are in your 40s,
abandonned a depressed woman and the daughter you had with her
to settle with another woman because she looked better physically... and who happened to also have a daughter with another man which would be a reassuring pattern you followed subconsciously...,
you re bragging about steroid use while being in your 40s...,
Please, seriously.
So many so called adult losers on here who are giving advises to young people without father figures themselves... This is sad. Advises that can be summed by "Huh, dude, fuck this shit! focus on yourself! Be happy! inject roids! life is short! we come alone, we go alone! just do like i did! i went thru that before!".
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do you want the exs email to see the dates of the emails n what they said.
do you want a video of the whore admiting she's a lying cheater n fucked up this family n she lied n always tolf me I was the farther. Cause right now I can easily have her do whatever I want..
would you stay with a women whos real feelings n telling her ex is ur a mistake. She only ever loved her ex not you. She wants to be with her ex not you.... N will only ever love her ex not her mistake.... So that's a happy family?
No.
Kid needs both mother and father for a full psychological and physical development. But he needs them to better themselves while staying together. And this moron needs to man up. The way he bullshited us from the beginning to the end of this now 7 pages thread says a lot about the true nature of his character. It might turn out dude is just a scared immature young father of a one year kid who s lying to people to justify his desire to abandon them both. Also i wont even mention the fact he's attempting to find advises on a fucking bodybuilding related internet messageboard.
Still, it would be good news to hear that it's just a case of a little immature kid who never had a father figure, who s scared to man up, instead of the original story he told us was the truth. He would just have to man up and find guidance and with hard work he would be able to grow up and build a happy family where everyone is working on his weaknesses with the help of others, while bettering their strenghts in the interest of the whole society and mankind ultimately.
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I'll say this to the guy who runs the "uberman" gimmick: that is one hard gimmick to run
It's like, when I did Rickson Gracie, it was me just talking like my dad or one of my uncles would talk
but the dude who runs uberman types alot of stuff and has to copy and paste alot of shit as well.
seriously, kudos- that is a really labor intensive gimmick
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do you want the exs email to see the dates of the emails n what they said.
do you want a video of the whore admiting she's a lying cheater n fucked up this family n she lied n always tolf me I was the farther. Cause right now I can easily have her do whatever I want..
would you stay with a women whos real feelings n telling her ex is ur a mistake. She only ever loved her ex not you. She wants to be with her ex not you.... N will only ever love her ex not her mistake.... So that's a happy family?
UMMMMMMMMM HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO you made a clear point. SHE WILL SAY WHATEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had someone I loved many years tell me he never loved me, cut my heart in half. Time heals wounds
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I'll say this to the guy who runs the "uberman" gimmick: that is one hard gimmick to run
It's like, when I did Rickson Gracie, it was me just talking like my dad or one of my uncles would talk
but the dude who runs uberman types alot of stuff and has to copy and paste alot of shit as well.
seriously, kudos- that is a really labor intensive gimmick
PIP Rickson, we all knew it was you. It was a great change. OMG make sex with the ..... LMAO
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UMMMMMMMMM HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO you made a clear point. SHE WILL SAY WHATEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had someone I loved many years tell me he never loved me, cut my heart in half. Time heals wounds
sorry to hear that, seriously.
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kids get abandoned, it's how it works sometimes, the guys who get the most righteous about that shit are usually the ones who abandon families when it suits them
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do you want the exs email to see the dates of the emails n what they said.
do you want a video of the whore admiting she's a lying cheater n fucked up this family n she lied n always tolf me I was the farther. Cause right now I can easily have her do whatever I want..
would you stay with a women whos real feelings n telling her ex is ur a mistake. She only ever loved her ex not you. She wants to be with her ex not you.... N will only ever love her ex not her mistake.... So that's a happy family?
Calm down, mate. You have nothing to prove here, don't film your girlfriend, don't do anything impulsive.
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ive read some good advice here, about how you should tie the loose ends up and get out. i can only wonder why this guy hasnt taken the advice. if he stays in this, its only going to get worse.
you have to leave now, the child doesnt know you, once you leave she will go back to the ex. guaranteed. he will take care of the child, as he is legally obligated to even if he is now married himself with other kids, he has to deal with it. not you!. so stop making yourself feel like your screwing the kid if you leave. its not yours. for your future sanity, get out now.
but then i read your statement about you can have her do anything you want, cause you have her where you want her right now. i think your powertripping over that right now, and using that as a excuse to stay with her and that wont last long.. your just as fucked up as her, if you stay. cause once you do, your in the back seat again. where you always have been with her.
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sorry to hear that, seriously.
quick, someone post uberman bible index. Thanks though. It's cool. I can say this, I'm a better person for going through that turmoil. Gave me strength and confidence.
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LOL @ "we all knew it was you"
when did you exactly know it was me? When I would go on this forum and openly state that I ran Rickson or that other time when I was on here and would openly state I was RIckson?
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I'll say this to the guy who runs the "uberman" gimmick: that is one hard gimmick to run
It's like, when I did Rickson Gracie, it was me just talking like my dad or one of my uncles would talk
but the dude who runs uberman types alot of stuff and has to copy and paste alot of shit as well.
seriously, kudos- that is a really labor intensive gimmick
Or maybe im just a student in psychology who s into lifting weights and who come from a dysfunctionnal family himself?
Also freudian psychanalysis only represents 10% of what i ve studied so far. You should take a look at psychogenealogy, schema therapy among others things. Philosophy, History, anthropology, ethology and biology too, while you re at it.
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You are in your 40s,
abandonned a depressed woman and the daughter you had with her
to settle with another woman because she looked better physically... and who happened to also have a daughter with another man which would be a reassuring pattern you followed subconsciously...,
you re bragging about steroid use while being in your 40s...,
Please, seriously.
So many so called adult losers on here who are giving advises to young people without father figures themselves... This is sad. Advises that can be summed by "Huh, dude, fuck this shit! focus on yourself! Be happy! inject roids! life is short! we come alone, we go alone! just do like i did! i went thru that before!".
You sir are a complete and total fucking idiotic asshole who has probably never been near a woman other than your own mother.
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well this is real.. And I can prove it in a million ways.
and all I rly want here is to read the post first few pages to give me strength to realize this girl will never love me n I stop being so weak.
not a arugment on if this is real or not... What bullshit.
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Or maybe im just a student in psychology who s into lifting weights and who come from a dysfunctionnal family himself?
Also freudian psychanalysis only represents 10% of what i ve studied so far. You should take a look at psychogenealogy, schema therapy among others things.
so, you're not a gimmick?
sure ......and Derek Anthony got AIDS from eating pussy
::)
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LOL @ "we all knew it was you"
when did you exactly know it was me? When I would go on this forum and openly state that I ran Rickson or that other time when I was on here and would openly state I was RIckson?
chaos said so LOL.
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chaos said so LOL.
pw3nd
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figures nder would chime in like fooker
so, you're not a gimmick?
sure ......and Derek Anthony got AIDS from eating pussy
::)
legit LOL
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Or maybe im just a student in psychology who s into lifting weights and who come from a dysfunctionnal family himself?
Also freudian psychanalysis only represents 10% of what i ve studied so far. You should take a look at psychogenealogy, schema therapy among others things.
how much credit do your professors take off for all of your misspellings and punctuation errors on papers?
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so, you're not a gimmick?
sure ......and Derek Anthony got AIDS from eating pussy
::)
LOL ;D
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well this is real.. And I can prove it in a million ways.
and all I rly want here is to read the post first few pages to give me strength to realize this girl will never love me n I stop being so weak.
not a arugment on if this is real or not... What bullshit.
we believe you man, its just one dumbass in the thread fucking it up, best advice is get away from the woman entirely and find out if the kid is really yours, if it is do not abandon him, stay in his life and raise him like a man should.
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kids get abandoned, it's how it works sometimes,
sadly, this is true
besides, we all can't grow up to be doctors or lawyers or play centerfield for the Red Sox
Some of us have to become Toll collectors on the thruways, Cashier at dunkin donuts or strippers
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how much credit do your professors take off for all of your misspellings and punctuation errors on papers?
and going in for the kill
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Calm down, mate. You have nothing to prove here, don't film your girlfriend, don't do anything impulsive.
I was feeling so much stronger ad now hae this asshole making me feel so horrible again n that I have to take care of this family that's not mine.
like fuck I sent the email to grionk ill send anyone else just pm me if they want his email pass n acct. You wudnt believe how harsh she was.
I haved not only had test showing how low my test n other crap is.
but I've been around alot never used a condom in my life besides one time I mean girls I've lived with n dated. For 2 and 3 yrs. Having sex 5 times a day everyday being so young never once got anyone close to pregancy scare. N on top of it the ultra sound said the foetus devlopment at the time was def saying she was a certain amount of weeks old dyring a good 2 weeks I didn't sleep with her. Didn't add up but I knew things like that cud be off. Than she admits now n the ex that they slept together once during that time. Go figure never got anyone prwg n they sleep together while she's off the pill n she gets preg. While I was on juice to.
regardless time frame doesn't match up there is prego test on the way and once its sent back you can check online the results. Hell ill post the account for everyone here to check the results.
she is sure its his kid herself.
not a lie n specially after the test is done I know this has to be over with so fuck off the guys tryna make me fee bad.im listenting to the right guys here n I need the strength to not stay with her for the 3rd time of her cheating on me... Cuz I am weak
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do you want the exs email to see the dates of the emails n what they said.
do you want a video of the whore admiting she's a lying cheater n fucked up this family n she lied n always tolf me I was the farther. Cause right now I can easily have her do whatever I want..
would you stay with a women whos real feelings n telling her ex is ur a mistake. She only ever loved her ex not you. She wants to be with her ex not you.... N will only ever love her ex not her mistake.... So that's a happy family?
Everyone's telling you the logical thing to do, but when your emotions are involved and the situation's as messy as yours is, it's not easy to just follow your head and walk out, esp. when you still have feelings for both the mother and the child. I would personally never ask for advice here on things like relationships and work, not because the people here are dumb (far from it), but because they can convince you to do something that you'd never have done on your own. And when you follow someone else's advice, that's not your way of doing things and you might regret the consequences even more.
Not every guy is built to be independent and strong, some are just pussy whipped and are happy to be that way - maybe you're one of the weak willed ones who'd rather put up with shit than be alone and tough it out. Only you know what's best for you and what you want, the people here will only tell you what you need to do, which isn't always the same or even the right thing (for you). So maybe take some time off, go be by yourself somewhere, think things through, make a decision and stick with it.
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how much credit do your professors take off for all of your misspellings and punctuation errors on papers?
You need to browse thru my post history again and find that part where i mentionned english isnt my native language it seems. Also where s the "now im back im going to be nice" character? Just like i said it, it wouldnt take you one week before your old persona would show off again. Give it some months and you ll again be forced to erase your account after being torn several new assholes on here by everyone.
Anyway, OP is a liar and is just attempting to justify his desire to abandon his kid and the mother because his own father figure abandoned him. It is more reassuring to him to reproduce what has been done to himself, what he went thru, what he was exposed to during his childhood without choosing it, instead of doing the right thing, especially because he has no real , serious guidance, father figure. This is also why he s looking for help on a fucking internet messageboard and is being advised mostly by losers.
Ok now let's take a look at the advise givers on here;
-a man in his 40s who inject steroids to impress teens on the internet and who abandonned his first wife -and daughter- cause she wasnt looking good enough anymore and who consequently dated a better looking woman who also happen to have a daughter
-an old pseudo wise loser in his 50s who himself ruined a family and is trying to fit in on the internet with younger males because nobody would give his sorry ass the time of the day in real life anymore, probably rejected by his own kids
-a ruined desperate woman who s been abandonned by her own husband because she was too fat, got into weight lifting and just like the aformenationed loser posts on here trying to fit in with younger people in order to still get a minimum amount of attention; her dream now is to get fucked by the guy in his 40s aformentionned that is on steroids and who abandonned his first wife cause she was... fat (it never ceases to amaze me how subsconscious pattern cross each others in human relationships)
-a sexually confused metrosexual 30 y o guy abandonned by his own father and who covered his whole body with tats as a result, and who s CV includes being a stripper and working as a pt and for his mom
I think op obviously better listen to me. If it's your kid, you have no reason to abandon him, and if your girl is a bitch, find the strenght to teach her how to be a good mother and woman. Also, find the strenght to be a good man.
And dont listen to these even bigger losers than you who never went past their own shortcomings and who as a result can only advise you to walk in their own steps. They re still blindly reproducing scenarios and patterns but dont have what it takes to admit it. Dont be that guy.
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PTPS
;D
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You are in your 40s,
abandonned a depressed woman and the daughter you had with her
to settle with another woman because she looked better physically... and who happened to also have a daughter with another man which would be a reassuring pattern you followed subconsciously...,
you re bragging about steroid use while being in your 40s...,
Please, seriously.
So many so called adult losers on here who are giving advises to young people without father figures themselves... This is sad. Advises that can be summed by "Huh, dude, fuck this shit! focus on yourself! Be happy! inject roids! life is short! we come alone, we go alone! just do like i did! i went thru that before!".
right ::) you have no clue what you're talking about you fucking moron...I've shown you to be completely talking out of your ass more times than i can count...but why let a little thing like the TRUTH stop you from creating your little scenarios, right? ;) It's funny but my "abandoned" daughter lives with me and has her own room at my house and at my GF's house too..I'm the exact opposite of how you try and portray me..and you do it out of envy ;) because the only person who was abandoned around here was you, by your faith and your parents
do you think people copy and paste your idiotic posts and put them in inappropriate threads out of respect ?....they are RIDICULING you...you idiot...you are a Getbig JOKE and everybody knows this...another Vince Goodrum..just a little more verbose...nobody takes you seriously you fucking TOOL. I hope you don't think they do....LOLOL :D
Personally i think you are a gimmick of a well respected poster...I mean...you can't be serious with this utter nonsense you spew.
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You need to browse thru my post history again and find that part where i mentionned english isnt my native language it seems.
Anyway, OP is a liar and is just attempting to justify his desire to abandon his kid and the mother because his own father figure abandoned him. It is more reassuring to him to reproduce what has been to himself, what he went thru, instead of doing the right thing, especially because he has no real , serious guidance. This is also why he s looking for help on a fucking internet messageboard.
Ok now let's take a look at the advise givers on here;
-a man in his 40s who inject steroids to impress teens on the internet and who abandonned his first wife and daughter
-an old pseudo wise loser in his 50s who himself ruind a family and is trying to fit in on the internet with younger males because nobody would give his sorry ass the time of the day in real anymore, probably reject by his own kids
-a ruined desperate woman who s been abandonned by her own husband because she was too fat, got into weight lifting and just like the aformenationed loser posts on here trying to fit in with younger people in order to still get a minimum amount of attention; her dream now is to get fucked by the guy in his 40s aformentionned that is on steroids and who abandonned his first wife cause she was... fat
-a sexually confused metrosexual 30 y o guy abandonned by his own father and who covered his whole body with tats as a result, and who s CV includes being a stripper and working as a pt and for his mom
I think op obviously better listen to me. If it's your kid, you have no reason to abandon him, and if your girl is a bitch, find the strenght to teach her how to be a good mother and woman. Also, find the strenght to be a good man.
And dont listen to these even bigger losers than you who never went past their own shortcomings and who as a result can only advise you to walk in their own steps.
What a fucking jerk!!
Never ruined anybodys life,and never had any kids.
This guy acts like he fucking knows everybody here in real life.
You`re dismissed asshole!
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I was feeling so much stronger ad now hae this asshole making me feel so horrible again n that I have to take care of this family that's not mine.
like fuck I sent the email to grionk ill send anyone else just pm me if they want his email pass n acct. You wudnt believe how harsh she was.
I haved not only had test showing how low my test n other crap is.
but I've been around alot never used a condom in my life besides one time I mean girls I've lived with n dated. For 2 and 3 yrs. Having sex 5 times a day everyday being so young never once got anyone close to pregancy scare. N on top of it the ultra sound said the foetus devlopment at the time was def saying she was a certain amount of weeks old dyring a good 2 weeks I didn't sleep with her. Didn't add up but I knew things like that cud be off. Than she admits now n the ex that they slept together once during that time. Go figure never got anyone prwg n they sleep together while she's off the pill n she gets preg. While I was on juice to.
regardless time frame doesn't match up there is prego test on the way and once its sent back you can check online the results. Hell ill post the account for everyone here to check the results.
she is sure its his kid herself.
not a lie n specially after the test is done I know this has to be over with so fuck off the guys tryna make me fee bad.im listenting to the right guys here n I need the strength to not stay with her for the 3rd time of her cheating on me... Cuz I am weak
Right now you're confused and in a lot of turmoil, it's reasonable, anyone would have been.
I suggest you log out of this place, and do something that relaxes you.
Don't do anything impulsive and especially, don't give people's emails and passwords to strangers over the internet.
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this guy explains me so well. I'm so easily leaing a kid that's not mine
that's why I'm still here. That's why I have to get courage from thousads on a forum to talk me into helping myself. N that's why I'm such a pussy n don't mentally want to leae the child.
never said once I wat toleae this child. I always said I need to leave her! I'd takr the child happily... So how am I the dead beat. ill raise this child mine or not if I had to. I ove her.... I wat the gf gone....
so how are you summing aything up. Ur the fraud. I have offered so much n you won't respond. Wamt his emailn want the acct for where the dna test will be oline when I get it n send it back. Want a credit card reciept for 275 dollars for it and me holding it up.
asshole. Ill do any of that say the word... But you won't you keep ignoring me.
You need to browse thru my post history again and find that part where i mentionned english isnt my native language it seems. Also where s the "now im back im going to be nice" character? Just like i said it, it wouldnt take you one week before your old persona would show off again. Give it some months and you ll again be forced to erase your account after being torn several new assholes on here by everyone.
Anyway, OP is a liar and is just attempting to justify his desire to abandon his kid and the mother because his own father figure abandoned him. It is more reassuring to him to reproduce what has been to himself, what he went thru, instead of doing the right thing, especially because he has no real , serious guidance. This is also why he s looking for help on a fucking internet messageboard.
Ok now let's take a look at the advise givers on here;
-a man in his 40s who inject steroids to impress teens on the internet and who abandonned his first wife and daughter
-an old pseudo wise loser in his 50s who himself ruind a family and is trying to fit in on the internet with younger males because nobody would give his sorry ass the time of the day in real anymore, probably reject by his own kids
-a ruined desperate woman who s been abandonned by her own husband because she was too fat, got into weight lifting and just like the aformenationed loser posts on here trying to fit in with younger people in order to still get a minimum amount of attention; her dream now is to get fucked by the guy in his 40s aformentionned that is on steroids and who abandonned his first wife cause she was... fat
-a sexually confused metrosexual 30 y o guy abandonned by his own father and who covered his whole body with tats as a result, and who s CV includes being a stripper and working as a pt and for his mom
I think op obviously better listen to me. If it's your kid, you have no reason to abandon him, and if your girl is a bitch, find the strenght to teach her how to be a good mother and woman. Also, find the strenght to be a good man.
And dont listen to these even bigger losers than you who never went past their own shortcomings and who as a result can only advise you to walk in their own steps. They re still blindly reproducing scenarios and patterns but dont have what it takes to admit it. Dont be that guy.
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You need to browse thru my post history again and find that part where i mentionned english isnt my native language it seems. Also where s the "now im back im going to be nice" character? Just like i said it, it wouldnt take you one week before your old persona would show off again. Give it some months and you ll again be forced to erase your account after being torn several new assholes on here by everyone.
Anyway, OP is a liar and is just attempting to justify his desire to abandon his kid and the mother because his own father figure abandoned him. It is more reassuring to him to reproduce what has been done to himself, what he went thru, what he was exposed to during his childhood without choosing it, instead of doing the right thing, especially because he has no real , serious guidance, father figure. This is also why he s looking for help on a fucking internet messageboard and is being advised mostly by losers.
Ok now let's take a look at the advise givers on here;
-a man in his 40s who inject steroids to impress teens on the internet and who abandonned his first wife and daughter
-an old pseudo wise loser in his 50s who himself ruind a family and is trying to fit in on the internet with younger males because nobody would give his sorry ass the time of the day in real anymore, probably reject by his own kids
-a ruined desperate woman who s been abandonned by her own husband because she was too fat, got into weight lifting and just like the aformenationed loser posts on here trying to fit in with younger people in order to still get a minimum amount of attention; her dream now is to get fucked by the guy in his 40s aformentionned that is on steroids and who abandonned his first wife cause she was... fat
-a sexually confused metrosexual 30 y o guy abandonned by his own father and who covered his whole body with tats as a result, and who s CV includes being a stripper and working as a pt and for his mom
I think op obviously better listen to me. If it's your kid, you have no reason to abandon him, and if your girl is a bitch, find the strenght to teach her how to be a good mother and woman. Also, find the strenght to be a good man.
And dont listen to these even bigger losers than you who never went past their own shortcomings and who as a result can only advise you to walk in their own steps. They re still blindly reproducing scenarios and patterns but dont have what it takes to admit it. Dont be that guy.
for FFS, I was never married. You can't be that stupid can you. I got fat after the relationship ended shit bag..Thanks for playing
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for the record, I don't work for my mom anymore
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btw, what does "CV" stand for?
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btw, what does "CV" stand for?
Curriculum Vitae aka resume.
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time to ignore him then srry guys thanks for the help. N out of spirit ima post the dna results regardless lol.
this is acting like he kows so much but obv doesn't even kmow anything at all.
were all assholes here who iject steroids to impress women leave our children n all from bastard homes apparently
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Right now you're confused and in a lot of turmoil, it's reasonable, anyone would have been.
I suggest you log out of this place, and do something that relaxes you.
Don't do anything impulsive and especially, don't give people's emails and passwords to strangers over the internet.
Yeah man this place is only sending your emotions for a roller coaster ride. Just get a paternity test and do what you gotta do. Personally I would get rid of her regardless of the outcome but either way you're the one that has to live with the decision.
All the best.
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Curriculum Vitae aka resume.
Doesn't require one of those in JNN's "line of work."
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for FFS, I was never married. You can't be that stupid can you. I got fat after the relationship ended shit bag..Thanks for playing
LubeYourMan really doesn't pay attention to facts..they mess up his little dream world, so he can't be bothered with them.
Much better to see things the way you want them to be, so they fit your point of view ;)
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I`d love to smash ubermans head open and have him anylise the reason why I did it! ;D
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for FFS, I was never married. You can't be that stupid can you. I got fat after the relationship ended shit bag..Thanks for playing
PYPS ;D
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LubeYourMan really doesn't pay attention to facts..they mess up his little dream world, so he can't be bothered with them.
Much better to see things the way you want them to be, so they fit your point of view ;)
lol, "lubeyourman". ;D
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LubeYourMan really doesn't pay attention to facts..they mess up his little dream world, so he can't be bothered with them.
Much better to see things the way you want them to be, so they fit your point of view ;)
The twisted fuck twists things to suit his own agenda.............fucki ng gimmick.
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for FFS, I was never married. You can't be that stupid can you. I got fat after the relationship ended shit bag..Thanks for playing
lmao can't believe I believed his shit. I thought he had actual info on people here.
so ur not all 40 yr old daughter ditchers who leae depressed women n inject steroids cause once you hit 40 ur soo horrible as well?
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this guy explains me so well. I'm so easily leaing a kid that's not mine
that's why I'm still here. That's why I have to get courage from thousads on a forum to talk me into helping myself. N that's why I'm such a pussy n don't mentally want to leae the child.
never said once I wat toleae this child. I always said I need to leave her! I'd takr the child happily... So how am I the dead beat. ill raise this child mine or not if I had to. I ove her.... I wat the gf gone....
so how are you summing aything up. Ur the fraud. I have offered so much n you won't respond. Wamt his emailn want the acct for where the dna test will be oline when I get it n send it back. Want a credit card reciept for 275 dollars for it and me holding it up.
asshole. Ill do any of that say the word... But you won't you keep ignoring me.
You came here posting this;
what do I do. Kid isn't mine. then went on writing a bullshit story.
Then, you told us you werent sure if it was your own kid.
Please.
You all fucking losers should open a Bible, and losers who abandon each others should reunite and raise their fucking kids instead of attempting to justify their lack of balls and intelligence with bullshit excuses, they should stick together or they ll all end alone, abandonned by everyone, and will see their own offsprings die before their eyes before they die themselves in utter psychological and physical pain.
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Doesn't require one of those in JNN's "line of work."
Even if it's written in lipstick on the back of a male escort service flier ??? ;D
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lmao can't believe I believed his shit. I thought he had actual info on people here.
so ur not all 40 yr old daughter ditchers who leae depressed women n inject steroids cause once you hit 40 ur soo horrible as well?
I`m not,I`m in my 50`s !! ;D
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Even if it's written in lipstick on the back of a male escort service flier ??? ;D
Bullshit! JNN does his advertising by giving out free samples. ;D
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underman...
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uberman is french? rofl owned
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Yeah man this place is only sending your emotions for a roller coaster ride. Just get a paternity test and do what you gotta do. Personally I would get rid of her regardless of the outcome but either way you're the one that has to live with the decision.
All the best.
I am weak I kow that like others said. But I need to take a turn for the good regardless. You guys making me see that. Uberbulshitma was confusig my emotionas at first.
but no one deserve to be with someoe who keeps lying cheating n head games. That'd pt the child through a amazing life !
regardless I am gonna be strong n I won't be with her. If kids mie its def not. Ill try n take her n raise her. It'll be the right thing but I kow she won't be.
and long as I stay strong enuff to get rid of the bitch here. I wot be settingmysef up for depressed life forever.
keep this to keep readin all good post. Ya its not me to leave. But is that healthy to stay depressed forever like I was log time when she firstdid it. Nope I'm weak need to change . Its easier on paper like sone said but its also not healthy mentally on paper n you all r right. I must go. Must!
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You came here posting this;
what do I do. Kid isn't mine. then went on writing a bullshit story.
Then, you told us you werent sure if it was your own kid.
Please.
You all fucking losers should open a Bible, and losers who abandon each others should reunite and raise their fucking kids instead of attempting to justify their lack of balls and intelligence with bullshit excuses, they should stick together or they ll all end alone, abandonned by everyone, and will see their own offsprings die before their eyes before they die themselves in utter psychological and physical pain.
Hey....look!!! it's a real live crazy person.
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More like a false prophet, whose god is nothing but a superstition, invented by mean afraid of death.
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lmao can't believe I believed his shit. I thought he had actual info on people here.
so ur not all 40 yr old daughter ditchers who leae depressed women n inject steroids cause once you hit 40 ur soo horrible as well?
LOL oh gosh. I have told lubeyourman that I was never married to my daughters father and got fat after I left him. Not all men leave their kids. But I'm a woman
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The real father has legal responsibility's to the kid. That guy is probably in a world of hurt with the emotional mess that is your so called girlfriend. The real father is going to also be an emotional mess all the way through the child's life. I can tell you this, if I was the real father, I wouldn't want some pretend stand in dad telling me down the road how MY kid is going to be raised etc. Its only been a year. That's like 365 days you thought the kid was yours. BUT IT WASN'T. The real father is the one who should be the guy who has the opportunity to raise HIS kid the way he wants. Not some stand in dude who thinks he's trying to do the right thing. Release the kid to the real father and let it be.
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PYPS ;D
I would but Groink will just yap yap that I'm trying to be "cute"
oh well
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Talk about shitting a log.
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LOL @ "lubeyourman" !
Some funny ass shit! ;D
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LOL @ "lubeyourman" !
Some funny ass shit! ;D
That's his new name...... "LubeYourMan"..i tried it a year or two ago but it didn't stick :P
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That's his new name...... "LubeYourMan"..i tried it a year or two ago but it didn't stick :P
think it is now
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Btw, this thread got crowded faster than Runningmom's twat at a congegral visit
Sorry, I had to even if it isn't true
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That's his new name...... "LubeYourMan"..i tried it a year or two ago but it didn't stick :P
I`ts a getbig meme from now on bro!! :)
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I am weak I kow that like others said. But I need to take a turn for the good regardless. You guys making me see that. Uberbulshitma was confusig my emotionas at first.
but no one deserve to be with someoe who keeps lying cheating n head games. That'd pt the child through a amazing life !
regardless I am gonna be strong n I won't be with her. If kids mie its def not. Ill try n take her n raise her. It'll be the right thing but I kow she won't be.
and long as I stay strong enuff to get rid of the bitch here. I wot be settingmysef up for depressed life forever.
keep this to keep readin all good post. Ya its not me to leave. But is that healthy to stay depressed forever like I was log time when she firstdid it. Nope I'm weak need to change . Its easier on paper like sone said but its also not healthy mentally on paper n you all r right. I must go. Must!
Its hard to leave someone after being with them for a while. A lot of guys cut ties with their family and friends when they find someone. And when shit hits the fan they find that they're now lonely and that their significant other had become their only friend.
I hope this doesn't describe you and you still have friends and family close to you. They can ease the transition for you to get rid of the addiction of being with that person.
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Excellent
Btw- when did the this board "officially" turn on uberman?
There have been inklings of various people not caring for him but it has bee rampant as of late
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Excellent
Btw- when did the this board "officially" turn on uberman?
There have been inklings of various people not caring for him but it has bee rampant as of late
Ever since his "little girls and boys" diatribe became a meme on here.
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not even bothering just pointin out facts make you look crazy.
always said kid wasn't mine. Said she tricked me saying things like on a ultra sound arnt exact just cuz it says foetus is under 4 monthes doesn't mean it is. Time frame nevermatched up but I don't know shit about pregacy even now. No way kids mine even getting dna test n it'll be up here just to kill that 0000.1 percent chance.
so keep spewing bullsit
You came here posting this;
what do I do. Kid isn't mine. then went on writing a bullshit story.
Then, you told us you werent sure if it was your own kid.
Please.
You all fucking losers should open a Bible, and losers who abandon each others should reunite and raise their fucking kids instead of attempting to justify their lack of balls and intelligence with bullshit excuses, they should stick together or they ll all end alone, abandonned by everyone, and will see their own offsprings die before their eyes before they die themselves in utter psychological and physical pain.
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thanks JNN..FU Wes.. ;D
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Excellent
Btw- when did the this board "officially" turn on uberman?
There have been inklings of various people not caring for him but it has bee rampant as of late
Probably because he's a fucking asshole? and he makes up really nasty shit about people's personal lives and posts it as fact ? if i ever saw him i would cave his fucking skull in.
Also he posts the same stupid "mommy daddy" bullshit ad nauseum
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Lol at the mighty losers alliance reuniting again, attempting to reassure each others still in shock and disbelief, to face a single individual who raped them all into oblivion only moving his little fingers on a keyboard, simply returning against them their own sins they are constantly bragging about on here since months, years.
Lol at the mighty losers alliance advising a poor kid with no father figure to follow their advises, hoping to welcome him in their loser's club. Follow them, and end like them, poor soul.
Maybe that s their way to feel a little less alone in their misery, to lure younger people into their own path.
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This has to be BS...the "I'm weak" line in every post is a tad suspicious.
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Ever since his "little girls and boys" diatribe became a meme on here.
I had a feeling it was this as well
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I am weak I kow that like others said. But I need to take a turn for the good regardless. You guys making me see that. Uberbulshitma was confusig my emotionas at first.
but no one deserve to be with someoe who keeps lying cheating n head games. That'd pt the child through a amazing life !
regardless I am gonna be strong n I won't be with her. If kids mie its def not. Ill try n take her n raise her. It'll be the right thing but I kow she won't be.
and long as I stay strong enuff to get rid of the bitch here. I wot be settingmysef up for depressed life forever.
keep this to keep readin all good post. Ya its not me to leave. But is that healthy to stay depressed forever like I was log time when she firstdid it. Nope I'm weak need to change . Its easier on paper like sone said but its also not healthy mentally on paper n you all r right. I must go. Must!
Dude,you sound like me years ago............I was seriously co-dependant and a failed relationship was a big trigger which made me drink myself into oblivion at times.
My depression and anxiety didn`t help either.......just became more and more pronounced.
Today,I might feel terrible,but I no longer beat myself up over anything if I can help it.
You can help yourself by being strong and doing what needs to be done in order for you to lead a decent somewhat normal existance............get out of this nightmare,regardless of the pain involved as you will get it over it in time and find someone who can make you happy.
I just opened myself up to more free anylisation by "lubeyourman" but who fucking cares?
Stay strong bro,and do what`s best for you as a person.
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yea well I called it first LOL. It's a good thread none the less. I think my post were coherent so Butterbean needs to change the graph
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Lol at the mighty losers alliance reuniting again, attempting to reassure each others still in shock and disbelief, to face a single individual who raped them all into oblivion only moving his little fingers on a keyboard, simply returning against them their own sins they are constantly bragging about on here since months, years.
Lol at the mighty losers alliance advising a poor kid with no father figure to follow their advises, hoping to welcome him in their loser's club. Follow them, and end like them, poor soul.
Maybe that s their way to feel a little less alone in their misery, to lure younger people into their own path.
how does it make you good at owning anyone posting fake stats. And look at you on a computer all day to insult people n bring them down lol. Doesn't ur schooling teach you about bullying? You must be the fuck up here.
here let me try being you.
LOL look at this uberman guy he's 30 years old n plays with his moms clit for work n is a pedo. He also lives with his parents in his moms bed still and injecys steroids and its his life steroids. Nothing else how pathetic. I know so much about you cause I'm a uberman. A god if you will. I know everyones social security number to I kow there exact lives. Your welcome
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Lol at the mighty losers alliance reuniting again, attempting to reassure each others still in shock and disbelief, to face a single individual who raped them all into oblivion only moving his little fingers on a keyboard, simply returning against them their own sins they are constantly bragging about on here since months, years.
Lol at the mighty losers alliance advising a poor kid with no father figure to follow their advises, hoping to welcome him in their loser's club. Follow them, and end like them, poor soul.
Maybe that s their way to feel a little less alone in their misery, to lure younger people into their own path.
I have a very loving mother, my dad always takes care of the family, I study mathematics (a real subject unlike psychology) at a top 10 university in my country and I get good grades. Oh, and I inject hormones/lift weights.
According to you, I should be uneducated with parents who hate me. How wrong you are, you shitstain, why don't you silently leave getbig and join a church or something?
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Lol at the mighty losers alliance reuniting again, attempting to reassure each others still in shock and disbelief, to face a single individual who raped them all into oblivion only moving his little fingers on a keyboard, simply returning against them their own sins they are constantly bragging about on here since months, years.
Lol at the mighty losers alliance advising a poor kid with no father figure to follow their advises, hoping to welcome him in their loser's club. Follow them, and end like them, poor soul.
Maybe that s their way to feel a little less alone in their misery, to lure younger people into their own path.
You're Fatpanda aren't you ? you are reacting the same way he did when public opinion went against him...louder and more boisterous..more out of touch with reality.
Gimmick Solved...carry on people
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I have a very loving mother, my dad always takes care of the family, I study mathematics (a real subject unlike psychology) at a top 10 university in my country and I get good grades. Oh, and I inject hormones/lift weights.
According to you, I should be uneducated with parents who hate me. How wrong you are, you shitstain, why don't you silently leave getbig and join a church or something?
Easy, it means your parents even if they stayed together fucked up your education?
What kind of parent advises or allow their kids to use steroids for cosmetic purpose, for vanity? Arent decent parents suposed to teach their kids to be balanced and not fall for the extremes?
I dont know, maybe you didnt tell them what you re doing to your body?
Anyway, you moron, just because parents stay together doesnt mean they re good souls or raise good contributing souls automatically, it takes more, it takes faith. They also have to both follow God's words and make sure their offsprings do too.
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glad someone understands. I am same way depression and anexity... Go figure. And I know my problems. N like you said you gotta change it n beat it... I will been fucked over before by women this time its so much worse. Had a life planned outobv with a kid. Not doing this shit ever again.
Dude,you sound like me years ago............I was seriously co-dependant and a failed relationship was a big trigger which made me drink myself into oblivion at times.
My depression and anxiety didn`t help either.......just became more and more pronounced.
Today,I might feel terrible,but I no longer beat myself up over anything if I can help it.
You can help yourself by being strong and doing what needs to be done in order for you to lead a decent somewhat normal existance............get out of this nightmare,regardless of the pain involved as you will get it over it in time and find someone who can make you happy.
I just opened myself up to more free anylisation by "lubeyourman" but who fucking cares>
Stay strong bro,and do what`s best for you as a person.
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Easy, it means your parents even if they stayed together fucked up your education?
Just because parents stay together doesnt mean they re good souls. They also have to both follow God's words and make sure their offsprings do too.
You just have all the answers don't you :D
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Ever since his "little girls and boys" diatribe became a meme on here.
I`ll take credit for that one but it got old fast. :)
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Easy, it means your parents even if they stayed together fucked up your education?
Just because parents stay together doesnt mean they re good souls. They also have to both follow God's words and make sure their offsprings do too.
What do you mean, fucked up my education? I just said I get good grades and I study mathematics at a top 10 university, top 3 for mathematics in the country. They always supported me academically and taught me the important of getting an education. Yes, they really fucked me over. ::)
So we can conclude that besides being a delusional cunt, you also can't read. Just stop typing, for fuck's sake.
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thanks JNN..FU Wes.. ;D
Luv ya` !! ;D
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What do you mean, fucked up my education? I just said I get good grades and I study mathematics at a top 10 university, top 3 for mathematics in the country. They always supported me academically and taught me the important of getting an education. Yes, they really fucked me over. ::)
So we can conclude that besides being a delusional cunt, you also can't read. Just stop typing, for fuck's sake.
He's a fat retard...just makes it up as he goes along
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Probably because he's a fucking asshole? and he makes up really nasty shit about people's personal lives and posts it as fact ? if i ever saw him i would cave his fucking skull in.
Also he posts the same stupid "mommy daddy" bullshit ad nauseum
I started to feel like hunting his ass down and beating his fucking head in when he laughed at the death of my closest friend.........fucking cawcsucker!
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What's your exact location, lubeyourman?
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What do you mean, fucked up my education? I just said I get good grades and I study mathematics at a top 10 university, top 3 for mathematics in the country. They always supported me academically and taught me the important of getting an education. Yes, they really fucked me over. ::)
You dont simply need an education to be a good soul, you also need genuine love and faith that allow you to care for others as much as you care for yourself, to the benefit of the specie. There are a lot of people with an education, who spend their lives fucking other people in the ass until it backfires because they werent taught good from evil. Obviously they missed one thing or two with you.
There are parents who stay together and still spawn unhappy kids.
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What's your exact location, lubeyourman?
In your head ?
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duno how to handle this. Anyone else ever deal with it. Finding out there kid isn't there's.
she didn't tell me. I had to find out. She was still emailing her ex telling him she loves him n always have always will.i knew time frames always didn't match up when she got preganant. Finally I find truth in a secret email.
wtf do I do. Kid is 1 yrs old. After I found out I broke her down she admitted everything. But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave. I'm confused cause she is going crazy trying to make sure I won't leave her. So it seems she does love. Obv she's promising to never talk to him again like before.... I caught her almost 2 yrs ago before emailing n txting him telling him she loves him n still wants to be with him.
so its twice now I been emotionally cheated on n this times even more fucked up.
wtf do I do. I dunom all there's pictures of me holding this kid... Wtf.... She keeps telling me she wants me to be her farther n be with her...
what do I do.
Sounds like you picked a winner.
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In your head ?
Keep dreaming, because reality is obviously not a place you regularly frequent.
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They also have to both follow God's words and make sure their offsprings do too.
hahahahaha ;D
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hahahahaha ;D
icing on the cake, isn't it? :)
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Lol at the mighty losers alliance reuniting again, attempting to reassure each others still in shock and disbelief, to face a single individual who raped them all into oblivion only moving his little fingers on a keyboard, simply returning against them their own sins they are constantly bragging about on here since months, years.
Lol at the mighty losers alliance advising a poor kid with no father figure to follow their advises, hoping to welcome him in their loser's club. Follow them, and end like them, poor soul.
Maybe that s their way to feel a little less alone in their misery, to lure younger people into their own path.
If that's not fatpanda i don't know what is ;)
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icing on the cake, isn't it? :)
Too easy! ;)
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Bail, IMMEDIATELY.
As has been said, the kid is too young to be greatly affected. But it must be NOW.
This woman is trouble and not worth giving your love and affection to. She's of low character and doesn't know what she wants. If you stay, you will regret this decision every day of the rest of your life.
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duno how to handle this. Anyone else ever deal with it. Finding out there kid isn't there's.
she didn't tell me. I had to find out. She was still emailing her ex telling him she loves him n always have always will.i knew time frames always didn't match up when she got preganant. Finally I find truth in a secret email.
wtf do I do. Kid is 1 yrs old. After I found out I broke her down she admitted everything. But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave. I'm confused cause she is going crazy trying to make sure I won't leave her. So it seems she does love. Obv she's promising to never talk to him again like before.... I caught her almost 2 yrs ago before emailing n txting him telling him she loves him n still wants to be with him.
so its twice now I been emotionally cheated on n this times even more fucked up.
wtf do I do. I dunom all there's pictures of me holding this kid... Wtf.... She keeps telling me she wants me to be her farther n be with her...
what do I do.
Comments by bolds above^^^^^^:
1) "she didn't tell me I had to find out." : If she didn't tell you, you would never of found out.
2) "wtf do I do?" : Get the hell out of this relationship. The whole thing has been a lie on her part.
3) "But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave." : Of course she will say she doesn't love him and doesn't want you to leave. It's the first thing that came to her mind.
If I were you I would leave her. Plain and simple. She lied about having your kid and God knows what else. It's time to man up and leave.
This happened to my Uncle last year, but he stayed with the cheating bitch and now every time he takes her to a family event or whatever, he looks like a pussy in everyone's eyes.
GTFO OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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If that's not fatpanda i don't know what is ;)
what happened eventually to fatpanda?
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Dump the bitch and gfto as fast as you can. Don't be a fool!
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This situation is stickier than a Pierre Woodman audition tape
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what happened eventually to fatpanda?
He became "lubeyourman" !
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He became "lubeyourman" !
LOOL
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ive always thought uberman was an adonis gimmick
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As many say, its crystal clear that you must go and you know it clearly before building this thread.
So, if you dont do it, you will live the rest of your life with misery. Even She and her kid leave you for her ex, you will repeat same kind of thing in the future.
Its time for the change or you will stay the same forever.The compasion or your feeling are not sacred like you think. THATS JUST YOUR PREJUDICE.
YOU KNOW THAT.
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Haha.. uberman cracks me up! I've never seen anyone like him... mixing psychology and religion and using it to constantly point out flaws of other people...
Time and time again, you tell almost everyone on here that their parents are bad, that they have had a suboptimal upbringing etc.,
but assuming that your parents are devout christians, like you are, and that they base their morals on a book that's written by mortal humans, with no divine influence whatsoever, almost 2000 years ago, how good an upbringing could you have had yourself?
Why is your christian upbringing superior to those who have had more secular upbringings and what exactly makes you think that you're so much better than anyone else, regarding morals? I mean... if god speaks to you one day... and wants you to sacrifice your own son or daughter... I think you're a person that could do it.. it's still god above all for you... so I'm not sure why you think that you have the moral high ground in these discussions?
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is it meltdown time yet?
(http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ff5keaP8Qdo/TXwZYRZm01I/AAAAAAAABqk/IF9Qvck57Gg/s1600/radiation-sign.jpg)
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So, is your name on the birth certificate?
If it is, you are obliged to pay alimony for the kid (mother) even if you leave.
I think you'll need mothers permission and a DNA test to "undo" that.
If you decide to stay, at least sue the real father for alimony. You'll be screwed in the end
anyway so at least you'll might be able to put something aside for yourself for the future.
Oh Shit... You'll just en up hating the kid, whose not in fault, as well.
Check the legal stuff and leave.
Now.
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So, is your name on the birth certificate?
If it is, you are obliged to pay alimony for the kid (mother) even if you leave.
I think you'll need mothers permission and a DNA test to "undo" that.
If you decide to stay, at least sue the real father for alimony. You'll be screwed in the end
anyway so at least you'll might be able to put something aside for yourself for the future.
Oh Shit... You'll just en up hating the kid, whose not in fault, as well.
Check the legal stuff and leave.
Now.
he does NOT need the mothers permission. He can take the child to "the park" and get it done. She'd be none the wiser. I wouldn't tell her about the test.
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Haha.. uberman cracks me up! I've never seen anyone like him... mixing psychology and religion and using it to constantly point out flaws of other people...
Time and time again, you tell almost everyone on here that their parents are bad, that they have had a suboptimal upbringing etc.,
but assuming that your parents are devout christians, like you are, and that they base their morals on a book that's written by mortal humans, with no divine influence whatsoever, almost 2000 years ago, how good an upbringing could you have had yourself?
Why is your christian upbringing superior to those who have had more secular upbringings and what exactly makes you think that you're so much better than anyone else, regarding morals? I mean... if god speaks to you one day... and wants you to sacrifice your own son or daughter... I think you're a person that could do it.. it's still god above all for you... so I'm not sure why you think that you have the moral high ground in these discussions?
Tell me, what god fearing nice christian man, who has had a great upbringing where his parents did a great job, end up on a messageboard on the internet to give everyone unsolicited pseudo intellectual psychology advice - based on nothing? Does this sound like a person who's a beacon of mental health?
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Cyrus drops in and shakes things up, I like that.. too bad I gotta go, just got called in to the clinic... :-X
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Haha.. uberman cracks me up! I've never seen anyone like him... mixing psychology and religion and using it to constantly point out flaws of other people...
Time and time again, you tell almost everyone on here that their parents are bad, that they have had a suboptimal upbringing etc.,
but assuming that your parents are devout christians, like you are, and that they base their morals on a book that's written by mortal humans, with no divine influence whatsoever, almost 2000 years ago, how good an upbringing could you have had yourself?
Why is your christian upbringing superior to those who have had more secular upbringings and what exactly makes you think that you're so much better than anyone else, regarding morals? I mean... if god speaks to you one day... and wants you to sacrifice your own son or daughter... I think you're a person that could do it.. it's still god above all for you... so I'm not sure why you think that you have the moral high ground in these discussions?
if your parents are BabyBoomers, unless they are old skool, then chances are they effed up when it comes to parenting...that's why Gen X and Y are the way they are now...
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And sadly, nobody thinks of the real victim, the kid. The kid has to find out that "daddy" is not his real daddy, and may find out that his real "daddy" is not really a good father. And how will the kid adjust, because obviously, he's been accustom to calling dude daddy. Mommy owN selfish bitch thinking of herself, playing cuckhold. Uproot and turn a kid's whole life upside down, all because of a lie and selfish ego...
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Lyquid- I know you'll make the right decision for yourself, you can't live your life for others especially in the situation you're in. It sounds like you have head your head in the sand a little over this and it's time to face up to the reality of the situationand do what's best for you.
For those replying to Lubeyourmom's bullshit - just ignore this retard, this will be the biggest punishment for someone with an ego this huge! If nobody replies to his posts then he will realise no one is reading his dribble and he will be crushed, replying to him just feeds the ego of a tragic little man and makes himself feel good by putting others down.
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duno how to handle this. Anyone else ever deal with it. Finding out there kid isn't there's.
she didn't tell me. I had to find out. She was still emailing her ex telling him she loves him n always have always will.i knew time frames always didn't match up when she got preganant. Finally I find truth in a secret email.
wtf do I do. Kid is 1 yrs old. After I found out I broke her down she admitted everything. But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave. I'm confused cause she is going crazy trying to make sure I won't leave her. So it seems she does love. Obv she's promising to never talk to him again like before.... I caught her almost 2 yrs ago before emailing n txting him telling him she loves him n still wants to be with him.
so its twice now I been emotionally cheated on n this times even more fucked up.
wtf do I do. I dunom all there's pictures of me holding this kid... Wtf.... She keeps telling me she wants me to be her farther n be with her...
what do I do.
^^^^pure beta. Your lack of Alpha disgusts me.
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duno how to handle this. Anyone else ever deal with it. Finding out there kid isn't there's.
she didn't tell me. I had to find out. She was still emailing her ex telling him she loves him n always have always will.i knew time frames always didn't match up when she got preganant. Finally I find truth in a secret email.
wtf do I do. Kid is 1 yrs old. After I found out I broke her down she admitted everything. But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave. I'm confused cause she is going crazy trying to make sure I won't leave her. So it seems she does love. Obv she's promising to never talk to him again like before.... I caught her almost 2 yrs ago before emailing n txting him telling him she loves him n still wants to be with him.
so its twice now I been emotionally cheated on n this times even more fucked up.
wtf do I do. I dunom all there's pictures of me holding this kid... Wtf.... She keeps telling me she wants me to be her farther n be with her...
what do I do.
i'm sure she does want you to be the father because fathers pay money
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I have absolutely no doubt the kid ends up on a stripper pole at some point in her life.
Just saying'......
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Is she hot?
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Except it seems it s a He, not a she. But it might well be the future of groink s daughter, and also the future of the new woman's daughter he s with now.
Also the original poster went from "I ve been owned and made a cuckhold but I love the kid that isnt mine what should I do" , which seemed quite plausible and heart shattering that even I fell for it,
to :
"maybe it's my own kid, in fact i dont know i have to do a dna test first... but thanks all you convinced me to abandon them once im sure it's my own kid".
The fuck in hell is that crap ?
He's just lost soul in the end who obviously has no real serious support hence the need to come on fucking getbig to get advices on how to manage existential questions.
I think that, to sumerize, most told him to flee if it is proved it s not his kid which even I enjoined him to do, but I told him to man up and accept his responsabilities if it's actually his kid, to keep the mother in fucking check -whats wrong with you guys seriously...-, while most didnt even understand dude was a class A confused liar who bullshited them in order to get pity advises to convince himself it was the right thing to abandon his responsabilities.
I'm going to guess he was "the other man" and the reason her ex left in the first place.
I did get a chuckle out of the guys telling him to secure his assets. Like a 20 year old, that spells and writes like he's in the 3rd grade really has a pot to piss in.
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Except it seems it s a He, not a she. But it might well be the future of groink s daughter, and also the future of the new woman's daughter he s with now.
Also the original poster went from "I ve been owned and made a cuckhold but I love the kid that isnt mine what should I do" , which seemed quite plausible and heart shattering that even I fell for it,
to :
"maybe it's my own kid, in fact i dont know i have to do a dna test first... but thanks all you convinced me to abandon them once im sure it's my own kid".
The fuck in hell is that crap ?
He's just lost soul in the end who obviously has no real serious support hence the need to come on fucking getbig to get advices on how to manage existential questions.
I think that, to sumerize, most told him to flee if it is proved it s not his kid which even I enjoined him to do, but I told him to man up and accept his responsabilities if it's actually his kid, to keep the mother in fucking check -whats wrong with you guys seriously...-, while most didnt even understand dude was a class A confused liar who bullshited them in order to get pity advises to convince himself it was the right thing to abandon his responsabilities.
of course if it is his kid he needs to keep his responsabilities toward him, that's common sense.
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Except it seems it s a He, not a she. But it might well be the future of groink s daughter, and also the future of the new woman's daughter he s with now.
Also the original poster went from "I ve been owned and made a cuckhold but I love the kid that isnt mine what should I do" , which seemed quite plausible and heart shattering that even I fell for it,
to :
"maybe it's my own kid, in fact i dont know i have to do a dna test first... but thanks all you convinced me to abandon them once im sure it's my own kid".
The fuck in hell is that crap ?
He's just lost soul in the end who obviously has no real serious support hence the need to come on fucking getbig to get advices on how to manage existential questions.
I think that, to sumerize, most told him to flee if it is proved it s not his kid which even I enjoined him to do, but I told him to man up and accept his responsabilities if it's actually his kid, to keep the mother in fucking check -whats wrong with you guys seriously...-, while most didnt even understand dude was a class A confused liar who bullshited them in order to get pity advises to convince himself it was the right thing to abandon his responsabilities.
awwwwwww someone got their feelings hurt :'( :D
you are a douchebag, and are universally ridiculed...you fat retard :D :D
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I still have the first page loaded up and I'm not going to read all 12 pages!
My advice is to run and run as fast as you can. For your sake, the kids mental health and to rid yourself of a crazy bitch that is willing to say you're the father of her kid and then turn around texting/emailing the true father of the kid behind your back telling him how much she still loves him.
You're caught in a serious web...easier said than done but get out and cut all ties NOW with the broad. Just as soon as you leave her you will find another girl. You will be able to invest your time in her and be far happier and better off.
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awwwwwww someone got their feelings hurt :'( :D
you are a douchebag, and are universally ridiculed...you fat retard :D :D
Not only that, but he has now ran off like a scalded dog.
This fucker had the balls to say shit about me?
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(http://paulboylan.files.wordpress.com/2009/01/milk-out-of-nose.jpg)
Jesus, that Bob Bonham isn't very photogenic is he :-\ Every single photo i've seen of his looks like a turd in the punch bowl.
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cliffs?
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Getbig had threads like this once.
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Getbig had threads like this once.
Feeling nostalgic, Bro? It's the time of year I suppose - but in terms of GetBig I recently took a page out of Delon's book and noticed something stat related (rarely look) - a new GetBig record
He (Delon) mentioned something about bots(??) - but maybe the new Groink (insert name here) is among them? 2024 might be amazing! Stay positive dude (Joswift in to tell me I'm full of shit in 3..2..1.. ;D)
HNY Raymondo 8)
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Feeling nostalgic, Bro? It's the time of year I suppose - but in terms of GetBig I recently took a page out of Delon's book and noticed something stat related (rarely look) - a new GetBig record
He (Delon) mentioned something about bots(??) - but maybe the new Groink (insert name here) is among them? 2024 might be amazing! Stay positive dude (Joswift in to tell me I'm full of shit in 3..2..1.. ;D)
HNY Raymondo 8)
its cause MD board folded
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Feeling nostalgic, Bro? It's the time of year I suppose - but in terms of GetBig I recently took a page out of Delon's book and noticed something stat related (rarely look) - a new GetBig record
He (Delon) mentioned something about bots(??) - but maybe the new Groink (insert name here) is among them? 2024 might be amazing! Stay positive dude (Joswift in to tell me I'm full of shit in 3..2..1.. ;D)
HNY Raymondo 8)
Happy New Year Taffin
I don't know how to explain the high number of users to be honest. It seems not that many people are posting to be honest.
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Have we heard how this couple ended up working out? Everyone loves a happy ending.
The baby should be in his teens now! I think we all would love an update.
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joswift is on sabbatical in the Caribbean Islands.
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So this was a troll job right? The whole thread was in one day?
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I think the OP was Bhanky.
I guess he decided to hang in and raise the retarded kid.
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Feeling nostalgic, Bro? It's the time of year I suppose - but in terms of GetBig I recently took a page out of Delon's book and noticed something stat related (rarely look) - a new GetBig record
He (Delon) mentioned something about bots(??) - but maybe the new Groink (insert name here) is among them? 2024 might be amazing! Stay positive dude (Joswift in to tell me I'm full of shit in 3..2..1.. ;D)
HNY Raymondo 8)
What the fuck? How are so many people watching this shit and not joining in? Don’t get me wrong I don’t need anymore people here but just seems crazy.
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I wonder if lyquid ended up hanging himself or what ???
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I wonder if lyquid ended up hanging himself or what ???
Did you read about galains friend as well?
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Did you read about galains friend as well?
???
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Feeling nostalgic, Bro? It's the time of year I suppose - but in terms of GetBig I recently took a page out of Delon's book and noticed something stat related (rarely look) - a new GetBig record
He (Delon) mentioned something about bots(??) - but maybe the new Groink (insert name here) is among them? 2024 might be amazing! Stay positive dude (Joswift in to tell me I'm full of shit in 3..2..1.. ;D)
HNY Raymondo 8)
haha yeah Me (Delon) noticed that there had been a HUGE and rapid increase in Users Online around August, seemingly driven entirely by Guests, viewing mostly old, sometimes very old threads. note the below highest "Most Online" stats per month:
Feb: 1,236
Mar: 1,149
Apr: 1,145
May: 1,750
Jun: 1,185
Jul: 1,386
Aug: 3,376
Sep: 4,674
Oct: 5,316
Nov: 4,869
Dec: 6,342*
And a zoom-in on the week where it all just kicked off, doubling within a few days, never to drop below 4k for one single day from mid-Sep all the way up to 22nd Dec:
Aug 21: 1,679
Aug 22: 1,650
Aug 23: 1,666
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Aug 24: 2,730
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Aug 25: 3,211
Aug 26: 3,301
Aug 27: 3,278
* Getbig Trivia: The long term previous highest ever "Most Online" day prior to the Dec 21st, 2023 (6,342) in your screenshot was waaaaaay back in April 2013 at the height of the Boston Bomber coverage (5,240)
What does all this mean or matter: nothing really lol, happy NY
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haha yeah Me (Delon) noticed that there had been a HUGE and rapid increase in Users Online around August, seemingly driven entirely by Guests, viewing mostly old, sometimes very old threads. note the below highest "Most Online" stats per month:
Feb: 1,236
Mar: 1,149
Apr: 1,145
May: 1,750
Jun: 1,185
Jul: 1,386
Aug: 3,376
Sep: 4,674
Oct: 5,316
Nov: 4,869
Dec: 6,342*
And a zoom-in on the week where it all just kicked off, doubling within a few days, never to drop below 4k for one single day from mid-Sep all the way up to 22nd Dec:
Aug 21: 1,679
Aug 22: 1,650
Aug 23: 1,666
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Aug 24: 2,730
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Aug 25: 3,211
Aug 26: 3,301
Aug 27: 3,278
* Getbig Trivia: The long term previous highest ever "Most Online" day prior to the Dec 21st, 2023 (6,342) in your screenshot was waaaaaay back in April 2013 at the height of the Boston Bomber coverage (5,240)
What does all this mean or matter: nothing really lol, happy NY
Gotta be the shut down of MD board right? When was that?
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Gotta be the shut down of MD board right? When was that?
MD could not have that many members.
There must be some bot system?
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I wonder if lyquid ended up hanging himself or what ???
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Looks like he was posting semi-regular through to 2014. First taking her back but pursuing a Cheating Strategy to cope:
I took my gf back. Ull hate her for it don't do it. Ull never feel fully in love again and never have that feeling u had for her before. However. Cheating on her consistently has made me feel much better. And i mean consistently with many diff women lol
Then was all loved up with a new girl by the looks of it:
We have been together eight months. She has completely become me. Her goals are mine . We want exact same things. We alrdy were much alike at start Han she did change right to what I wanted.
I am not like most guys I am honestly embarrassed about the number of women I have been with n don't want to fully say. But even the first girl I slept with we alrdy had said I love u and we had wanted it to be long term. I always seen every girl as a life long thing. O wouldn't give a girl time of day unless she wanted what I did. Was a good girl. Than when she seemed fit I would make it srs and we would be lovers. But none of them lasted. Some I know now felt I was to good for them so they lied there asses off about who they were to keep me till they had to admit they didn't want same things. So its been over ten girls ill just say that. Some were I guess kiddie love in my 17 and up era. But I have always wanted one women truely devoted to each other. Never once had the mind frame of my friends. Go to bars n bed every girl u can. I love sex but it's only good when your completely passionate about the other person I feel.
If it matters I am overly sexually. Strictly with one women. No threesome crap no porno watching like some dudes need to wary a porn to fuck there girl. Every girl I have been with has went from normal sex drive to my sex drive. Some I could tell wernt as into later on. Some absolutely wanted it just as much as me as I always made sure they were pleased.
To the point of even posting pics with her:
https://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=517863.msg7340313#msg7340313
Oh I'm a piece.of. shit to a girl who kept trying to diet for other people's views but never could and for liking her for the way she is. Ah ya real piece of shit. Even tho I tell her I think.she's perfect way she is she still insisted on losing weight I even helped her but she can't on her own stick to a diet.
Exactly like 90 percent members on here out of shape n can't stick to a diet why is she so and cause she cat either.
Of course I am force feeding her n made her fat right yet she's been chubby all her life.
And at 200 lbs u have to be 6'8 anything under morbidly obesse right.
She's 5'4 . 5'5 btw
Here's pic look. At that height 202 to 205 lbs severly morbidly obesse she may drop dead tomorrow won't she since she's not 6'8 damn your right morbidly obeese your a smart man.
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Gotta be the shut down of MD board right? When was that?
MD shut down around Nov I believe so not sure that is the trigger
https://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=689442.0
MD could not have that many members.
There must be some bot system?
Yeah my theory was maybe something along those lines, or an AI scraping tool grabbing the forum's history- but who knows
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MD shut down around Nov I believe so not sure that is the trigger
Yeah my theory was maybe something along those lines, or an AI scraping tool grabbing the forum's history- but who knows
Oh an AI scrapping tool, imagine the nonsense it could learn just trying to distinguish between sarcasm and trolling.
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Oh an AI scrapping tool, imagine the nonsense it could learn just trying to distinguish between sarcasm and trolling.
Getbig memes may be popping up in college essays in the near future
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Oh an AI scrapping tool, imagine the nonsense it could learn just trying to distinguish between sarcasm and trolling.
Fuck is an AI scraping tool?
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Looks like he was posting semi-regular through to 2014. First taking her back but pursuing a Cheating Strategy to cope:
Then was all loved up with a new girl by the looks of it:
To the point of even posting pics with her:
https://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=517863.msg7340313#msg7340313
Christ... a guy with his looks could have done so much better than that plain looking fattie.
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Fuck is an AI scraping tool?
Im not a tech guy so no follow up questions please lol - but basically scraping is just extracting data from websites - and an AI version in my understanding is just the new, more efficient automated incarnation of that
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Hahahahaha! What a total toolbag.
No wonder she cheated on him.
She gets it quiet frequently actually. Her parents her brother her sister in laws friends say exactly same.things if.not worse way they say them really rudely too even.ur exact words.
I just always make sure to re assure her that I only do want her. Cause like I said before I truely do.find.her perfect face n body.
Can honestly say I.wouldn't want Megan fox or whoever over her. Everyone just finds beauty different. Like lady Gaga I had friends say she's beyond.sexy and I'm thinkg.um I.would.call her a zero.out of ten but ok. Just differance.
We also always match in.that pic u can't see we have on black.shorts n blue shoes too lol.
Men like this deserve to be mistreated.
You know she was getting dicked down by real men all the time behind his back.
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haha yeah Me (Delon) noticed that there had been a HUGE and rapid increase in Users Online around August, seemingly driven entirely by Guests, viewing mostly old, sometimes very old threads. note the below highest "Most Online" stats per month:
Feb: 1,236
Mar: 1,149
Apr: 1,145
May: 1,750
Jun: 1,185
Jul: 1,386
Aug: 3,376
Sep: 4,674
Oct: 5,316
Nov: 4,869
Dec: 6,342*
And a zoom-in on the week where it all just kicked off, doubling within a few days, never to drop below 4k for one single day from mid-Sep all the way up to 22nd Dec:
Aug 21: 1,679
Aug 22: 1,650
Aug 23: 1,666
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Aug 24: 2,730
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Aug 25: 3,211
Aug 26: 3,301
Aug 27: 3,278
* Getbig Trivia: The long term previous highest ever "Most Online" day prior to the Dec 21st, 2023 (6,342) in your screenshot was waaaaaay back in April 2013 at the height of the Boston Bomber coverage (5,240)
What does all this mean or matter: nothing really lol, happy NY
Thanks dude 8)
So your figures seem to give the lie to this surge being ex-MDers, right? Because they didn't fold until the end of the year? I think there's a lot to your theory about scraping for AI - but weirdly when I've asked it it refuses to engage, saying this place is too bad for it LOL
HNY Delon - thanks for all the help in '23 :)
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Billie Jean is not my lover, uh
She's just a girl who claims that I am the one (Oh, baby)
But the kid is not my son (Hoo)
She says I am the one (Oh, baby)
But the kid is not my son (Hee-hee-hee, no-no, hee-hee-hee, hoo)
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Thanks dude 8)
So your figures seem to give the lie to this surge being ex-MDers, right? Because they didn't fold until the end of the year? I think there's a lot to your theory about scraping for AI - but weirdly when I've asked it it refuses to engage, saying this place is too bad for it LOL
HNY Delon - thanks for all the help in '23 :)
Yeah the timelines don't really seem to match up with MD being the cause
In my mind there sort of has to be a significant organic driver in that August window for it to be a 'real world' explanation, maybe it's just the forgotten getbig masses annual August pilgrimage in anticipation of The Trainer's long delayed pic update who knows
I post an old photo of when I was a lot smaller so you guys can get your feet wet, my injuries are gone and I am now ready t go back into hardcore training so I will be posting more photos in the future so you can see the difference on how much I have grown.
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Yeah the timelines don't really seem to match up with MD being the cause
In my mind there sort of has to be a significant organic driver in that August window for it to be a 'real world' explanation, maybe it's just the forgotten getbig masses annual August pilgrimage in anticipation of The Trainer's long delayed pic update who knows
The total includes guests (unregistered users) as well as registered users. Some of the unregistered are probably scraping bots.
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Yeah the timelines don't really seem to match up with MD being the cause
In my mind there sort of has to be a significant organic driver in that August window for it to be a 'real world' explanation, maybe it's just the forgotten getbig masses annual August pilgrimage in anticipation of The Trainer's long delayed pic update who knows
If they're looking up ancient posts, it's gotta be some archiving bot type thing, surely? I wonder if any MD exiles have been approved yet and introduced themselves? I know Ron took months to approve my account so wonder if that's the case still
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The total includes guests (unregistered users) as well as registered users. Some of the unregistered are probably scraping bots.
Yeah agreed Raymondo, its been all Guests behind the rapid, unprecedented jump and doesn't feel like real people to me, as much as I like the Waiting for Godot The Trainer theory lol
If they're looking up ancient posts, it's gotta be some archiving bot type thing, surely? I wonder if any MD exiles have been approved yet and introduced themselves? I know Ron took months to approve my account so wonder if that's the case still
I had a look a few weeks ago or so at the height of the influx and a lot of the Guest viewing was high turnover to ridiculously old threads from 10-15+ years ago, threads with hardly any replies and talking about old sporting games or other really minor stuff: not like iconic Suckmymuscle threads that people want to revisit from time to time.....like this one for example haha
As for new approvals, there was a bit of an uptick in Dec, with 72 (2023 mthly average 62) so maybe some MDers in there
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Is there a current update on this matter?
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Is there a current update on this matter?
Nothing in almost a decade now
2011: existential crisis where one turns (naturally) to getbig
2012 - 2014: numerous proclamations of eternal compatability with new girl, steroid board posting, finally fixing the keyboard which had made some of his posts almost literally unintelligible
April 2014 - 2024: Radio silence
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Fake your death and start a new life breeding frogs and using their skin for shoes. Then sell the shoes to hebrews.
Bench
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Fake your death and start a new life breeding frogs and using their skin for shoes. Then sell the shoes to hebrews.
Bench
This, also make lifts that are 4 ½ inches to celebrities (like Sly)
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Ok so why did MD shut down? I never visited there so no idea what went on.
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Nothing in almost a decade now
2011: existential crisis where one turns (naturally) to getbig
2012 - 2014: numerous proclamations of eternal compatability with new girl, steroid board posting, finally fixing the keyboard which had made some of his posts almost literally unintelligible
April 2014 - 2024: Radio silence
:D
I remember the period where he had the broken keyboard and then he started posting normally again after he got it fixed later. I also remember a thread where he logged his experience taking 300mg/day of dbol. That ended predictably, with him being forced to stop after side effects became too much like 2 weeks in. Good sense of humor about it though LOL